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Want to be this boys friend but don't know how
Hey there's this boy that goes to my school who seems like a pretty cool guy and I want to be his friend but don't know how I could. I mean he knows I exist and he'll say stuff to me from time to time, he'll point his foot at me and he'll stretch his legs out one going under my desk almost. . How can I offer him to be my friend? (Btw: I'm a girl)
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You don't just offer him to be your friend. It takes time. So just start with small talk when you see him. It's pretty much how it is when you first become friends with anybody. You start talking, it's usually small talk and then you start talking every day and eventually you become closer.
So that's what you do with him. All you have to do is talk to him.
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You should talk to him more. People automatically become friends when they are confident enough to communicate with each other. Be open to him and talk to him about both of your interests and hopefully you guys will find something in common. IDK what grade you're in but confidence is key. Generally, people would prefer being friends with someone who is confident about themselves.
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gUYS just dont pay any attention to girls they aren't interested in, in some way. So if he talks to you and tries to find ways to be near you, its a good bet he is willing to be your friend. HOw did you ever become friends with girls? Probably had something in common. So in your talks with him, find out what kinds of movies/music/bands he likes.
What are some of his hobbies. If you like dogs, find out if he likes dogs, has pets, and ask the parents if its okay to have a friend come over to watch a movie or just to hang out. And invite him to your house...while parents are there. It's not dating and they shouldnt feel threatened that you are doing anything like dating yet. Just in case they have an age they will is proper or not for a girl to have boy friends. There is a slight difference. Having a male friend is more like a female best friend but it can later develope into the romantic relationship where the two are officially dating but by then the parents will have had a chance to get to know the guy and what hes like and how he treats you. No matter how much you like a guy, feeling can get in the way so if both parents feel theres something wrong about him, you'll have to rely on their experience to know better . If however, over time you find they poopoo every guy, no ones good enough, then the problem would be with them but thats rare. Good luck dear
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