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Hey, I'm Samm and I'm 15-year-old freshman at Downingtown East High School. I've got a pretty average teenage life, except I'm in no way your average person. I doubt you'll ever meet someone exactly like me.



Feel free to drop one by in my inbox and I'll tell you what to do to the of my best ability in any situation. But remember, if it doesn't seem right, then don't do it. It's only my advice, not me telling you what to do.


PLEASE don't repeat questions. I appreciate all ratings and feedback, so please do it. It really gives me a good feel for how my advice is. Also, if you don't rate, and my advice is crap, I'd like to know so that I don't run the risk of telling someone to do that again.


Thanks.. and.. I hope I helped. =) ♥

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ok wen you first get your period can the blood be brown? and can you still get discharge while ur on your period?

Yes it can. It's brown a lot. And sometimes it's red. I find that when my flow is heavier, that it's redder in color. Don't ask me why, but that's the way it usually works out. And the discharge is normal.

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Ok well i started my period when i was 12 years old. I am now 14 years old and i'm a 32 A. On both sides of my family all the woman are atleast C's. Am i ever going to get bigger because im so self concious about my small boobs. It's like there barely there it makes me feel like a little boy. Everything else is fine it just my boobs are really small and coming from a family full of big breasted woman it makes me wonder. When do you think they will get bigger? Is there an age in mind? Because on most sites it says your breast delevopment is normally done at age 15 and i just cant see to much progress happening in the next 3 months.

Breast development is done at age 15? No way! You're still growing, definately. I, personally, grew a cup size when I was in 5th grade, and then when I was 14 years old. And I hope I'm still growing! You still have time to grow, for sure. Just eat, it makes them grow.

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The other day I went over to this guys house because I have been in love with him for almost a year. I have dated him two times before but my mom band me from him because he is eighteen. He wanted me to come over to finish a video that we had watched once before. But he had promised me that was all we were going to do. So I told my mom I was going to a friend's house and would be home by six. Well I went there and all I meant to do intentionally was watch the movie. Well I laid back on his bed then he laid back by me and put his arm around me. Then he pretended like he was asleep but I knew better so punched him in the side. Then he rolled over and held my arms down and licked my nose because he knows how much I hate that. Everytime he did it he laughed and kept moving closer to my face to the point my nose was touching his and our lips were practically touching everytime we talked or laughed. Then he just kissed me and we like made out for half an hour. Then he started fingering me for like ten minutes. Then I gave him head until he cummed. After that we had sex. When we were done he went to take a shower and I went down there to fix my hair. He said don't try to get in the shower with me, prostitution is bad. I told him I wouldn't have to try and asked him if he just called me a whore. He said no, if he called me a whore he would have said it to my face. So when I was in the bathroom he took off his clothes and kissed me. He then told me if I wanted to join then I could, then he got in the shower. I stood there not sure what I should do. I sat there and thought about what I should he stuck his head out and told me to come here. So I did actually thinking he was going to pull me in but he kissed me. After about 5 minutes I finally broke and just got into the shower with him. After that I started thinking I was a slut. I mean I had slept with three guys. Him, one of his friends, and this one guy I had dated at my school. I had slept with him about 8 times, his friend once, and that one guy 3 times. So now I don't know if I am or not. So I'm actually kinda confused. SO PLEASE respond to this. I'm really confused!!!

No... you're not a slut. You're just in love. Sex is fine if you're in love.

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On myspace, ya know the backround behind your pro, how do you change that

The layout? A good site for myspace layouts is www.whateverlife.com That site has everything you need to know about myspace

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okay how often do u have periods a day? like 2 three?

You can't really mesaure how many times it comes out, because it depends on your flow. And it's different from day to day, and then person to person. Change your pad when it feels gross (I try to change it every two hours) and then change your tampon every 4-6 hours, or if you leak, sooner than that, obviously. Hope I helped.

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Yesterday I had severe menstrual like cramps all day. Trouble is my period is over a week ago. This morning I went to the bathroom and there was blood coming from the back region if you know what I mean. Went two more times today, same thing. Im scared to go to doc but know I have to. Any suggestions on what this may be. 29 female and scared!!!

Definately see your doctor, anal bleeding can't be good. Don't ignore this, it might be a big deal!

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okay, i wrote something on this site a couple of days ago about a guys that i liked that liked me back etc. well yea i was talking to him the other day on the phone and everything was good, and he said i love you before we got off the phone and it was soooo cute=] and well i thought everything was good. but i guess not, because the next day i found out that he was going out with someone.. and well i was obviously mad at the fact that he had a g/f and didnt tell me, and that he still said i love you to me, but what made me even more mad was the fact that it is a girl that i HATE!!! and so i called him to confront him abotu it, and i started to cry=[ well, he wants to talk to me now, and he told me to stay after to talk to him and so i did but he hasnt talked to me yet.. what should i do???

You guys weren't dating, but he loves you? And he is going out with someone else? I think that he's just playing with your head. I'm sorry, but this dude seems like an ass. You're better than waiting around for him!

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well im almost 14 and i just started masterbating a little. it feels good but i feel like i shouldn't be doing it.

i was with my friends and they were talking about it and saying how gross it was. i was just like playing along and agreeing even though i do it.

am i too young?.. is there anyone my age that does it too?

thanks in advanced

If that's what you like, go ahead. It's normal, and fine. I, personally, don't do it.. but everyone has their own veiws. Go ahead if you want to!

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Hey, about the question just below me.
How much Do color contacts cost?
Cause I want to get them too, but im not sure how much they cost.

Also, what brand would be good for those who acually dont need like corective lenses ( i just want them for looks) and what colors do they offer?

I'm not sure how much they cost, but Aucuvee has good ones, as does freshlook. But you have to go to your eye doctor about them, because they are a medical device.

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I dont know if youd have any way to help me with this. But i might be moving outside the Downingtown school district. And I dont think my dad is up for driving me to school everyday. But I dont wanna start at a whole new school. So, my question is. Is there any buses that go in the morning around the area that may drop off at places like Clemens? thats near the high school? I know a few people who live like 30 minutes from the school and they have a bus to school. So maybe theres a possibility a bus on its route for the high school could pick me up. The place would be like 10 minutes from the Exton Diner.

Do you think If i went to the school, that maybe they would let me ask if they could add my stop to the closest busline, even if its out of the district? idk what to do but this is really important . Do you have any ideas at all?

Uh, I have no idea. I'm so sorry! But try talking to guidance about it, and they could probably help you out. Also, sorry that it took me such a long time to respond to your question.

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Hi , im 16 and kinda have a thing for this girl in my school. I see her occasionally in school but i talk to her a lot more outside of school. I want to know what i should do to "woo" her. Also another problem is she has a bf:( umm if u have any advice i would love to here it, should i sit and wait this out, or kick the flirtig up ? or what? thankkssxxx a lot

Well, if she has a boyfriend, that is a little bit of a problem. For now, be her friend.. with a little bit of a flirting touch. But if you flirt with her too much, that's going to be a problem, because that shows that you don't have respect for the relationship she has with her boyfriend. But she'll be so greatful that she has an awesome friend when her relationship ends, so be there for her. Best of luck.

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Does biking help strengthen your butt? Like slim it down and shape it up? If not, what kind of excercise does?

Probably.. but I'm sure running would as well. Anything that helps with your upper thighs, I suppose, would help your buttocks. Biking is probably a good one. Good luck with your booty!

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So I'm thinking of getting colored contacts, but I have two questions!

1) How much more expensive are they then normal ones?


2) What color should I get?
I have really dark brown eyes, & dark brown hair,
I'm thinking of maybe some greens? or lighter browns?

Any opinions?

If you have a really dark brown eyes, don't even bother. I tried getting colored contacts with my dark brown eyes, and it just made my pupils look freaky.

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how can you get eyeliner (on the BOTTOM lid) to stay on all day? it basically dissapears halfway through the day,

You can put it on the skin below the lashes, buy waterproof eyeliner, or just reapply during lunch. I find that if I put a little bit of mascara on my bottom lashes, it stays on better. If you do this, use clear mascara. Good luck!

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Hi,

well, i really like this guy, but i dont know how to flirt well, or how to catch his attention. I'm in class with him for like 3 hours a day, and i was just wondering, like, what types of perfume scents, or little flirting tips, would help me to get his attention.

Please help!!

PS (i'm 16 and so is he)

Well, wear some perfume, but not too much. Something sweet, but not flowery. To catch his attention, try doing things differently with your appearance. Like, if you usually have your hair straight, but it's naturally beachy, wear it down and curly one day. Every once in awhile, wear a low cut top, or a short skirt. But only occasionally, or else he'll see you as a slut. Talk to him. Be funny in class, without sounding stupid. Smile a lot. Good luck!

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Is there any way to whiten your teeth while you have braces? Is there a certain kind of whitener that I should use?

Using whitening toothpaste you can accomplish whitening your teeth. However, this is probably going to leave strange white/yellow brace stains on your teeth. I wouldn't do it.

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ok, i was at a house party last week and i didnt really know everybody who was there, it was really my friend who wanted to go. everybody got really drunk but i didnt because i dont drink.
anyway these guys started talking to me but i said i wasnt interested because i have a boyfirend. (ive been seeing him for a year and i love him to bit.) so we just sat talking and they brought me a drink from the kitchen and i remember i felt ill and went to the bathroom but i dont remember anything after that except waking up in a bed. i think they spiked my drink and im worried they did something to me and i dont know who they were.
do i tell my boyfirend and if so, how? i dont want him not to believe me and think i cheated on him.

Tell your boyfriend, but tell your mom/dad first. For all you know, they could've raped you! You need to get tested and make sure that you're okay, in terms of STDs and pregnancy. Tell your boyfriend before he finds out himself. Make sure you tell him in person so that he realizes how upset you are. Tell him the truth, that your drink got spiked and that you woke up in a bed, not remembering anything. If he doesn't understand, he's an asshole. Good luck!

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hi, i am jewish. and i have an extremely large . it is a very frustrating , and whenever i get an erection it pops out like a himylayin mountain or something. ive tried using a rubber band to tie it to my leg, but thats just uncomfortable. is there anyway i can cope wiht my ? i dont want to get a shortner, i like it at 19 1/2 inches, but i want it to be a happy

That's very sad, but you shouldn't be ashamed of your penis. It's a very natural thing, and if anyone says anything, it will probably only be good things. Don't be worried about it. Best of luck to you and your manhood!

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hello samm it is macks! if i knew how to rate, i would give you a ten or whatever is the highest or something cause you cool! oh yah and what would happen if you took viagra? hmmmmmm

Hahaha Macks! =] The highest is a five. But if I took viagra, I would definately explode. Definately.

Lurve yewwwwwww!

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Alright,
So I hada boyfriend for 5 months. he dumped me in february, and im still not over him. Pathetic? i think so. My friend recommended writting down everything that reminded me of him on a big list. she said that helps and that once she wrote them down they didnt remind her anymore. But god, i still look over all our old conversations, think bout him, hate him but still like him somehow. He was my first real boyfriend, well, at least my first serious one. I think im stupid for dwelling on him this long and its driving me crazy. Any way to help?

It's not pathetic, it's love.. Or something close to it. Instead of looking at your relationship and how wonderful it was, just remember all the things that pissed you off about him.. And how it felt when he broke up with you. Also, try seeing other guys. That helped me in my past relationships. Whatever you do, don't re-date him. Because it will become habitatual to going back to him. Too much pain than it's worth. Good luck.. IM me if you need to at samantha spicee

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