Question Posted Wednesday November 8 2006, 1:31 pm
okay, i wrote something on this site a couple of days ago about a guys that i liked that liked me back etc. well yea i was talking to him the other day on the phone and everything was good, and he said i love you before we got off the phone and it was soooo cute=] and well i thought everything was good. but i guess not, because the next day i found out that he was going out with someone.. and well i was obviously mad at the fact that he had a g/f and didnt tell me, and that he still said i love you to me, but what made me even more mad was the fact that it is a girl that i HATE!!! and so i called him to confront him abotu it, and i started to cry=[ well, he wants to talk to me now, and he told me to stay after to talk to him and so i did but he hasnt talked to me yet.. what should i do???
hopeihelped answered Wednesday November 8 2006, 6:20 pm: You guys weren't dating, but he loves you? And he is going out with someone else? I think that he's just playing with your head. I'm sorry, but this dude seems like an ass. You're better than waiting around for him! [ hopeihelped's advice column | Ask hopeihelped A Question ]
Rainbow23 answered Wednesday November 8 2006, 4:03 pm: You and him need to at some point have discussion about where your relationship stands wether it is as friends or as something more intimate, if you do decide to talk to him make sure you don't send the wrong signals, if you don't talk to him then you may never know what he is really feeling. [ Rainbow23's advice column | Ask Rainbow23 A Question ]
duhitsDONNA answered Wednesday November 8 2006, 3:40 pm: If hes in a relationship, stay away from him. Its not fair on his girlfriend OR yourself to get involved. It won't last. If hes telling you that hes in love with you even though he has a girlfriend, then hes bad news. He is probably the kind of guy who would cheat on his girlfriends. You deserve better :) [ duhitsDONNA's advice column | Ask duhitsDONNA A Question ]
advicecutie22 answered Wednesday November 8 2006, 3:34 pm: Give him a little time to plan everything out and talk to you before you completely freak out on him. There is a chance that he has a reasonable explanation for all of this, maybe he is dumping his gf to be with you, who knows. My best advice to you is to just stay calm and let him explain before things get worse.
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