It's not that I'm bitchy, just that I'm right. Sorry if you're too stupid to comprehend.
About me? I'm in an interracial relationship- have been for overs year. He's black; I'm white. We're pretty rad, if I do say so myself.
I live in Florida. I'm a high school graduate. I like to knit. I don't take my own advice, simply because I'm stubborn. I have a big family. Also,I have a experience with children and babies. I like to party party party and get wasted. I like to smoke cigarettes. I like to snuggle. That's all you need to know. :)
++I don't answer questions nicely [if at all] to thirteen year olds, no matter their problem.
++I have also stopped answering the whole "DOES HE LIKE ME?!?!" questions. Communication is key, people. If you want to know, ASK.
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Some girl purchased sunglasses from me on ebay and she said once she received it in the mail, it had scratches all over it and it looked like it had been sat on after being used. I explained to her that they were in perfect condition when I shipped them, they have never been worn, and had absolutely nothing wrong with it. Now, shes accusing me of lying and demands a refund. I figured it either got damaged while it was in the mail or she just doesn't like it and wants her money back, but she refuses to accept it. In my description, I said all sales are final and I am not responsible for any lost or damaged items. And now she's reporting me to Ebay because she can't get a refund. (Which she knew she wouldnt be able to get when she bidded on my item.) I feel bad that her sunglasses got damaged, but I had them safely wrapped and shipped in perfect condition, so it's not my fault. Plus, she's being rude and ridiculous, so I refuse to even do anything nice for her, like bend my rules. So is there way I could get in trouble for something like that? (link)
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Don't wait for Ebay to contact you. Instead, report her and contact them first. It's not like you have anything to hide. Tell an administrator your situation and about how in your post you stated that all sales are final, they should be able to look that up.
Also, don't bicker back and forth with the girl: because you really don't owe her anything anyway, and there's no way for her to just zap her money back from your account.
Deal directly with Ebay.
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If I were to buy these converse (kind of a pastel-purple color)... what clothes would match with it?
http://www.converse.com/?CSID=596#/products/shoes/chucktaylor/112422F
Would somebody be able to give me some examples of colors/combination of shirts/pants that would look good with them?
Also, if you could send me links to some cute shirts or pants that you've seen that will look good, please send!
thank you! (link)
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Definitely dark wash blue jeans and really any kind of neutral shirt. I agree with the person below me though, gray would really look cute.
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im going to the bahamas for spring break, and the weather looks terrible. like thunderstorming the first day, rain the second day, cloudy the third day, cloudy the fourth day. will this ruin my vacation? like will i have nothing to do? thanks (link)
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Rain is not uncommon in the Bahamas, that's just how it is. I'm going to assume you're going to a main island like Nassau, since you didn't say. There are tons of things to do even when it's sprinkling. Pull some shorts over your swim suit and go exploring while you wait for the rain to pass- maybe you'll even find an exciting place to go for a drip when it clears up. [:
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So last night,in a nutshell my boyfriend of 3 months broke up with me.I know it wasn't that long of a time period,but it was the longest relationship I've ever had because I've never had one before! He's never had a serious one like me either. He told me the reason for him breaking up with me is because "he needs space ,he feels like he sees me as a really good friend,and that he doesn't like me as much as he used to" . While we were dating,we were together 24/7 (which i guess was a bad thing). We'd fight on occasion about typical couple fights but never anything too serious.We always were so happy and laughing and doing fun things all the time.He doesn't drive/have a car and I do ,...so i would drive him and his friends around and we'd go so many places all the time and I'd buy him stuff..I basically treated him like a king and I cared to much (which he said I did) .He told me that he "swears to god on the bible ,im the most amazing girl he's ever met" and he said that i'm so cute and whatnot.At first he said he wanted to take just a "break" but then kinda changed his mind. I was sooo blindsighted by this because I had no intentions or had any idea that there was something wrong with our relationship,so our breaking up was completely random.I was so close with his family and friends and they all said " to keep me because im such a good girl" but I just want him back.I did hangout with him and get in his personal space wayyyy to much and when he confronted me about it,we didn't hangout for like one day and then went back to being around eachother all the time.His brother is down from college and he's supposed to go up to the college for a few days (we are on spring break) and then come back and im hoping that's when he will maybe start to miss me.He told me he loved me several times,cried over me in front of my face and was just always there for me so I don't know why this was happening.Do you think maybe soon he'll try and come back? What should I do if he talks to me? (link)
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Boys are stupid sometimes, that's just how it is. Now, I'm not saying anything purely against them, because sometimes girls are stupid too.
Give him some space. I know how hard it is to not text him or call him or be next to him when you were practically inseparable (trust me, I know this from experience) for a few months, but let him figure himself out. If he comes back- that's fantastic, I hope it works out... but if he doesn't come back, then it wasn't meant to be. It's cruel and it's awful and it hurts like hell... but if it was meant to be, he wouldn't jerk you around constantly.
If he talks to you, keep your composure. You're a lady, remember? You're classy, you know how to handle yourself. Remember this! You don't NEED him, you just like having him around. Don't be bitter, don't snap at him. Just talk to him. He didn't mean to hurt you, he just wanted to be honest with you, after all, and you can't blame someone for telling the truth.
Things get complicated when you know each other's families or if you share mutual friends or anything of the sort, but try not to make people pick sides. No one has to be miserable in this, really.
But remember- SPACE. He warned you of this. Let him come to YOU. If he does- it's good news.
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the guy im dating's kisses are pretty gross, he is alot bigger than me and he slobbers from my chin to over my nose its pretty bad.. i told him follow my lead, close ur mouth, just relax and all that kind of stuff but he doesnt seem to really get it. how can i teach him or show him how. i already give tips sweetly as we kiss, and i do hold through even though its very gross on my part and to be nice. its to the point i move away from a simple peck kiss pretty quick because i dont want him to start that.. but haha any advice?? (link)
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Try to make it a game like simon says. That way, you don't hurt his ego, but you get as much pleasure as you'd like.
Tell him that if he wants to kiss you, he's going to have to kiss you -insert certain preference here- and if you don't think it's acceptable then he doesn't get any more kisses. Make him close his eyes so he can't see you coming, and show him- slowly- exactly how you want it and repeat the process.
It doesn't matter exactly how you do it, just be patient with him. Make it fun, keep it lighthearted and don't hurt the poor boy just because he isn't as experienced as you'd like. [:
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I am A 36 year old Gay man who has been in a relationship for over 7 months. We hit it off right away, and everything was going good. I then found A profile on a friend sight that he was single and looking for action, I have even him caught him chatting to other guys in a sexual nature, but he states that the profile was only a joke, and that I should not take it serious, because I am the only one for him. Even though he knows I am not happy about his profile, he still hasn't changed it. On top of that, Our sexual relationship is almost non existant, unless I make the first move. I am also the one who always calls him, he never makes an effort to call me, And he still keeps a picture of his ex in his wallet. Everything he tells me reassures that he cares about me, But his actions tell a different story. He has been in long term relationships in the past, and has been hurt just like anybody else, I know he also has a problem with alcohol. Do you think I am dating someone who Is not ready to settle down and have a commitment, Or someone who is not into me? (link)
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Sweetheart, you know you deserve better than this. You shouldn't have to be chasing down some guy that sounds like he just isn't that into you anymore. A good boyfriend would have made a change in their life if they knew that it meant that much to you, and he didn't. He doesn't have to erase every ex out of his life forever, but you should be high enough up there on his priority list and you clearly aren't. I think it's time to move on and prove to him that you don't have to chase anyone down, they'll come to you. ;]
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this kid really really likes me, i kinda like him.
but the problem is i dont wanna be made fun of with him because hes not really the best lookin of kid. and i dont know. i might not like him cuz of this. i dont know what i think! give me some advice to cheer me up! and just get over that fact. im looking at his personality, not his outer appearance.
i dont think this is a very big problem but i could use some help.
thanks. (link)
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Definitely don't think about whatever other people think. Not everyone will always approve of what you do- but you aren't living to make them happy. You should live to make YOU happy. If you think this kid has a good personality and you allow yourself to like him, you will either get over the shallow part of you (because let's face it, we can all be shallow sometimes) and get to know him more, or you won't be able to get over the fact that he doesn't look like Orlando Bloom, and you'll break it off and move on.
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Am I too young to be giving my boyfriend a handjob or getting fingered? I mean we've been going out 2 months and we hooked up about a month before we went out...I feel almost scandalous when I do...I keep doubting my morals, there's a piece of me that wants to fight my hormones. Any personal experience or advice would help! Thank you! (link)
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If any piece of you wants to fight your hormones- then fight them. You can't regret not losing your virginity to someone who may or may not stick around. I speak from experience when I say that you should take your time. Figure out what you believe- think about your morals- and then go from there. You don't have to be just another teenage girl that's hooking up with whoever. You can be different and unique for having your own opinion and saving yourself for something amazing. If later down the road you think you're ready and you think it's time, then by all means, then you can go for it.
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I have a best friend that is a year younger than me and we have been friends for 10 years. I am 14 btw. I used to have two other best friends of my own age. One day they just told me that they didn't like me and that my boyfriend had changed my personality. The meaner of the 2 who was doing all the talking, I'll call her Sally told me that I was nothing like I used to be. It has been almost a year, and "sally" and I still talk often. I also talk to the one that wasn't doing much talking "Emily." My best friend and boyfriend both disapprove of me talking to either of themm but I just don't know what to do. Oh and Emily and Sally are quite friendless besides eachother too. Please, help me I can't decide if I should talk to them or not because we were close for soo long. (almost 4 years) Also, Sally is always putting me down, but that's just her personalityy. (link)
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Don't be friends with people that put you down- it's that simple. It doesn't matter if you're fourteen or forty, you shouldn't be around verbally abusive people. Obviously these girls have issues of their own to work out and it's not your job to sit around being their punching bag. Surround yourself with good people.
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Okay so I was in an amazing relationship with this guy Kris and it was total bliss but at the end of the summer I kinda broke it off since I felt like it was just a summer fling or whatever. Anyways both of us had the mutual feeling of sadness and what not. So today after rowing practice I was walking to Starbucks with all my friends and I saw him walking up the street with some chick. For some weird reason I kinda felt angered by it and they suddenly stopped walking as my friends and I were about to pass them. They said their good byes (I think) and she continued to walk past us giving me like a bitch stare or whatever and Kris went inside our school's pool area but before that we passed him and he stared at me for like 5 seconds then continued walking. I was like WTF. I mean I thought I was over him... guess not? Maybe that's why I kinda felt angered by it? This by the way would be the second time I saw him hanging out with this chick and mind you this chick is ugly as fuck. (link)
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Maybe you aren't over him, there's nothing wrong with that. But if this guy has a girlfriend, then you should stay classy, and let it end on it's own. If you so desire, you can casually tell your guy that you're interested, but you aren't looking to steal some other girl's man.
Don't be 'the other woman' for some guy, though. If he can't realize who the better catch is, that's his fault- not yours, and you should move on.
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I want to give my bf the best bday gift. we've been together for over 4yrz and i want to getaway, such as cruise or a week vacation. Does anyone has any places they recommend? I live in the US and would like to keep a week vcation not so far from the US. It doesnt have to be romantic it can be fun and Adventures.thanks!! (link)
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Well, it depends on what type of guy he is, I suppose.
Panama City, FL has a fantastic beach and this time of the year, it's still hot but there aren't many tourists. Washington, D.C. is suprisingly fun even if you aren't a bookworm.
You could go see Yellowstone or NYC, if you haven't been. If his birthday is in the winter time, you two could have a couple days ski vacation in somewhere like Utah, north New York, Idaho [those types of places]. New Orleans is always a neat trip for me. Jacksonville, FL is also beautiful.
Remember in your vacation planning, to look for places online for discounts. Places like www.hotels.com are a great place to start.
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i am 16 years old and i need a job that pays under the table located at lynn mass. (link)
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Ask around. There are still jobs out there, you just have to know where they are. Be a babysitter. Wash cars. Petsit. Get involved with community projects. Get connections with people that have jobs and that may have openings some where.
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i need some good rap with a lot of bass , and of course a good beat to dance to . thanks in advance (link)
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In addition to last.fm [as the previous person suggested] try www.pandora.com it's a personalized online radio, for free. I love it and use it nearly everyday.
But if you're just looking for artists.. I do love Gorilla Zoe [among others], and I don't think he's as popular as some other people.
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I had never heard of Kirby vacuum cleaners until the other night when a couple of Kirby salesmen came to my door asking if I wanted to have my carpets cleaned for free.
I won't go into the details about Kirby's sales techniques, which I do find unappealing, but I'm curious if anybody out there has bought a Kirby vacuum and if you think it's worth the price.
I can tell you that they were asking more than $1,800 for the newest model (the Sentria). The lowest they would go was $1180. I never knew vacuums could cost so much so I figured that these Kirby vacuum cleaners must be something you would use practically forever! And I ended up passing on the offer -- even though the vacuum was quite impressive itself.
Anyone have experiences with Kirby vacuum cleaners? Are they worth the money in your opinion? (link)
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My mother bought her Kirby literally 20+ years ago. I believe hers did cost around a thousand... but she still uses it and loves it. We have a local Kirby store that always has replacement hoses if we need them, or another part.
So.. yes. A vacuum cleaner that lasts more than twenty years- no joke - is definitely worth the price.
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okay, so i've been wanting the Blackberry PEARL.
and i'm withverizon.
but i'm wondering do I HAVE to buy internet with it?
cause my friend has altell and she has the same phone.
yet her interent was freee.
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I have an Alltel Blackberry Pearl and my phone has internet with it, but I want to say that the internet came in the service package. (Which might be why it seems "free" to her).
I do know someone that has a Blackberry Pearl that does NOT have the internet on it, though, I'm not sure what kind of service you have.
Try checking the verizon website, or call a local store. They'd have the best answers.
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Does Walt Disney World in Orlando Florida offer free or discounted tickets for disabled and developmentally delayed children? I want to go on vacation at Walt Disney World in Orlando, FL but my little brother is mentally handicapped and we were wondering if we could get a discounted ticket for him since he is unable to ride all of the attractions and what have you.
Any help please... (link)
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Call! The worst thing that will happen is they'll say no. But in these economic times, I'm sure they'd accept your brother at a discount [or for free] if that means they get the rest of your family in the park.
I'm sure they have a website, too, if you have any other questions.
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I love to ride horses but where I ride is like 35 minutes away. My mom wants me to start riding at a closer farm, but I LOVE the place I go to now. What should I do? (link)
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Either find another way to get to the farm you love or accept that your mother is your ride, and you should be appreciative of where she lets you ride.. you can't really do anything other than that. Sorry.
Oh, and it's more helpful if you put stuff in the right category, when you're asking questions.
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So after working 6 months of 9 hour days on my feet...
I have lower back pain so bad it takes my breath away. My muscles are super tense and wound up all of the time. My lower back appears swollen, and when my boyfriend gives me a back massage in that area it creaks and cracks under his hands a lot?!
I'm taking 4/6 extra strength Tylenol a day just to get by now. (For the past 2 weeks)
Do you think I should I see a doctor?
I'm looking for some advice on back pain, remedies etc as well. (link)
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Go to the chiropractor. Your doctor may or may not reccomend one, but they work wonders. Be sure to NOT go to one where they just kind of feel and rub and press and hope it feels better. Chiropractors that use the machine to adjust you are said to be the best and most accurate ones. They'll definitely know what to do to help you.
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I'm making a list of fun things I want to do this summer, but it's not super long. I need some suggestions?
Some of the things I have already are things like:
- Sleep on the trampoline under the stars.
- Draw with sidewalk chalk.
- Buy and play on a Slip n Slide.
Any suggestions would be great :) (link)
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To add to that list:
-Explore down town
-Try a locally owned restaurant
-Help a stranger
-Learn a new hobby or craft [paint, make cards, learn an instrument, learn to knit]
-Go to any [and every] park nearby.
-Go to the beach/theme park
-Volunteer for a good cause [public library, retirement home, that type of thing]
-Try a new hair style or color
-Hotel pool hop [don't get caught!]
-Treat yourself to a special treat
-Go camping
-Go to a museum nearby
-Drive.. just to drive, not to go anywhere, and get lost on purpose [might want to make sure you bring a GPS with you]
Those are some of the things I have on my summer to do list. Hope it helps [:
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I cant find the lion king online anywhere for a decent price because it is in the "Disney Vault" I cant buy it on itunes, download it at all, or buy it on amazon and i really want it. any ideas where to get it (link)
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You can buy just about anything between Ebay, Amazon and craigslist.
http://dvd.shop.ebay.com/?_from=R40&_trksid=p3907.m38.l1313&_nkw=Lion+King&_sacat=11232
http://www.amazon.com/Lion-King-Disney-Special-Platinum/dp/B00003CXB4/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=dvd&qid=1239061805&sr=1-1
www.craigslist.com < On craigslist you buy gently used things from people that are local to you.
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