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Hey there, my name is Amanda.I am the type of person whom will tell you things straight up. Go ahead, ask me any question. If I can't answer it, I'll try my best to help you find it. I'm online a lot so questions will be answered asap.

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Anyways about me,
Loverocks has just been a nickname for me for about 6 years now. I am 26 years old, happily married to my hubby of 10 years. I am a stay at home mom of 4 great kids. Proud cub scout and girl scout mom. Also proud to be mom of a gifted child. Me and my hubby are starting our own auto repair biz. So...I'm a part time mechanic. Right now one of my main goals is to raise my kids the best I know how. I love to pull minor jokes on my friends and family. Dance with my kids and listen to my rock and country cd's.

advice

what do you think of these i'm graduating 8th grade and if you don't like these can you give me links to some cute ones?!


http://store.delias.com/itemProcess.do?itemID=49632&categoryID=424&page=1&destination=wishlist&color=MUL&size=&quantity=1&shipToMeOrOther=ME

http://store.delias.com/item.do?itemID=49635&categoryID=424

http://store.delias.com/item.do?itemID=49629&categoryID=424

http://store.delias.com/item.do?itemID=49457&categoryID=424

I would say the white one is best.

~loverocks~

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Well, i'm a 14 year old girl so all of you probably think i'm very immature but please help, i need advice. You see my first boyfriend broke up with me a few days ago, at least officially. We were in a 10 month relationship. I don't count the last month because he was distant at times and then lovey dovey at others. One night he would tell me how much he loves me and then the next he'd be cold and tell me to leave him alone. Finally he got the guts a few days ago to tell me its over completely and he no longer loved me. I tried to understand what had happened and all he said was he didn't deserve to feel guilty. That he had to pull the trigger on the gun and had to deal with all the pain. So since i'm young i have to know, do i have a right to be mad? i mean, now he says he just wants to be friends but i mean does a guy really mean that when he says it? that he just wants to be friends? and then i still have feelings for him and it hurts alot. i mean can a guy really just forget the feelings he has for a girl that easily?

I can understand your anger but here's the thing....
Nobody can tell you how he trully feels.I dont think he has forgotten his feelings for you. You see when someone says they still want to be friends means that they want you in there life even if its just as friends.

~loverocks~

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Hi
i really need help with a girl in my school named isabella. she is the best thing ever. i met her in 3rd grade, and now im in fifth.(i know im only 12 but who cares) she is the love of my life, and she is moving to a different school next year with my best friend, who also likes her. i am realy pissed because i have no idea what to do. i was thinking of buying something for her, or asking her out, ut if i do, she will never talk to me again. i knw how to play the guitar, and aot of other stuf. I REALLY need help. Can You Help?

Peace,
Cam, age 12, male

Cam,
If you want to get her a gift try getting her a webkinz. These are stuffed animals that comes with a secret code.You enter the code online and decorate its room and lots of other things. These are between $5-$30 Just depends on where you get it and which one you choose to get.

Also, I would watch asking her out cause some girls at that age don't really like things like that yet. My suggestion would be to tell her you like her but leave it at that. If she is ok with going out she will either ask you or she will give you big hints to ask her.

Here is a site that can help you locate a store near you that sells webkinz

http://customerservice.webkinz.com/storelocator/html/

Hope this helps.
~Loverocks~

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me and my best friend are in interesting situations and we just want to know which one people think is worse
ok so there is 3 guys involved we will call them bill, joe, and bob
ok so my friend liked bill for almost 2 years. she finally found another guy joe. she said forget bill he dont like her. so she started going out with joe. meanwhile her and bill had been talking but she still didnt think he liked her but they were becoming good friends. so shes going out with joe and bill then tells her that he is starting to fall for her. now bill remember is the guy she liked for almost 2 years then found joe. so bill now likes her but she is going out with joe. she likes them both and she just started going out with joe and the relationship is going well but bill is now flirting with her more and it makes her upset. ok so theres one situation the other is me.
i have liked bob for almost 3 years. well one of his good friends is bill but thts besides the point. i cant talk to bob because i am to shy and i start to feel pathetic for liking someone for so long and still cant talk to him. i find out a few months ago he may have liked me at one point but not sure and since i never talked to him i feel that i screwed everything up and that if i would just talk to him mabe things would be better. also i have never kissed a boy or had a boyfriend. i know its pathetic. i just seem to turn alot of guys down. and even weirder bobs best friend happens to be one of my friends and likes my best friends(the one with the situation above) sister.

Both are probably not the best situations to be in.

Your friend should ask herself which one do i like better. If she decides to stay with her bf I would tell the other guy that your just plain not interested. For you, the more you talk to someone the more calmer you will be.

~Loverocks~

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is theresome type f website where u can write in a problem from math and theyll help u solve it


specifically prefered is algebra

i need it so bad testing is NEXT WEKK I NEED A HELPERE TUTOR ONLINE

Tthankssss

I dont know of any problem solving site. But I found this to help you with your algebra skills.

http://www.algebrahelp.com/

Scroll to the bottom of that page to see the lessons.

Hope this helps a little.

~Loverocks

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right so i posted one before with the same title explaining my home job situation....
well it goes deeper than just pops trying to sabotage my career life... it got to the point where i was actually considering getting a new identity..... that is where the problem is... i found this random guy online... he says he offers the service of changing identities for you and he covers up the links and tracks... only problem is i am kind of skeptical about him... he wants half a grand and my picture and full name and stuff... oh and i have the choice of choosing a name for myself... only problem is i don't trust him enough to go with it... i mean this guy will have all my info! and what if i don't get a new one? and he uses mine for some crazy scam or something... i don't know... i really want to get out but i am not sure he's ligit... plus he wants the money wired... so if it goes there is no way on earth i'm getting it back... is there any other "safer" ways for me to get this new identity??/? helpp!!!

I dont know how to really help you with the first part.

But beware of people like that who wants all your info. That aint nothing but a trick to get your info and use it for themselves.

Sorry couldn't help you no more than that.

~Loverocks~

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there was this cute boy in this really boring club with me. we would sit in back at the meetings and talk the whole time. talking turned to flirting. soon enough we were CONSTANTLY texting. he was the one who would start the conversations. he had never done anything with a girl before which i didnt understand considering how attractive he is, then again he is a germophobe. well eventually i started to like him alot, and we admitted to liking each other. he would constantly be texting me and saying cute things but tennis invaided most of his time so we wouldnt get to chill till summer but it was okay cause it was the end of the year. he would aleays go on and on about how strongly he felt and how he didnt really know what to say since he hadnt ever been with anyone but that i was really important to him. like he went over the top a little. things with us werent public at all. finally we hung out the weekend before the last week of school and believe me, he was nothing of a germophobe. we talked about becomming official and the next time we chilled he asked me to be his girl and we ended up doing some sexual stuff... we hooked up, i gave him hand and he fingered me. all of which were things he insisted on. well anyways the next day he had people over and didnt even invite me and then he said we were moving to fast and that we should go back to just seeing each other but not being official yet. i was crushed. the texts continues where he either said sweet things or told me how horny i make him. then i left for camp for over a month. i came back and he no longer wanted me. i was crushed beyond belief. one of my friends who is also friends with him texted him asking why he didnt wanna be with me anymore and he said he never was. he wouldnt talk to me. i hated him. finally we started talking as friends. school ended up starting and i decided to find out the truth from him of why he acted how he did. he really is a nice kid and not one to play games and according to everyone he had really liked me. well he told me he never liked me at all and asked to still be friends. HAH! i cried and i let him affect me for so long thinking i wasnt good enough and feeling used. he hasnt been with enyone else this full year and ive heard more and more about his germophobia. apparently he told some people the reason he ended things with me and him is because of his fear of germs getting the worst of him. i dont know what i think. do you think he liked me ever? did he just use me even though he really isnt that type of guy? if so why would he go out of his way just to hurt me? and why do i want to be friends with him so bad again?

I believe he likes you but his fears are keeping him from getting close to you. Germaphobes are very picky with everything they touch and are near. I would try being friends. Also, learn what you can about this phobia of his.

~Loverocks~

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HII :]
I had my baby April 14th :]
We named her Riley James Court.
I ended up moving in with my boyfriend in feb.
we are getting married in August.
im super excited.

but i need some wedding tips and ideass.
help me out.

thanksss.

I would make as much as I could myself. For example finger sandwiches for the reception. You can even arrange your own bouquet. A cute idea is to make a personal wrapper with your names and wedding date on them for the mini hershey candies.

~loverocks~

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i am 14/f and i have very thick curly frizzy poofy hair and i dont know how to deal with it! i am very skinny for my age i am only 90 pounds wen i am 5'5' and my hair is too big for my body!

what are the best products for my hair and different hair style for it!

please help. i will appreciate it so much.! thanks!

I was born with curly hair too. I use Garnier Fruictis curl and shine shampoo. After combing my hair I put in their leave in Conditioning cream. It moisturizes your hair to keep the curls but without the poof. Not sure on hairstyles. I usually wear mine down or put up in a pony tail.

~Loverocks~




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I am vegan but NEED milk in my coffee. I use soy milk, but it has approx. 110 calories per cup and I use a lot. I try not to consume so many liquid calories. Is there something similar with half the calories? Any suggestions would be great!!!

Fat free /plain/ fortified Soy milk it is has only 70 calories. This site has a chart on milks.

http://www.sixwise.com/newsletters/05/08/17/soy_milk_rice_milk_or_almond_milk_which_is_the_best_alternative_milk_for_you.htm

~Loverocks~

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13/f

my best friends boyfriend likes me A LOT.
a couple days ago we were watching softball ***school thing*** and he played me a song. He said "listen to it". It was Far Away by Nickleback. I love that song. I didn't think anything by it. But today at lunch if he really felt that way and he said yes. So the song was in my head and i was listening to it on my ipod. "I dont like him i just really love the song." and my best friend got mad at me because i was listening to the song that explained his feelings. Please help me

She might think you like him and want to steel him. Show your friend you dont and that you are a good friend by only playing the song privately.
If you have to explain to her you have no interest in him. I would suggest not asking him his feelings anymore because this might give mixed signals too.

~Loverocks~



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first of all shes really not my friend she use to be, (but you know what she did the same thing to me)and he was mine untill she stoll him from me lied about it and toled him that i did something and he broke up with me.second hes not going behind someones back at all.and i know that i'll get him b/c i already have him she doesn't know it, buthe doesn't do long distance any way.

Hun, can you please explain everything in more details. I don’t care if its long I'll read it. That way I can get all the facts straight. Also, what exactly is your question?

Thanks Bunches,
~Loverocks~

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you can only get HPV by having sex right?

Here is what I found on webmd

"These sexually-transmitted HPV viruses are spread through contact with infected genital skin, mucous membranes, or bodily fluids, and can be passed through intercourse and oral sex. HPV can infect skin not normally covered by a condom, so using a condom does not fully protect you from the virus."

~Loverocks~

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i only be out with him for 2 weeks. we never kissed, we never dated, we only sa each other in high school and held hands. i felt like we were just close friends and he was like a puppy dog that doesnt think for him self so i broke it off. he called me late '05 he told me he lives in Hawaii, i live in Califriona. last year he told me he is in love with me. why? he was going to get married but it didnt work out. he said he told her that i was his ex girl friend. she knew he still likes me. i never call him or give any sign of liking him back. i told him i am bi sexual and crushing on a girl that i met in class at college. but he still likes me. why does he waste his time over me? he is at a differnt state WTF!?!?

He must really like you a lot. I would just tell him that your not interested in him that way.


~Loverocks~

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I came on my period about 10 days early does that necessarily mean im pregnant.

No you shouldn't be. Lots of people have irregular periods. Here are some reasons why you might have that problem.

1. weight loss or gain
2. increased exercise
3. emotional stress
4. illness
5. travel

Hope this helps
~Loverocks~

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okay so ive been thinking that maybe my "best friend" isnt really such a good one
it was hard enough when i didnt really have any reason to not like her(but i did always get really angry an jealous cause every guy we were ever hanging out with that ide show intrest in she would flirt with like no other and end up hooking up with them)

but now im seeing a new but really not new two-faced side of her

it was always there and i just didnt see it

so she lies to me about everything then gets offended that i dont "trust" her even though i have reason too

we both did e but then quit and she lies about it and i eventually find out shes doing it again

she lies about really pretty much everything i just wanted to use an example

she lies and lies till she is caught then she makes up some lame excuse and lies some more

then she cheated on her boyfriend and lost her virginty to a guy she knew for 1 day(btw shes 13)

and told him about it then he freaked out and she told him he was being over dramatic

even though that wasnt to me i realized how fucked up it was

then she gave me her drink(and she was sober) and i was way drunk and got really sick and started vomiting and almost choked on it and had a bunch of people i didnt even know help me and she didnt

then they called to have me picked up and she knew and didnt come with me even though she was supposed to and we came to the party together and these we my friends as it was

soo now i dont know what to do cause she just seems like a worst and worst person by the day never the less a best friend

it really hard to just leave her especially with how messed up she is
i wanna help her but i dont know what to do cause she is just too big of a lier..


pleasee help!

Friends tell the truth and they help eachother in any way they can. I would tell her about all of her lies and actions. If I were you I wouldn't put up with it either. I would give her a chance only if she changed.

~Loverocks~

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so im 15/f.
most of my friends dont smoke. but most of my boyfriend (who lives 30 mins away) friends do smoke and has asked me to try it before but i said no. my mom and brother smoke and sometimes i dont mind the smell depending on the brand. my boyfriend is against smoking and said he'd never do it. and i told him i never would either. but for some reason i want to try it. and i hope you dont judge me for that.i just dont want to get addicted or have my boyfriend be disapointed or angry. i talked to his friends who smoke and they say i wont get addicted by just trying it once. i think i wont like it but i just want to know. i know most of you will say not to do it. but i'd just like a 2nd opinion. thank you and please dont judge me.

Well, I know lots of family and friends who just can't stop even though they want to. One of which got hooked after her first cigarette.
If I were you I wouldn't try it because if you start you might not be able to stop. Plus with peer pressure too it would be hard.

~Loverocks

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Ok me and this guy are pretty close. Well this week his friends sister got hit by some guy. "my guy" hates when a woman gets hit so we was pretty hot and so was this girls brother who is my guys friend. They went to where she lived and stayed the night. Well the other night they was workin on a car and my guys phone went off and I read the text and it turned out it was that guys sister. I asked him who that was in front of everyone he flipped out because I asked whot hat was in front of everyone. Well I took him home that night and he asked me to go to where she lives he was gonna stay the night, because the dude that hit her might come back. Well something just seems weird about it if this girl got hit by a man wouldnt her family be takin care of it? Or am I worrying over something stupid because I accused him of being at that girls house last night and he was like I have nothing to hide or to explain i dont wanna be in a relationship? And this girls family is really protective so if something was to hapen wouldnt that girls brother flip out on my guy?

Yes a protective family always trys to step in. They wont let nothing happen if they can help it.

That sounds wierd to me him wanting to stay at her house. He should've suggested her brother to stay if he's that concerned. Just my opinion.

~Loverocks~

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can anyone give me any? julian casablancas is from the band called The Strokes, btw. like pics of them together and stuff.

Sorry my mistake. Let me correct this here is what I found.

http://images.google.com/images?hl=en&ie=UTF-8&q=juliet+and+julian+casablancas+pictures&um=1

Hope this helps. (:

~Loverocks~



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slideshows pictures for myspace collage etc whats the website for that? like theres different effects on how your pictures are goonna appear like example the box that rolls around with picrures in each side


i lost the website and do u know whta it is?

www.slide.com is what most people use.

~Loverocks~

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