Ok so this boy is 13 and my best friend is 14.
They have been going out for 5 days now but I know something as my cousin told me. Her boyfriend is a flirt and I already knew that, he chats up anyone he can basically...
Last night my cousin was talking to him and he was saying that he loves her and wants to send pics to her and for her to send back (dirty pictures)
I really don't know what to do... Should I tell her?
How can I tell her? Should I give it time?
Help!!
Don't tell her....unless she asks, it is not your place to tell her. I know it's hard, and it might not make sense...but even if you tell her that, does it really mean she's going to stop seeing this person? You can say, I think your boyfriend is a jerk. But...it will make her feel bad...and she's going to end up defending her.
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i have done sex with my girl friend after sex she got her period within 8days..is their any chances of getting peragnent?? last month she got her period on 17th april then she got on around 13th may and i did sex on 5th may is their any chances of gtting peragnent??
Did you guys use protection? How old is she? How old are you? Regardless of these questions, to YOU, it is completely possible no matter what, that a woman can become pregnant, if she has sex. Unless she has no uterus. Take a pregnancy test in two-three weeks, you can find cheap dollar ones, (USE TWO NOT JUST ONE) or you can go to a doctor and have them do a test on her. Either way, I can't tell you if she IS pregnant. But a doctor, FOR SURE can.
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As a 58 yr old, married female, I am embarrassed to say I put myself in a bad situation. Up to two yrs ago, I had a high paying job my entire working career and my independence. Chances of getting that back are slim to none. I have little to show for it now, with a small cash reserve, a modest IRA and 401k, but no income. Long story short, at my husband's insistence and his promise to provide, "I'll take care of everything, you don't have to worry, what's mine is yours" scenario, I quit my job and moved with him to a foreign county where he accepted an assignment where I cannot work. Meanwhile, he has benefited financially with my help and he controls all money, all decisions, keeps me completely in the dark about everything. I am on a need to know basis. If I say or do anything he does not like, I am threatened with divorce. He is not all bad and does not physically abuse me, but emotionally I feel ruined and my self esteem is low. Frankly, I am terrified of my future and I don't know what to do. I haven't mentioned that he is impatient, stubborn and doesn't listen to anyone most of the time. He makes promises he doesn't keep. After arguments or whenever he gets upset about something, he won't talk to me for days or weeks until I apologize for whatever it is and then he reprimands me further to "behave," and most (but not all) of the time he is at fault. I feel so lost, I can't make any decisions and don't know what to do. Any advice?
Now I can give you advice, heck...I could talk all day, about this and that...but it doesn't mean you're going to take it...Which...is sad...but...it happens. You read what you wrote, I mean right now, read it...and pretend it wasn't you that wrote it. Pretend it was...you're daughter, or a neice...a young girl you care deeply about...what is your advice to that young girl.
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21/f, 27/m
Just in case you may be wondering, if you believe in horoscopes. He's a Scorpio. I am a Pisces.
Please be patient. This may be long, I feel like you will need to know details to help me answer my question.
I have always wanted to be with a guy that may have more experience than me just because in my relationships, I have always been the one that has had the most experience (meaning, I was usually their first serious girlfriend). I realized that I cannot see what others may see from a third point of view. I am oblivious to things when I am in the situation or when things are not directly said towards me.
I have been talking/dating this guy for a month. The first time we dated/started talking, I thought I might have been a "booty call" because he was making dirty jokes here and there. Many people told me, if possible, don't get my feelings involved and "go with the flow." Personally, I don't think you can control your feelings. You can't help but like that person. So, instead I spoke to him about it. I told him that if I was a girl he was just trying to sleep with, then he should go elsewhere because he will not get it from me. He told me that he has not had a "booty call" for a long time and that he just wanted to test the waters and see if we would work out of not. Things got a lot better after we cleared things up, eventually we did have sex. He continued to see me afterward and we continued dating.
On one of our dates, I saw him on Tinder (an app where you can meet the opposite sex/whatever. If you both find each other attractive, you can message one another through the app), and I confronted him about it. He admitted to me that he gets on the app a few times a day. I started getting confused afterward. At one point, he stopped trying to have sex but we continued to see each other and went on dates, he was still a gentleman and that got me curious if he was seeing other people. I decided to confront him about it, again.
He told me that he still has a Tinder. He chats with people on it, but he doesn't date/see other people other than me. He asked me why I brought it up on the day I was to see him and I said it was because if he was to see other people, I wouldn't see him that day (the only reason being because I don't want to sleep with him/see him after another girl, etc). He told me he wouldn't mind being exclusive with me, if I wanted and that he wanted to continue to see me. Somehow this conversation started off with me being curious (wanting to make it fair, trying to see if it was exclusive or not) to me deciding whether or not if I wanted to be exclusive. He let me "sleep on it" to decide. I didn't know what I want. I WAS JUST CURIOUS!
He didn't bring it since then but today, he brought it back up and asked whether or not if I wanted to be exclusive. I asked him why all the sudden he wanted to ask, he said he was just curious. I told him there must be more of a reason for him to be asking me and this conversation pretty much went nowhere. I asked him what he wanted to then I could consider what he wants instead of not hearing what he would like to do. And he said my decision has more of an importance than his when I think his thoughts are equally important.
I noticed that he tends to turn tables on me a lot, he also redirects the conversation sometimes when I confront him about something. For example, when I see my coworker or guy friends, he tends to act a bit "off" and when I ask him if he's okay, he says that he's great when I sense that there may be something wrong. I told him to tell me if I ever upset him, if I ever do something he doesn't like, and he agrees with it... But for some reason, he becomes distant and sometimes he'd say, "you go on dates with other guys" or "he's probably taking you back to his place, etc" Jealous? I'm not sure. He told me he "knows better" than to be emotionally involved with me but yet, when he acts strange, he turns it around and says that I'm the one that is acting weird.
His actions are driving me crazy, I can't read into it. I can't see it. Some people see it as him being manipulative. Some see him being insecure. Me? I can't see anything. He has been telling me the truth this whole time but why do I feel like he's hiding something? Maybe I'm thinking too much into it and I'm the one destroying this relationship? What should I do? What do you see from this?
Hello mam, I'm glad that you've asked me this question. I want to first start off by saying, I'm always honest in my answer, and I'm not going to sugarcoat ANYTHING.
I'd LIKE TO SAY that I completely ADMIRE your ability to sense these things, that blind many other women. I applaud you on that. Do NOT give that ability up, because it's important. I have that feeling in the pit of my stomach thing too, and I always end up right. This man, in my opinion, is a butthead. I think, he's seeing other women, but he sees you as HIS. I feel like, what you brought up gave me those SAME feelings that you're feeling about the situation. He doesn't really care about your feelings, he lets you think what ever you want. He doesn't tell you anything about himself, because he doesn't want anything to slip out, or for him to accidently commit himself. In short terms, he doesn't care about you, he's trying to keep you as a side project....RUN!
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My friend is in a relationship. The guy she is dating is telling people that they are just friends but I know that they arent. He asked her to be his girlfriend and I witnessed this happen. Should I tell her that he is telling people they arent dating or not? Age: 16
Just you questioning whether or not you should tell her should tell YOU that you should leave it be. It isn't your business. You can only be there when she falls to catch her. Be there completely for her.
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i am a young lady aged 22 and my boyfriend is 25years,we are both still at university,i am from Botswana in Africa,i am my boyfriend's bestfriend and he is my bestfriend too..he has cheated,hurt me,betrayed me countless times and i have always learnt to trust him,give him all the attention and love i think he deserves cos i love him.lately he has changed from the cheating behaviour and he is trying to be a good man,i can see that and i appreciate it,PROBLEM,he is controlling,he never wants to to let me go out with my friends or sisters,he wants to know my passwords,he gets so angry when i miss his calls,he does'nt want me to have any male friends,HE DOES NOT TRUST ME,and i have never given him any reason to not trust me..everytime we hav a misunderstanding he raises his hand and voice at me..he has a high blood pressure problem,when he is stressed his bp goes high,and i dont know how to do this,cos i am scared he will get sick.SUNSHINE
Alright, no matter WHO here is going to give you advice on this problem, I need you to promise that you will take that advice and use it. I don't believe in once a cheater always a cheater, but I do believe in someone being a jerk for a reason. He doesn't trust you because he is still cheating on you. I wouldn't even face to face break up with him. I would stay as far away from him as possible. He could be a lunatic who will try an kill you for breaking up with you. I've seen and read many stories like this. You need to love yourself. And if you're with him, you hate yourself. It's a fact. Ditch him. He's a mean person. He isn't trying to change, he is trying to change you.
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hi, I'm 26 year old girl. i had an medical abortion on 2nd may. i used misoprostol for it. it almost bleeds one and half week. after that a little bleeding and brownish dischrage continues at the interval of 4-6 days which start n stops several time. all sympotms of pregnancy were gone. after three weeks on 24 may i took home test and it was positive. My last menstrual date was 23 april. and on 24 may i was feeling little pain in my pelvic same as on my period.....bleeding is also continue from 23 may and it is still going on...but the amount of bleeding is not so heavy....it soaks hardely one pad in a day. im confuse is it my period aur what???? i heard that after an abortion in next period bleeding will go heavily. im also confuse that termination is worked or not?? i dont want to go for an ultrasound....plz suggest me something. I'm suffering from so much stress.
I honestly think, that in the future, you should use birth control. It was your choice to have sex, but not that baby's choice to be created. You killed a baby because you wanted to get laid, or whatever readson, you should be safe. And not have an abortion. Hate me for what I said, it's the nicest way I could put it, but there it is. Boom. Go see a doctor.
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really weird question i know, i love women 100%, i've only been with women, i prefer deep relationships and i love foreplay, every inch of the female body is amazing.
but if im out of a relationship and its been a year or two between sexual encounters on a few occasions being insanely alone i enjoy to put on a womens bra, stuff socks inside and masterbate, thinking of a girl just getting love whether with a man or female, i have no female qualities and very secure in the fact that i am a man but is this a fetish of loneliness? why do i do this? i feel guilty and disgusted afterwards but when im in the moment feeling what would be breast is amazing at times. I don't know, scared to talk about this so if you have nothing nice to say please don't say anything at all. i am 23
I'd say, get a girlfriend. People do weird things. There are people that have POOP fetishes. What you're doing isn't that bad. You wanna see bad. Watch two girls one cup. Maybe that will make you feel better.
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Someone is blackmailing on kik. I sent him nude photo of mine, he want me to send again if I will not he said that he will post it online website wherein all country can see it. I dont know what to do. He said that he will spread it and all my friends can see it. Im afraid Im fron Hungary. Need help
Alright, I'll give you an answer, but you won't like it. IGNORE HIM. Really and truly, he just wants leverage over you. It's a picture. Do you know how many dirty pictures/ naked pictures/videos there are out there? It's just another picture. Also, if you don't want someone blackmailing you with naked pictures of yourself, don't send them.
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I started dating a girl in December, I'm not going to say all the normal love stuff, because, this was a normal relationship, we believed we were perfect for eachother, we loved eachother, ect. Her parents liked me, I went to church and all with them, they were Catholic I'm Baptist.
Well, she would always say how she's always hungry, she doesn't eat as much (later finding out they sometimes don't give her food for like a day or two), her parents call her names like slut, whore, bitch, just cause their mad or so, or they'd slap her, like, they slap her all the time when they don't get their way basically. Sometimes they whip them (her and her sister) with a belt I believe, but it never leaves bruises so she thinks it's "not illegal" because of that, but it burns and hurts her like hell. One time she said "my mother whipped me with a belt 15 times because I drew on the blinds"
Anyways on with the story, everything was normal, until the day before valentines day, her mom grounded her because we were 30 minutes late from the lake which was half a mile away. February 17th or 18th I forget, she got in a argument with her mom, as always the slapping, name calling, she was unhappy. We ran away in the middle of the night together, she said she was going to run away even if I didn't.
So, I protected her, we ran away, we were gone for 18 hours. When we came back, we went into the house and talked to the parents, well, the parents are HIGHLY manipulative and all so remember this later. The mother said how she doesn't even want my girlfriend there, if it wasn't for the dad she wouldn't be there, and responsibility this responsibility that, basically saying their all gonna die if she doesn't do things right, her mother is literally mentally unstable or something... The cop came obviously, the dad said I was a good kid he liked me and all, and we hugged when I left. Everything was normal.
The next day I went there, the mom was mad obviously, we hanged out for 2 or 3 weeks in a normal way. Then I had to goto another state for 3 weeks, I told them I was leaving, and I really was, but I had problems and went to the state over instead with my family for 5 days. Well, we snuck out when I got back because we knew we wouldn't be able to see eachother until the weekend, we always wanted to see eachother. This wasn't the first time we snuck out, and we've been caught 3 times before by her parents. They forgave us though each time.
This time, I lied to the mom sadly saying I was in Missouri. Acted like I was worried the next day ect, the sister had told the mom the truth I guess. The mother 2 days later (March 7th) filed a Protection Order, for no legit reason. Ill say the statements later. The P.O. was served to me March 9th
The dad, is like loyal to the wife because their catholic and all, not to bash the religion in any way. But he just is. I know he would never do this, he didn't file anything. Anyways I went to the house to reconcile with him and he just kept saying go, go, go bla bla no reason then just started saying I was too old. He knew I wasnt, he liked me, he was just doing this for the wife. Cops ended up coming I still refused to leave because I wanted to reconcile, then they tresspassed me.
Anyways, March 17th, I went to walmart, they were all there, the dad walked like "Hey (my name), I see you got a job!" What? "You're wearing your uniform!" Oh yeah "Well, bye!" he was all happy and everything.
After seeing me 3 more times he left with my gf to the car.
March 20th came, the P.O. court date, the statements on it were "Ran away, sneaking out to the lake several times, reporting bullying and saying everything will be okay" I reported her being bullied from people.. And they think thats bad? Hah. Well, the mom anyways. We told the judge about how their using me as a disclipinary tool, how they call her names and mental abuse, how I always just helped her. Not really detailing it but that's short for it, Judge said "Everything was in good intentions for her nothing was done wrong, all he did was help her." and set the P.O. for 3 months.
We got letters on March 24th and March 27th saying how they hurt her she doesn't wanna be there that they say their the "dictators" of the family and they slap her, call her bitch and slut, and that her Aunt threatened to kill me and has a plan and a gun in her car. And will do anything for her mom she doesn't care cause she loves her mom.
Sad.
April 3rd we violated it, she was being starved I heard so I was going to take her to McDonalds, cops caught us within 5 minutes because I "ran a stop sign", well I was on a slope. It was dark, so yeah.
April 9th, the mother chased me, followed me, I ran from her to my friends house and a cop started grabbing me for no reason when he came to investigate so I pushed him and got charged for assault and battery and a violation, went to jail for 6 days. I really did nothing wrong, this cop just started grabbing me then shoving me into the police car because I yelled my mothers number at my friend because he wouldnt let me call her, I KNEW the cops wouldn't call her thats why I tried. Cop wasnt listening to me say they were chasing me before all this, he detained me as soon as he saw me in my truck he said get out and I did then I was like am i being detained he was like yes. He cant do that without any further cause...
So yeah I was arrested. Went to jail for 6 days and now I'm under 24/7 supervision for awhile, we believe their going to give me probation in another state...
Well, we have around 3 open DHS cases on her, then 2 more from other people we believe. But DHS hasn't visited her since ending of March, its May now. And their all open cases.
Now here's where things get interesting, this just happened, and is why I'm looking for help.
2 days ago she showed up to my house, freezing, wet, covered in grass. It was a 4 mile walk to out here, through the lake woods and all. I was so sad I let her in, got her my sweats and got her warm, held her, she explained what happened how they hurt her and she doesn't wanna be there, she showed me a bruise which is the size of a french fry, my friend and her said it was bigger, it's 4 days old, still blood red.
Her mother ended up showing up, we called the cops, but she was saying she doesn't wanna be there they hurt her they hit her they call her names and just wanted help... A Sheriff came in, I was in the other room then because the PO, my mother was with them, my Gf had said all I've said how they hurt her and call her names she doesnt wanna be with them shes scared and unhappy and some stories on how they hurt before.
So sheriff took her to the police car and then talked to us then talked to her parents. There was another sheriff here then, they pulled out a letter. They talked for like 30 minutes. Now before we continue, this family is highly manipulative, believable, looks normal but when you leave their house their evil and hitting her. They've lie to the POLICE (not sheriff) to think were Sex Traffickers, idk if they believe it just because "were from Arizona" and my mother said it was okay if my Gf wanted to live with us, when she ran away, if it was okay with the parents. So because of that they lie about some stuff.
My gf said to the sheriff how when the police come her parents make them goto the room and their never really questioned or get to talk that the police and her parents just get along... So now theres gonna be more DHS and police involved I guess.
Anyways, sheriff sent her back with the mom, said theres going to be in-house DHS counciling, police, and all. It's devestating because my GF absoloutely doesnt want to be with them, they seriously hurt her. They wont let her go with her real mom the sheriff said "THAT IS NOT POSSIBLE" in a loud voice, because the mother lied to them we think.
The letter the mother showed them was a letter, in short, saying "I'm running away to see (my name)" which ruined everything I think. Because cops said she didn't run away because they hurt her, which is WHY she did run away, she told me, but yes, she came to me to tell me first, she wanted help they do hurt her.
What can we do?!
I've made about a 6 page letter to the dad since theres no Protection Order from him...
Were not doing this just so we can see eachother, that's part of the reason, but they really hurt her she wants out.
I have just turned 17 and she has just turned 15, at the end of April and beginning of May.
When she came here she said her mother had said "Now I see why (cousins name) mother let her boyfriend move in."
Honestly, I don't know your situation. I do know, however, that her running away and what not is a sign of febellion. Which isn't a bad thing. But do you KNOW she's telling you the truth. Because I've known teenagers to be sneaky, I've been one...not that long ago. However, if you truly believe, that she is in danger, and she is being completely honest with you, you need to call DHS. NOT the police. The police can't do anything about it. Call CPA or something. You tell them that you think she's being abused, and your story and that you want to help her. They should come out an do an inspection. It should happen a couple times, unannounced. I hope that helped.
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Okay so I'm from the UK and I'm 17/f and I've had my period since I was 11. I'm really confused because this happened for 3 months before and that was because I lost weight and I had GCSE's coming up.
I'm now doing A-levels and I don't know if its stress or something else. I don't eat as much as I used to, but I'm not extremely skinny or fat, I'm in the middle. I do horse riding but I've never had this problem before. I'm really scared and its been bugging me for a while.
Can someone, anyone help me?
Get on the pill. There are five weeks of pills in the pouch. One of the weeks, is a period forcer as I like to call it. It keeps your flow regular. Having your period and not having it can be normal. But, sometimes it can cause a cyst on your ovaries if not taken care of or seen. So...get checked out, and get on a birth control pill. Get on the one that you take one weeks worth of pills to start a period every month. NOT the one that you only get a period every three.
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I'm a 14 year old girl from south africa i like this guy he told me he like me to but he has a GF and she is like a sister to me I don't want her to get hurt but I really like this guy he is turning 14 so am I and he's GF is turning 12 how do I get rid of her with out hurting her
If you really cared about this girl, you wouldn't want to get in the way of her happiness. And if this guy cared about her, then he wouldn't have said that to you. Anyone that hits on someone when they are in a relationship will do it in the next relationship as well. And the next, and so on and so forth. You need to figure out your priorities and think about what's more important to you. A friendship that could last a lifetime? Or a relationship that will last a few months. Choice is yours.
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I'm not sure what to do. I've been dating my boyfriend on and off for over 3 years. We've had our fair share of problems in the past. But the thing I need help on now is he has always been jealous and hypocritical about so much and right now he's currently living in my house with my family because he needed help with things. Over the summer we werent dating. We both expirienced with other people. One girl in particular he had a thing with was very obsessive and begged for him back when we got back together. Now they are friends and yes, it bugs me. But she offerred him a job with her at a small store in the mall. And he accepted it. Right when he good me this I was not happy. I told him he would hate it if I did this to him. But he just doesn't care. I know he wouldn't cheat on me and its not that I don't trust him I feel like its just really disrespectful for him to still work there when he knows how much it hurts me. I don't know what to do :(
I do see where you're coming from. But you need to look at it from his point of view. He has to live with his girlfriend and her parents. He finally has a job and can get somewhere and you want to take that from him? That's not fair. He chose you over her already, and she knows you're with him. I'm not saying she won't try anything, but you said yourself he wouldn't cheat on you. It's not disrespectful of him to be working there. You should be happy. He could be lying on his butt all day at your house and living off of your parents. He's being respectful, you just gotta get around that kind of thing and get a job yourself if you need to. It's not easy to get a job nowadays, so it wouldn't be fair for you to tell him to quit
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So, I have been with my boyfriend for a while now. I'm not planning on having a family anytime soon, since I decided 24+ would be the best time (done with my degree's and such). But my problem is I have 2 minds about it
on one hand I do want a family with him, I always get told I'd make a good mother and I don't doubt that I would be one (with enough reading and knowledge, etc.) but then I think of all the nasty parts! the labour is one thing, but then there's years of dirty diapers, sleepless nights, etc. etc.
I suppose I just want to know (from parents, women preferably) if it's worth it? Is it really as painful as it looks??(that seems like a dumb question haha)
and also, on a slightly more personal level: I do love my body, I was blessed to get the curves in the right places (not bragging lol)and I found out my mum was very similiar, but after 5 children, well, she lost it fast, though we were all pretty close together? Do you women with children manage to get your body back easily? does it ruin your vagina? (sorry but I just want to know, no need to answer that if your uncomfortable :) )
Thanks x
I had my first baby when I was 16. From the time I got pregnant my life was NEVER the same. I lost all my friends, because I couldn't party, or hang out like I used to. Friends I thought would never do that. I didn't have a vaginal birth, I had an emergency c-section. They cut me open while I was AWAKE btw. And I was in pain for months. I bled like I water faucet for longer. I used to be 120 pounds, when I had my daughter, I was 180. I have stretch marks all over my body, in places I didn't know you could GET stretch marks. And I have a giant tongue thing on my stomach. So...skin that hangs over my pelvis, the size of a football. Chances are, since your mother lost her figure, you'll lose yours too. I've done everything I could to lose what I have, but I never could. If I had a choice, I would have waited to have my kids. I would still be free. But I wouldn't give my kids up for anything.
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Okay so im 15 and i went over to my boyfriend's house (of about 5 months) and we started making out and his parents werent home and so he took my shirt off which is normal, and then he took my bra off, also normal (for us) and then he unzipped his pants and i sucked his dick and then he fingered me then he took his shirt off and things got realy heated and long story short we ended up having sex and im not sure how i feel about. I mean he seemed to enjoy it, but it hurt me. He's a good guy and we are still together (2 weeks later) i haven't seen him yet, but we've been texting and he wants to "see me" meaning sleep with me again this weekend and i think i want to, i just don't know if i should. Did i make a mistake??
P.S. he is 16 and was also a virgin before this
...it's been TWO WEEKS and you haven't seen him since you had sex. Walk away. That's all I have to say. Also, I don't know him, but I don't believe that he's a virgin. For all I know he is, but from what you wrote, I doubt that he is. Look long story short, you lost your virginity the ONE THING you can't get back. And he hasn't tried to just hang out with you, or anything, he's only interested in one thing. You are young, so you should be more concerned about yourself. If you can't respect yourself, then how do you expect anyone else to respect you? I say this, because you are only concerned with him. You should be concerned with yourself more than him! Confidence, and respect for yourself is VERY important if you want to be in a relationship. There are going to be other things you're gonna be EVEN MORE worried about if you continue the activities you are. Like babies. Sex is for making babies, not to make your boyfriend feel god. It hurt because you aren't grown yet. It's not supposed to hurt. It hurt because you're only 15, and your body wasn't ready. Just slow down, and be concerned with yourself. Really, I think you should try it.
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Okay, so ive always been this happy , never mean cheerful girl. Sometimes i would even keep stuff to myself & let people step over me.. All of a sudden ive been speaking my mind alot & all of a sudden the friends i usally hang out with are really annoying me. I dont even feel happy anymore. Ive been in a mad/sad kind of weird mood. I've been judgeing people alot. I dont like that. Its like i turned into a whole diffrent person out of the blue. I have so much bottled up in me. I dont feel like i can talk about this to anyone. I dont even feel like i have friends honestly. Sometimes i just feel like crying but i dont because i keep telling myself that theres no reason to cry. What should i do not to feel this way? ): btw im 16
You're 16 years old. Which means you're a teenager. Teenagers go through SO much more than anyone would understand. Sometimes you'll have moments where you just aren't feeling your best. But I don't think you should be worrying about all of these changes TOO much. Because what's happening is you're growing up. So a lot of things change. While, one day you may have made fun of people and got into a lot of trouble, the next day you change. Like taste buds. Taste buds are ALWAYS changing. Even when you're old. You will change until the day you die. I think you should get a journal and start writing in it so that you can get all the feelings you have bottled up out. Believe me it helps. As long as you're writing until the bottled up feeling goes away. But I do think you should look at the not feeling happy. Because that's a sign of depression, and may not JUST be being a teenager. So you should get that checked out by a doctor, yes a doctor. You may have to start taking a medication. Unfortunately, it's hard to find out the cause of depression. It could be anything. So here's the list of things you need to do.
: Get a journal, write in it EVERY DAY (Or every time you need to)
: Go see a doctor about your depression.
: Find some positive activies to keep yourself busy.
: Eat healthy food. And Exercise AT LEAST 30 minutes a day. Whether it's walking or swimming or whatever. Exercise is good for your brain and your heart.
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So I reached out to my ex,we've been broken up since july 2011-she dumped me,just to say what's up and surprisingly we have been talking/texting everyday now going on 2 weeks. But it seems like everytime I tell her something sweet I.e. I still love you,I remembered it because its about you,or that's something about you that I fell for, etc..there is a noticeable halt in her response. Like I won't hear from her for hours and when she does respond its something completely different than where we left off. Is it a coincidence she gets busy/distracted when I happen to say these things or am I making her uncomfortable or is there some underlying thought that she may have the same feelings and just doesn't know how to respond??
Honestly, it depends on how the broke up happened. Because you can think that something happened, and she'll come up with WAY more than what you thought had happened. If she's being awkward then she doesn't want to talk about it. Don't make her. I do believe she may have SOME time of feeling towards you. Obviously it's good since you guys are hanging out? But really I couldn't say because I'd need to know about your past relationship, and how it ended. You can't chase someone that doesn't want to be chased. Please let me know some more and maybe I can come up with an answer for you!
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I had a orgasm with my bf last month.he inserted finger in my vagina but it was clean.i missed my periods by one month.can i get pregeant?
If no sperm is inside of the Vagina, then you don't have a chance at getting pregnant.
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My boyfriend keeps telling me that he is masturbating and this bothers me. We are having a long distance relationship and its a 2 year relationship. We've met several times over the summer vacations but when he tells me he is masturbating I get saddened and angry. He knows that I get mad but he doesn't do anything. He also watches porn which makes me sad and angry. He knows how I feel but yet he continues.
You guys are far apart. He's lonely, and horny. He could be doing worse.
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15/f and hes 15/f we've known each other since elemenatary school but we never i think had a class together or in middle school never really had classes together that we even talked in or hungout in the same crowds. but now that im a freshamn the classes are kinda divided into really smart, average, and below average. so we are both in the average classes and we have like every class together and talk in most of them. he got my number and we started talking(texting) about a month ago and we got along really really well if felt like we were really good friends for a long time. we are good friends i think of him almost like a brother to me becasue we can just talk about anyhting and everything and were just really open with eachother, i mean i get along really well with guys growing up with brothers but i could talk to this guy about my period for gods sake haha and we have like everything in common and he talks to me about girls and i dont really care that much and vice versa. but then he started giving me compliments about what a nice body i have and i didnt really take it seriously becasue i do get that alot from guys and im not a slut at all im not even a flirty girl i get that i come off rather cold and he is a flirty guy so we do balance each other out. and so then he started talking about hooking up and we both think each other is really attractive and so we were gonna hook up (just like makeout nothing more) and then we both started getting feelings for each other within that week but we never hooked up. he told me he like me first and then i said i liked him a little bit, but within like two or three days he got kinda shady and i didnt even know if i wanted a relationship so i jsut said like listen i dont want to ruin our friendship lets just go back to being friends. and i dont care if we hook up now i kind of want to but i didnt tell him this but if it happens it happens haha but he has been hinting at me that he kinda wants to. and to be honest i dont think it will be a bad thing because i told him flat out that i would not want a relationship thats serious with him i just want to be friends and then he said yeah same but he also wanted to hookup but thats it. like say we hook up and then next week he hooks up with another girl and i hookup with another guy i dont think it will really bother us. we both just want to be really casaul, still be friends with an open relationship but hook up occasioanly. the only thing is i am not very flirty, and i take my time wanting to like someone, so now that the weird phase of us liking each other is over now if we hookup i dont want to get feelings for him, i dont want to like him but i think i might becasue he just gets everything about me and i really like him as a person and i've told him that. so i dont know what to do..i feel like im in limbo with him and dont know what to. im a very direct person and we have really great communication so i've told him all this before and im confused what i want out of this?? thanksss
I tried reading the whole thing...I really did. The only thing I want to point out, is that if you think of him as a brother you shouldn't be trying to make that any more than what it is supposed to be. That's why you can't make up your mind. But in the long run, you could have him in your life for years and years. But if you decide to try and make this into something else, it's not going to last too long.
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