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Depressed... What should I do to feel normal and happy again or what's a simple way to die?
Hey there. I've been very depressed since latley ever since my ex bf who made me stop cutting and really loved me dumped me because wasn't really ready and not that interested. Then about a week ago his cousin said he had feelings and him and I got together and he made me send pics to him and told me to keep our relationship secret. Then yesterday he said I told some people (I didn't) and he said we weren't even going out and he doesn't know if he wants to be friends with me anymore and he blocked me on Kik. School has also made me depressed because not much of my friends are in my class and I'm around a lot of people I don't know and it makes me nervous along with knowing I might as my ex (he's one grade lower than me) and it makes me more depressed. I also can't take life anymore and I really want to die. What should I do to feel normal and happy again or what's a simple way to die?
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first babe how old are you
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There are many girls who have gone through the same thing you have.
You obviously don't want to die because you still want to find a way to be happy.
These normal things like school, friends and boys shouldn't be a reason to take your life. You know that and I do understand that they can be a hard thing to handle at a young age.
Firstly, you need to forget about this guy. He messed with you and didn't care for your feelings. It's a horrible thing but you need to let him go and forget about him. He "made" you send pics to him and told you to keep the relationship a secret, that's not love. You know that some day you'll meet someone who will actually care about you and your feelings.
School is a different story. I don't think it's about not having friends, I think it's about your self esteem because you aren't willing to make new friends.
You need to talk to someone. Go talk to a counselor and they will help you from there. They'll help you how to deal with your problems and show you how to be happy.
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The fact you've asked to become 'normal' again is a sign you are not ready for death, and that there is an ounze in you wanting to live still.
Its hard...I have had counselling before, but your best bet is to speak to a counselor. You'd have to go to your GP to do that. If you're feeling suicidal right now, tell a friend, parent etc.
You see, breakup is something I'd say 90% of people plus go through.Trust me, there are people out there that have gone through worse than you. It also sounds like you have some social anxiety there.
You need to use the break up to make you stronger. Strong enough to be happy on your own in situtation where this guy was once with you.
If you go to your doctor, they can help with meds. But most want to put you on a counselling course. If your of school child age they'll want to do this, because its easy to get addicted to the drugs.
But you need to find that motivation to get better from somewhere. The fact you want to kill yourself. Over a guy dumping you. Serious? Go to the doctors, but tell him you want to get better, and there is motivation from somewhere.
They don't give counselling to people who don't TRY you see.
Good luck anyways, and why not begin by trying some self help books?
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Doesn't sound like he's all that interested in you -- sounds more like he's playing you so you should just forget about him. You don't deserve to be treated like this because he is only making you more depressed. Don't let any guy sweet talk you that easily, because that is practically every girl's weakness: to hear someone sweet talk them.
Gurrrrrl, you are beautiful. Stay strong, find a good friend who you can easily talk to so if you ever need to rant, that good friend will be there for you and give you advice. If you are ever feeling suicidal, don't -- think about all the people around you who care about you.
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