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He said we weren't going out?!
Okay so this boy and I were together for a week and he said he like me a lot and I said the same thing. So we sent pics back and forth and he said he wanted to do a lot to me. But he told me to keep our relationship secret. I did. Then today, he said I told two to three people and that we weren't even going out in the first place and that he doesn't know if he wants to be my friend. And he blocked me. What can I do to get him back? Please help me!
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Why would you want a guy like that back?
He doesn't have feelings for you. If he did, he would've wanted an actual relationship. Not a secret relationship where you send pics and just tells you he wants to do a lot to you.
He used you, you guys weren't dating, it's time to learn from your mistakes and move on.
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He used you as a friend with benefits, basically. Once a guy gets what he wants from a girl, normally they just leave because they're already done playing the game with the girl.
If he truly cared and respected you, your relationship with him most definitely wouldn't have been a secret. He would be more open about you guys.
Forget him, almost every girl's weakness is a guy knowing how to please a girl only for the girl to find out she just got played.
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He doesn't want you. He wants your body.
Sad but true, I'm afraid. This is why you should be more assertive before sending pics to someone online.
To 'help' you, I can just tell you to not do it again, and move on from this guy. He was never your boyfriend-because this is not how boyfriends treat girlfriends.
Just count yourself lucky that its all over with now. Don't worry, there will be someone else out there for you :)
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This is exactly why you never send photo's.
It's dumb
The guy isn't interested in you. You were a quick fling and now he has moved on. Unfortunately, Some guys just don't have enough balls to tell someone so they go ahead abd shut them out.
He blocked you, He wants no contact with you. Basically, Take it with a grain of salt abd move on.
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Truth is, if he blocks you over something so stupid like that, then you probably don't want him back. He just blocked you over someone knowing that you were a going out. From what you're saying (if you didn't actually tell anyone) then he's making excuses not to be with you. He was ok with it when it was just pics back and forth but can't handle being with you in person.
It sounds like he wants to keep you on the back burner. like, he wants to keep you around as an option, but he doesn't actually want to be with you. Do you really want to be someone that's embarrassed to be with you?
My advice would be to just let this one go.
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