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Hii 15F... I am single. I have 2 bestfriends and both of them have loving bf's... So every break at school they kiss and cuddle and I just stand there. I really like tgis bpy but I'm to ugly(I get told) a guy told me I was fat yesterday and it broke "̮м̣̣̣̥γ̥"̮ heart... Yea I know I'm a bit over weight vut I'm not that fat!! Please help me :( what should I do? (link)
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Awww gurlllll, don't feel sad...you're still young and you shouldn't worry about not having a boyfriend. To be honest, relationships in high school are so superficial and it's just puppy love. Don't ever let people's harsh words affect you...just worry about yourself because honestly, it's only your opinion that matters. You aren't ugly. When you grow up, there will be a special someone waiting to walk in to your life and love you.
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Okay, I'm a girl and I just turned 15 last month, and I am starting to look around for a first job. But I live in a really small town and their aren't many options.
The only places we have are a few little restaurants, a gas station and two grocery stores.
The thing is, I'm really shy and I get nervous around people I don't know really well. And when I'm nervous or flustered, it's like my brain shuts off and I can't think straight, I do/say really stupid things, cant remember stuff right and I don't seem to understand instructions correctly. I was thinking of babysitting, but I don't want to go to some strangers house or anything like that.
I'm willing to try anything that's not involving math, hard physical labor(I'm really weak), or to much social interaction.
I eventually want to get over my fear of people and hopefully earn some money so I can go to college, buy a car, ect.
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You're 15 and you're still young. It's cool that you are thinking about getting a job, but since you're shy, you may have a smaller chance of getting hired when you get interviewed. I suggest you look for some outside experience, such as internships and volunteering. With volunteering, you can learn to be more sociable, meet new people, and have a fun time. Interning is a good way to discover talents, strengths, and weaknesses. You're only 15...getting a job at this age isn't that important yet.
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Hi! Can you tell me what web browser you think is the best one to use and why? There are so many now I don't even know which one is going to be safest and hopefully still fast. Does anyone know? (link)
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Google Chrome is an excellent web browser. It has been advancing rapidly over the years. For the many years that I have been using chrome, I have found convenience with my use because it is simple to use. There are also really cool, unique, and useful apps that you can download from the chrome app store. It is safe, fast, and simple.
Overall, Google Chrome gives the best internet experience possible.
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Iam too slim 4 my likeing so I bought this medicine xasten ,I dnt knw actually weather is working or not cause I'm still slim I want to add. (link)
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You can try eating protein bars. I know many people who use protein bars to bulk on muscle or gain weight. It's easier and has a better taste.
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I have a FAFSA loan thing that I have to do for school. Do you know how long I have until the deadline for it to be turned in? (link)
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Get your FAFSA turned in as soon as possible. Colleges have a "deadline" for FAFSA, but they allow people to turn it in late. If you don't turn it in by their deadline, your financial aid information and calculations will be delayed. Though, you should have turned it in sometime in January or early February because normally, that's the timeframe of when colleges request it get done. It really depends on which colleges you applied to because some colleges have different deadlines. The earlier, the better, because then you have a higher chance of getting a financial aid.
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I'm a freshman & I have no idea of what's going to happen during orientation. I already know what class I'm taking. What happens? Do I need to bring anything? (link)
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College orientation is basically a way for you to learn a little more about the school, like traditions and events and stuff, and also getting to meet new people. So when you go to your orientation, be sure to socialize with different people -- it's beneficial because who would wanna be lonely on the first day of college.
It really depends on what college you're going to because each orientation is a little different.
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Hey there. I've been very depressed since latley ever since my ex bf who made me stop cutting and really loved me dumped me because wasn't really ready and not that interested. Then about a week ago his cousin said he had feelings and him and I got together and he made me send pics to him and told me to keep our relationship secret. Then yesterday he said I told some people (I didn't) and he said we weren't even going out and he doesn't know if he wants to be friends with me anymore and he blocked me on Kik. School has also made me depressed because not much of my friends are in my class and I'm around a lot of people I don't know and it makes me nervous along with knowing I might as my ex (he's one grade lower than me) and it makes me more depressed. I also can't take life anymore and I really want to die. What should I do to feel normal and happy again or what's a simple way to die? (link)
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Doesn't sound like he's all that interested in you -- sounds more like he's playing you so you should just forget about him. You don't deserve to be treated like this because he is only making you more depressed. Don't let any guy sweet talk you that easily, because that is practically every girl's weakness: to hear someone sweet talk them.
Gurrrrrl, you are beautiful. Stay strong, find a good friend who you can easily talk to so if you ever need to rant, that good friend will be there for you and give you advice. If you are ever feeling suicidal, don't -- think about all the people around you who care about you.
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Hey there's this boy that goes to my school who seems like a pretty cool guy and I want to be his friend but don't know how I could. I mean he knows I exist and he'll say stuff to me from time to time, he'll point his foot at me and he'll stretch his legs out one going under my desk almost. . How can I offer him to be my friend? (Btw: I'm a girl) (link)
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You should talk to him more. People automatically become friends when they are confident enough to communicate with each other. Be open to him and talk to him about both of your interests and hopefully you guys will find something in common. IDK what grade you're in but confidence is key. Generally, people would prefer being friends with someone who is confident about themselves.
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Hey I'm a 14 year old girl, going into high school. I've always been a B, C student but this year it's different, it's when it really starts counting. Last year I made an oath (I'd really like to keep that oath) to my parents I would try my very best to make better grades in high school and I want to do better. I discover most of my struggles in algebra, and science. Although, I find Science very interesting and exciting I usually end up with a high C on my report card in that class but on the other hand, I find Algebra very frustrating. I really want this year to be different, I want to be a straight A student. I know it will be hard but I know I can do it and besides all my teachers are amazing (; I would like to know how(from an optimists point of view)can I remain positive thinking? I often find myself..dwelling on the future, asking 'what ifs', and thank u so much in advance..(: (link)
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Getting straight A's don't just come to you that easily. Students work their ass off with studying and all-nighters just to get the grades they want. If you want straight A's, they you should start stepping up your game. High school is when your grades are serious. You should always have confidence in yourself and know that you are intelligent and you will achieve your goal -- as long as you work hard and try the best you can. If you don't understand something, don't be afraid to ask your teachers questions. Teachers love it when students come in during office hours to talk to them because it shows that you are an eager learner.
Maybe you could get a tutor too, most high schools offer the student to student tutor system, so you should consider that.
But just remember to ALWAYS try your best.
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I have an over bite and have had it since I was younger will I need braces ? (link)
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If the overbite is bothering you, you should probably invest your money and a few years on braces to get the overbite fixed. Find an orthodontist and ask him/her to give you an evaluation on your teeth so they will know how long you will need braces and stuff.
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Okay so this boy and I were together for a week and he said he like me a lot and I said the same thing. So we sent pics back and forth and he said he wanted to do a lot to me. But he told me to keep our relationship secret. I did. Then today, he said I told two to three people and that we weren't even going out in the first place and that he doesn't know if he wants to be my friend. And he blocked me. What can I do to get him back? Please help me! (link)
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He used you as a friend with benefits, basically. Once a guy gets what he wants from a girl, normally they just leave because they're already done playing the game with the girl.
If he truly cared and respected you, your relationship with him most definitely wouldn't have been a secret. He would be more open about you guys.
Forget him, almost every girl's weakness is a guy knowing how to please a girl only for the girl to find out she just got played.
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if your having anal sex and the penis accidently slides by the tip of the vagina , can i get pregnant , ( guy hasn't cum yet ? help please , im supposed to get my period today
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Even though he didn't actually cum, there is precum which contains sperm. It's a small chance that you will get pregnant since it was just the tip of the vagina, but it's still a possibility.
Don't stress too much about it. Stressing over missing a period that's a few days late can also be the reason of your period delay.
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I am a black female, so keep this in mind haha. I want to grow my hair out, but I don't know where to start. I am cuban also but my hair texture is that of any normal black person. I don't know where to start any suggestions that pertain to my hair is welcome. Thank You! (link)
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Increase your protein intake and drink a lot of water. You should also massage your head for at least 10 minutes a day to stimulate the blood in your head. Also when your hair starts to grow out, make sure you condition your hair to avoid any damages and avoid heating your hair because that can hurt the texture of the hair.
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hey how do I get my boyfriends attention??? (link)
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You should initiate a conversation with your boyfriend. He should give you undivided attention when he's free if he truly cares about you.
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Does losing your virginity mean that you've had a man's penis enter you or is it only when your cherry pops? I just had sex I guess but I did not orgasm, nor did my cherry pop but he came sooo? (link)
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For a female to lose her virginity, a man's penis has to penetrate her vagina. If this is your first time having sex, then yeah you just gave your virginity to the guy.
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I'm on my period and i was able to get the applicator in but i'm scared to push the tampon out and i'm scared of how bad it'll feel taking it out. what should I do? I have a party tomorrow and I need a tampon so that I could wear my leggings.
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It hurts the first time you pull it out, and it can be pretty frustrating, but it's only a little bit of pain. Well, the feeling isn't great when you have to pull it out but the temporary feeling will pass. It's not as bad as you think, it's just the mentality of existing "pain" that is making you feel scared.
You'll be fine, FSHO
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I really don't know what's wrong with my mom. She won't let me shave because she said that "you can barely see it on my skin" which all my friends tell me they do. And I want to shave so I can wear skirts and strapless tops!
Also my mom won't let me wear makeup! EVERYONE at school does! She said that " I don't need it, plus I'm in 7th grade" but I know I'm pretty and don't need it but I dont even want as much makeup as everyone. I just want colored lipgloss and eyeliner because my eyelashes are already long. How can I convince my mom to let me wear makeup. (my dad already approves) (link)
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Just because others wear makeup, doesn't mean you need to conform with them and do it too. Honestly, if you see yourself as pretty without makeup, leave it natural. You can wear makeup occasionally but don't make it a habit at a young age. I have friends who got so used to wearing eyeliner everyday that they feel so ugly when they aren't wearing any eyeliner, and it's pretty detrimental.
And about shaving, true, having hair in certain places is pretty embarrassing, and it's human nature. She's probably afraid that you will cut yourself when shaving. Tell her that you will be fine, oh and get a 5-bladed shaver because they glide better and makes your skin smooth. But I wouldn't recommend shaving your legs because leg hair is generally thinner, so the more you shave, the thicker the hair gets.
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apparently my mom still tries to treat me like im still in high school even though im 24 almost 25 which is not a teenager and i inderstand how stupid high school kids seem to act as in listening to stupid music watching stupid and corny movies and go to stupid drinking parties and yes i understand people in their early 20s still act that way but i do not nor did i ever and im sick of her saying that teenagers are my age group when theyre most likely not so anyway how can you end it and be aware of it please help (link)
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Eh your description of a "typical" high school teen is kind of biased and stereotypical. We aren't all like that. Anyways, parents normally like that, they can't seem to believe the fact that their children are growing up so fast. Your mom is like that because in general, it's hard for older adults to adjust to treating their children like adults when they have spent their whole life nurturing them with love. It's okay, my mom still treats me like a 5 year old sometimes.
Tell your mom that you have grown up and matured and you don't need her treating you like you depend on her. Just not in the way where you wanna completely push her out of the way.
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My boyfriend enjoys porn, and I have no qualms with that. But im finding more and more that instead of coming to me for sex or other things he will just browse porn instead. I make it more than clear that i want him, a lot. I'm not sure how to approach the situation because I don't want to sound like the bitchy girlfriend that doesn't allow porn, but I'm really not like that. I just want to be the one that he goes to if he has those needs. I wouldn't mind if he used porn if i turned him away or something but it's like I'm his second choice. We have a good relationship otherwise, it has ups and downs, and when we do have sex it's great. So, what to do?
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Maybe he's using porn to practice his future sex with you. The more porn he watches, the more he could learn about it and make your sex experience with him super awesome.
And I guess you could also talk to him about it a little. Like ask him why he watches so much porn instead of using that time to be with you. It never hurts to ask.
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Hi everyone my nails are so brittle and thing and break super easy! Literally a chunk from the middle of my nail will come off and than my whole nail breaks. I've tried Sally Hansen brittle dry strengthener nail polish but it doesn't work at all!! What vitamins or nail polish would help? Thank you!! (link)
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Honestly, the chemicals in the nail polish is damaging to nails, so I would recommend you don't use nail polish products to strengthen your nails. You need more protein in your diet and drink lots of water and milk. Don't leave your nails growing too long or else they will break off really easily. Protein, calcium, and Vitamin C are the main nutrients that keep nails strong and healthy.
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