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spiked drink
ok, i was at a house party last week and i didnt really know everybody who was there, it was really my friend who wanted to go. everybody got really drunk but i didnt because i dont drink.
anyway these guys started talking to me but i said i wasnt interested because i have a boyfirend. (ive been seeing him for a year and i love him to bit.) so we just sat talking and they brought me a drink from the kitchen and i remember i felt ill and went to the bathroom but i dont remember anything after that except waking up in a bed. i think they spiked my drink and im worried they did something to me and i dont know who they were.
do i tell my boyfirend and if so, how? i dont want him not to believe me and think i cheated on him.
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Yes, you should tell yur boyfriend, but tell your parents first. They can help you get the treatment you may need. They could have raped you and you may have STDs.
Your boyfriend should know what's going on, so tell him right after you tell your parents. If he has at least an ounce of compasson in him, he'll understand. And if you've been honest with him all along, he'll have no reason to believe that you got drunk and cheated on him. Be patient when you're telling him, and he may get angry (but not at you, the guys who spiked your drink)
I hope it all turns out okay, good luck with everything! =]
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Before telling your boyfriend you need to get to the hospital and get examined. Also since chances are something did happen you need to get on medication to prevent disease and possible pregancy depending on how long ago this happened. If your drink was spiked with a "date-rape" drug then it leaves your system within 72 hours of ingestion so there is no way to tell what you were given. It is important to talk to your doctor and your parents, if your boyfriend doesn't understand that what happened was in no way your fault then he is not worth keeping. Make sure that you get counselling as well this is a lot to deal with, don't do it alone.
If you need to talk let me know.
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Tell your boyfriend, but tell your mom/dad first. For all you know, they could've raped you! You need to get tested and make sure that you're okay, in terms of STDs and pregnancy. Tell your boyfriend before he finds out himself. Make sure you tell him in person so that he realizes how upset you are. Tell him the truth, that your drink got spiked and that you woke up in a bed, not remembering anything. If he doesn't understand, he's an asshole. Good luck!
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ok ya you so should tell him explain to him everything and he should beieve you alo i think u should tell an adult because you have nooo idea what they could have done to you irr could have been anything well hope i helped
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if he is going to be that much of an asshole to think that you cheated on some guy if you specifically told him you passed out after drinking something some guys gave you then you should find somebody better. fast.
its horrible that happened and they might have put a roofie in your drink or something, so my advice would be that i think you should first of all tell your mom or an older person you trust. dont talk to your boyfriend first because this whole thing is about you! its not about how needy or jealous he gets. you dont know if you could be pregnant, or have stds, or just end up emotionally damaged or something because of what happened. figure out all that stuff first and then talk to him about it.
other than that i hope everything works out!
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Honestly, I don't think you should tell your boyfriend unless you know FOR SURE that something happened.
Even if they did spike your drink, you may have just passed out and someone put you in a bed out of the way. You never know..
Even though it was the wrong thing for them to spike your drink, as long as you aren't hurt or anything, I think it'd be best to keep quiet about. It might ruin your relationship.
If you WANT to tell him, then just tell him the guys at the party spiked your drink. That's all you have to say. It's not even lieing, you don't know if anything else did or didn't happen.
And if you tell him you don't know what happened, it's not exactly his place to get mad at YOU because it wasn't your fault. He'll probably just be upset that the guys did that to you.
You don't wanna tell him and him get upset over nothing though..it's up to you!
=] Evy
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