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Hey!!!! It's Alyssa!!! I'm currently a level 1 moderator!

[a]ge: 14
[b]irthday: March 27
[c]andy choice: CHOCOLATE!!!!
[d]rink of choice: Coke or Gatorade
[e]xciting things happening:Pennsylvania
[f]ood of choice: Chinese or Mexican
[g]reastest acheievement: superior @ theatre fest!!
[h]ottest guy on the planet: Sean Faris!!!!
[i]ndoor activity: dance
[j]unk food of choice: chips and dip!!!
[k]oolaid of choice: grape
[l]ove: GUYS!!!!! and Dance!! duh!
[m]usic of choice: POP!!!!
[n]icest friends: Chelsea!!!
[o]bsession: DANCE!!! duh!
[p]izza place of choice: Pizza Hut!!!!
[q]uestion most asked: about styles!!!
[r]adio station: 96.7 kiss F.M.!!!! duh!!!
[s]aturday activity: mall or friends house!!!
[t]ake out food: chinese!!!
[u]r favorite movie: Mean Girls!!!
[v]ery best friend: Chelsea!!!!
[w]hat you wear: everything!!!
[x]yz??? look down idiot!!!
[y]our favorite singer: i have a lot!!!!
[z]odiac sign: ARIES!!!!!

I'm always here when you need me!! So ask me ANYTHING!!!

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ok well theres this guy and i think he is really cute and he likes me alot. well ive known him fot half of my life and hes like a brother to me. he keeps on askin me if i would go out with him and then i dont wamt to say no but i do and at the same time i want to say yes to him. i dont no what i should do plz HELP me

i will rate 5's to any 1 who awenswers

Well if you know him well than next time he asks I say go for it! Hope this helps!!!

~Alyssa

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15/f. i moved into a brand new house, and my bedroom is white walls with light beige carpet. Everything so far in my room is red - red bedspread, curtains, lampshades, etc. I want to know what color i should paint my walls cause white is so boring. But i'm not allowed to paint them red cause thats way too much red! i was wondering if hot pink was a good color since its a shade of red, but my mom says that won't match. so can anyone think of a color? Thanks.

Maybe you could paint one of your walls like a darker red than what your bed is! Hope this helps!!

~Alyssa

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u know how people do that heart thing with there computer like it looks like a heart icon how do you do that????

You switch your font to Webdings and put it on cap locks and hit the Y key!! Hope this helps!!!


~Alyssa

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so i like this girl, and she likes me, this started only like a week ago but it has picked up full speed. we had a school dance last friday and we kind of ditched our dates to hang out wiht each other. nothing happened we just hung out and talked. were a little embarassed about bringing our semi-relationship out to our friends. we have our first official date scheduled for next tuesday, for dinner and a movie after i get off work. what do you think i should do until then, other than talking to her to keep her interested? how do we bring us out to our friends?

Just tell your friends! If they're true ones they'll' understand! Hope this helps!!!


~Alyssa

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T'm 14 and I'm a girl. I've never had a boyfriend I don't enen talk to guys. I'm really shy. I really want to have a boyfriend, but I know that no guy likes me anyways. What should I do?

You should get one of your friends to go around and ask different guys if they like you. Hope this helps!!


~Alyssa

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Hi. I want to learn how to curl my hair but i dont want the really tight curls or the wet scrunched curls. I just want to do loose and wavy curl. does anyone know how to do this?
thanks! (btw, my hair is really thick)

Buy a round barrel curling iron...they are really good!! Hope this helps!!



~Alyssa

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Ok i have athletics every morning and of course i sweat. Now i am begginging to get these red dots-bumps(they sorta look like tiny pimples i guess) in the middle of my chest or boobs. Does any one else have them? are they normal?? how do you get rid of them?? Its about to be time to wear a bathing suit and i dont want these things!! please help me!

They're perfectly normal! What you have is probably a little rash or something from the sweat! Just buy some moist towlettes @ the store and when you go in to change, just wipe off the sweat! Hope this helps!!!

~Alyssa

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14/f...my friend told me that she was going away this weekend so i didnt invite her over..bu then i saw her profile on AIM and it said she was at her other friends house..so basically she lied to me and i now i dont know what to do..i am afraid to ask her about it..and i really dont want to..=/

well...what I would do is probably ask her why she lied to you. She probably didn't want to hurt your feelings or anything, but it still doesn't make it right to lie. Yeah just ask her why she lied about her plans this weekend. If she's really your friend she shouldn't have to lie to you. Hope this helps!!!



~Alyssa

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can over charging your ipod (mini) hurt it? because lately my battery will say its out..but i reset it and its full again or something like that. does anyone know why?

I have an ipod mini and I left it on it's charger when it was done. It didn't mess it up! Hope this helps!!!


~Alyssa

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I used to have a lisp. When I was in third grade, my mom asked my teacher about it, and he said it wasn't a problem. Well, it's a problem now. I constantly get made fun of. Yesterday was the worst. This kid kept on making fun of me in art class when I was on the computer. I finally just got up and left the room, while the teacher was yelling at him. I have two questions.. Is that harassment? How can I get rid of my lisp? My mom says she doesn't even notice it anymore, but it's obviously still a problem.

I don't think it's considered to be harassment unless your being greatly effected by it. And you can have surgery done to get rid of your lisp. Cause there's like extra skin or something in your mouth that's making that lisp. Hope this helps!!!!

~Alyssa

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Ok, I wrote in earlier about the guy that hates me and everything. Well now he said that he is going to ask out this really discuting guy for me tomorrow in 1st period and I know he will. What can I do because I dont want to go out with this guy but I know that he will ask him. Someone please help me and plz hurry

What you need to do is before the guy gets there in 1st period, tell the guy that if anyone asks him to be your g/f, that you just want to be friends! Hope this helps!

~Alyssa

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Across the street from me, an elderly couple sold their house and the people that bought it have two young boys, ages 4 and 7 I believe. They have asked me if I'd like to babysit for them and that's fine with me. I've babysat before but normally I'd do it free of charge. It's come the time where I'm getting older and I need to get money. I'll be driving in a year and my parents aren't going to be paying for my gas and car insurance. What would be a good amout of money to ask for? I don't want to be asking for too much. I'm 15/ female.

A good amount of money to ask for is between $3/hr. to $6/hr. But since your 15, you probably want to ask for a higher price. Maybe between $4 and $6. Hope this helps!!!

~Alyssa

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im 16 ...
i need a little help.. so their is this guy! ive liked for ever and i never thought he liked me so i thought i was over him but friday i went to his house to do some project an we ended up going in his room and hanging out and he went to kiss me and i pulled away because their was this guy i liked. an i told him why and he was liek im so proud of you an all this ( i kinda wonder why but w/e) well it ended up not working b/w me and the other guy and i really like the one i was with on friday. but i feel like i had my chance an that i prolly wont get it again. and i dont know what to do.

Well I think you did the right thing by not kissing him. If there's another guy you like and you kissed this guy, the kiss wouldn't mean anything and be wasted! Hope this helps!!!!

~Alyssa

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i was wondering..if your on the dance team/drill team whatever its called would you have to do cartwheels,handstands,backflips stuff like that? I want to be on the team i just cant do all of those things! THanks!

I don't think u have to be able to do those things! I'm in dance and you only have to be able to do a split! Hope this helps!!!

~Alyssa

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I i got the dancing game i wanted (DDR). I cant stop playing it. My mom says i acn lose a lot of weight playing it. Is losing a lot of weight good or bad? I need help.

It depends on how much u way now! If your happy w/ your weight, then it could be a bad thing, but if you think your over weight, then just keep playing! Hope this helps!!!

~Alyssa

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I have a long haired domestic black cat. I also have beige carpeting throuout my home. He leaves clipms of hair all over the house and not even vacuming seems to work in pickking it up. I am sick of spending hours on my hands and knees trying to get it off of the floor. Any suggestions?

brush him more often to get all the loose hair off!! Hope this helps!!!

~Alyssa

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I feel overweight. I know I'm not fat I just want to be happy with my body. Is there an easy excersie that helps you lose weight fast? I just want a little extra confidence. Any ideas? Thanks.

Do crunches and run! Those are exersises that really help! Also drink plenty of water and don't eat a lot of salty, fatty foods! Hope this helps!!!!

~Alyssa

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i used to live in florida but then my dad got transfered to pennsylvania.i had tons of friends at my old school but i dont fit in at my new school.i sit with the popular people and i thought they were my friends but then i found out they have been going to the movies and stuff.they just dont call me to hang out they call everyone but me!what the hell?they treat me like a friend at school so why not include me?for valentines day they all wore these really cute pink shirts that are matching. and im the only one at their table who didnt hav the matching shirt.then they were talking about stuff that happened at the mall. i just sat there like how can you be so mean when im sitting right here.
what should i do?????????
should i talk to them about?
should i sit with a different group at lunch??
please help i rate high just for answering!

Popularity isn't everything! Talk to some new people and get some real friends!!!Hope this helps!!!!

~Alyssa

P.P.-what part of Pennsylvania do u live in?

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what do u do when your friend is about to date a guy whos a complete asshole and that ALL of her friends hate? please help soon!

You tell her what a complete asshole is really is and explain why you think that! She'll see that you guys don't like him and think twice about going out with him!!! Hope this helps!!!

~Alyssa

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I am 15 and have been going out with the same guy for 4 years. I lost my virginity 2 him when I was 14. He is starting to act way to controlling and we have gotten into several fist fights and he forces me to have sex with him sometimes. I met a guy on the internet that lives 1700 miles away. We have been talking for a while and I think I am in love with him. Is it possible to love someone that far away? He also says he loves me back, and wants to meet. Thanks

Personally I don't think u should date either 1 of them! Your current b/f is a total jerk (no offense!) and the guy u met online could be some rapist guy that could kill u! hope this helps!!!!

~Alyssa

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