me and my best friend are in interesting situations and we just want to know which one people think is worse
ok so there is 3 guys involved we will call them bill, joe, and bob
ok so my friend liked bill for almost 2 years. she finally found another guy joe. she said forget bill he dont like her. so she started going out with joe. meanwhile her and bill had been talking but she still didnt think he liked her but they were becoming good friends. so shes going out with joe and bill then tells her that he is starting to fall for her. now bill remember is the guy she liked for almost 2 years then found joe. so bill now likes her but she is going out with joe. she likes them both and she just started going out with joe and the relationship is going well but bill is now flirting with her more and it makes her upset. ok so theres one situation the other is me.
i have liked bob for almost 3 years. well one of his good friends is bill but thts besides the point. i cant talk to bob because i am to shy and i start to feel pathetic for liking someone for so long and still cant talk to him. i find out a few months ago he may have liked me at one point but not sure and since i never talked to him i feel that i screwed everything up and that if i would just talk to him mabe things would be better. also i have never kissed a boy or had a boyfriend. i know its pathetic. i just seem to turn alot of guys down. and even weirder bobs best friend happens to be one of my friends and likes my best friends(the one with the situation above) sister.
Your friend should ask herself which one do i like better. If she decides to stay with her bf I would tell the other guy that your just plain not interested. For you, the more you talk to someone the more calmer you will be.
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