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WHY AM I STILL NOT OVER HIM?!
Okay so I was in an amazing relationship with this guy Kris and it was total bliss but at the end of the summer I kinda broke it off since I felt like it was just a summer fling or whatever. Anyways both of us had the mutual feeling of sadness and what not. So today after rowing practice I was walking to Starbucks with all my friends and I saw him walking up the street with some chick. For some weird reason I kinda felt angered by it and they suddenly stopped walking as my friends and I were about to pass them. They said their good byes (I think) and she continued to walk past us giving me like a bitch stare or whatever and Kris went inside our school's pool area but before that we passed him and he stared at me for like 5 seconds then continued walking. I was like WTF. I mean I thought I was over him... guess not? Maybe that's why I kinda felt angered by it? This by the way would be the second time I saw him hanging out with this chick and mind you this chick is ugly as fuck.
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you clearly made a decicion to end the relationship in Summer ( A fling) he was good enough to accept his fate of being dumped. so he is a romantic and he found someone new to give his affection too. The fact she is not as attractive as you tells me he is not shallow but genuine. You let him go and he didn't come back suggest he wasn't too in love to chase you. let it go. Jeolousy is a destructive force Step up and give him your blessings. His new squeeze isn't going to surrender him so move on.
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Maybe you aren't over him, there's nothing wrong with that. But if this guy has a girlfriend, then you should stay classy, and let it end on it's own. If you so desire, you can casually tell your guy that you're interested, but you aren't looking to steal some other girl's man.
Don't be 'the other woman' for some guy, though. If he can't realize who the better catch is, that's his fault- not yours, and you should move on.
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