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can you tell by actions?
Well, in my numerous other questions I stated that I liked my band drum major. I do, still, now I would like to go about this that I can be a good flirt without words, I don't want to be the girl to show a guy I like him with words. So, my friend says he looks at me whenever I look away or at someone else. She said when he looks at me it's like I'm the most important girl on the Earth. She said he just gets this look in his eyes that is unexplainable. When I look away, she looks at him and she also stated that every time I am not looking at him, he looks at me and smiles HUGE. Another thing that makes me think he has a minuscule amount of feelings is, he talks to everyone in the band like his best friends and when it comes to me he doesn't talk to me he is such an outgoing person but when he gets to me, he's so shy, heck maybe that means he doesn't like me, i just don't know! he also doesn't yell at me if I do something wrong (he yells at anyone in the band who is goofing off, except me). I think he likes me, to be honest. It's hard to tell though because both of us are shy kind of people that don't confront the person we like. However, we have so much in common, our favorite number is 8 and our favorite color is green, we are both in band, he's quiet around new people as am I. We both know how to have fun and we both don't care what others think. People, please, don't answer this 'he likes you, talk to him' like I said, I don't want to be the overbearing crush that never leaves the boy alone. Tell me how I can be a better flirt with JUST looks and things from far away. I am never close with him, one on one because he is always on the podium conducting and when he isn't conducting my band director has him doing something else. So, tell me how I can flirt when he's on the podium and I'm on the ground. Also, tell me your take on if he likes me or not.
->thanks to anyone who read this! I appreciate it!
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Hi,
It definately sounds as if he likes you! A guy wouldn't be looking at you when you look away if he wasn't interested. He is obviously shy and really wants to say 'hi' but is too shy to. Also, the look in his eyes.. and the HUGE smile.. they are SURE signals! The reason for his talking to you quietly, could be that he is unsure of how to approach you, doesn't know what to say, or is nervous. You have to remember, he is a shy guy :) and is probably going through some of the same things as you.
He doesn't yell at you because he wants to be respectful to you, not scare you away, and he wants you to respect him and know that you can come to him; that he is not someone who is scary or angry. He wants you to like him.
If you have so much in common, I am glad that you would like to give him signs back.
When He looks at you, hold eye contact for as long as possible and smile while doing so. This will show Him you have confidence AND are interested. Majority of guys always notice your eyes or wonderful smile first. You could also look at him,wait until he looks at you,wink,smile,and look away quickly. This will leave him thinking about you. You could play with your hair while he is looking or flip your hair, it really does work.
If you ever think you will get a few moments with him and have the courage (which you are capable of!), you could make a note saying 'Hey, I really like your (blank), would you like to get together sometime?' (or something simular) sign your name with a heart beside and slip it into his pocket or a place you know he will look.
When he knows you are interested and feel the same way as him, he will make a more clear effort to show he wants to be with you :)
I wish you the best of luck <3
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no expert, but maybe when youre sitting down, look at him occasionally, but the rest of the time look as if you aren't interested. when you look at him, if you cathes your eye, just look slightly amused and look away again. obviously this isn't flirting, but it will get him obsessed about it. if when you look at him, he's already lookng at you or it doesn't take long for him to notcie that you are watching him, then he obviously care whether your'e watching him. i think from the way you described him, it seems like he likes you, but maybe he's just being extra nice to you. to get him to ask you out, it mainly about looking at him in the right way, the kinda way to get him to start thiking about you, and smile often, but not for too long. sort of like, small occasional flirty smiles, but then look away or engross yourself in something else, so he comes to you. i dunno. hope it helps, he sounds like he likes you and vice versa. good luck xxx
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