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My friend lets call her july she can be really annoying sometimes and she is really really really reallly really really lazy and slow we have only know eachother for like 1 year she drives me crazy now and has to know everything about my family she tells my mom everything and i hate it i want to tell her but she never listens! What should i do?

well you need to tell her that if she cant respect your opinion the yall cant be friends!!

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My discharge has turned brown for the past 3 days... i suppose to get my period in about a week. Is this spotting or should i worry?


fyi... i typically dicharge heavily between all my periods and it usually is white... the change in color just freaked me out because it's never happened before.


16/f and my period is usually regular

ummm well if you are used to having the same thing every month and now something is diffrent i wood go and see my gynocologist(sp?)

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omfg i need an answer quickly please!
i am not really a cutter, only on occassions. today i was very stressed and cut, deep and long. (not too deep obviously) as i was getting dressed my sister saw it. she said if i didnt go to my friends house she wouldnt tell, so i stayed home. then she came in later and said she was still thinking about telling. you don't realize how upset my mother will get, how pissed my dad will be, i don't want to hurt my parents! i regret doing it, i will never again. i told my sister that, but she doesnt believe me! what do i doto convince her not to tell! what do i do if she does tell!

well!!! there is nothing that you can do if she does tell ecept tell your parents what you just told us!!!

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can u get an STD if u have sex using a condom?

well yes if it busts and there is no garintee that it wont!! if your gonna do it, i wood suggest that you use 1 but it doesnt mean that you wont get one!!!

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i was in love once. with my ex bf of over a year. we broke up cause i found out he cheated on me. well its been 4 months since we broke up. and every bf ive had i compare to him and i cant let him go. we were SO close and i was so comfortable around him. well weve been hanging out lately. and i still get butterflies so much and i love being around him. we were at my house last night and he started holding my hand. and we just talked about how things used to be with us and all our little inside jokes and stuff. i dont know how to tell him i want him back. cause i do. and i know i shouldnt but everyone makes mistakes and i really love him. and my parents love him..and his parents love me..its just perfect..help..what do i tell him without sounding all weird??

well if you know how you feel and what you want(which obviusly you do) then tell the boy!! your right everybody makes mistakes but you have to also think about the fact that if you take him back now its like your like condoning the fact that he cheated on you!! ya know??

plz rate:) ~*$*~Jessica~*$*~

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I'm 17 and i started going out with this boy who was 15 and i was 16 at the time. we went out for a month then i dumped him bc i didnt think i liked him anymore. We remained friends and started to become friends with benefits. Now i really regret breaking up with him i think about him alot. He started liking this other girl an we stopped talking. now over the summer we have drivers ed together and he kind of flirts with me and his gf is leaving for college this year. i dont know what i should do or what i should think...im really confused right now. any help would be great!! thanks.

so pretty much you all were just fuck buddies? well i dont understand because you sed in your other question that it hurt everytime so far... so is he just using you??? i dont understand what you are getting out of the whole "friends with benifits" thing??? but for this question- if you really do regret breaking up with him then you probly do still like him!!! tell him how you feel and see what happens!!!!

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I have another question, earlier i asked one about breaking up with my boyfriend and still likeing him and we became friends with benefits. well we were both were virgins and lost are virginities together. It was my first time so it didnt really feel to good. after he asked me if i felt good an i told him no. we did it a couple more times after that time and it still didnt really feel the best. i guess it got him angry bc he told my sister and his friends that i hate sex. is it normal to feel like that after your first time? is something wrong, what should i do?

yea usually a girls first time is definetly NOT the best!! i guess it takes a few times to get use to the feeling!!!!

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Ok. I'm going on vacation to Brazil in less than a week and I'm gonna pierce my belly button there. I heard that salt water is good for the piercing. But I also heard that it's not good to go swimming ANYWHERE b/c it might get infected. I need to know if I could go swimming in the ocean while I'm Brazil (since the ocean is salt water you know)? Please answer! So important for me to know. I'll rate good!

well yea it is true that salt water is good for the piercing! But also the sand and dirt probly isnt good for it, especially a brand new piercing! if i were you i wood wait until you get back from brazil!! trust me when your belly button gets infected it IS NOT a good feeling!!

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what is STD and how do u get and is it bad

an std is a sexually transmited desease.(sp?)
u get it from having sex.
yea it is really bad!

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ok about what age/grade do boys start to get attracted to girls and start to think more about going out or being boyfriend and girlfriend?

boys usually start to get into girls around the age of 12 or so!! Like in 7th grade!!!!

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My bestfriend is a guy, and ive known him for like 6 years and i dotn know why just all of a sudden i think im in love with him, its just the little things that he does and, i think hes the only guy that really looks into my eyes and tells me things..I mean we are best freinds so of course we tell each other everything, but he tells me like ALOT, and he seems that he likes me sometimes..he used to be like a brother to me but i kno theres no way i could or would ever go out with him..what do i do?

well if you never cood or wood go out w/ him i dont get ur problem??

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Okay, so I've been doing piano for like 5 years now. When I first got a piano I really wanted to take lessons, but that's when I was like...10? Now it's become insane. It ruins my social life, and I don't practice so my really mean Russian teacher gets really mad! I've asked my mom to let me quit, but she gets so mad whyen I ask and says no! What do I do? I want to quit!

well just tell her you are just not going to do it anymore!!!

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im turnin 14 on duh 22 nd my bestfriend may not b able to see meh kuhz her kuzinz ar in state frm sumwhere, my other friend will b too tired frm germany, 5 of my friends ar in asia, 3 in europe, 1 too far, 1 iznt allowed to go out wifout her mom nd yaah.. those ar jes my reeeeely close friends. i hav a few close friends staying. any ideas of wuht i kan do? buh my crush sed he kan take meh out, shoul i jes go out wif him nd not do anything?

wow that was hard to read!!!lol!!! well i guess you can do somthing with your friends and with your crush!!! remember---- friends forever guys whatever!!!

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How do you know if you have a cavity? I've never had cavaties before, so I'm not sure right now. I have this black spot on my back molar (Yes, I brush my teeth lol). It doesn't hurt or ache or anything, but I'm thinking it might be a cavity?

the best thing to do wood be to go to the dentist!!!!

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I am getting a mole removed from my face. And it's not because of anything like skin cancer. I just feel like I want to get rid of it because of beauty reasons. So should I contact a cosmetologist and set up an appointment? Also, I know i'll need to wear a bandage over it for a while, but does anyone know for how long? I have a photoshoot soon, so I'd just like to how long it'd take to heal or whatever. Thanks.

i think your looking for a cosmetic surgeon or a dermatologist(sp?) i dont know what the healing time is though

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i kno my cat is really hot beause its 114 degrees in here and hes kinda panting..so what could i do to cool him down? do i fill up the bathtub with some cool water and put him in it or something? he's really hot

lol.....well i cant tell if your serious or not... but if you are then dont put him in the bath tub because cats hate being wet!!!!!!!

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I grew up in a christian home. I'm almost 18 and still everything in my life is God this God that. I believe in him but that doesn't make my problems go away. I'm always crying, have the blues, feel alone, feel anger, sad, somedays I just don't feel like doing anything but lay around. But everytime I try to show to my parents that I have a problem I get God shoved in my face. Sometimes I just want to run away from home...but I know that won't solve anything. What should I do? If I stick around home anylonger I'm afraid that I'll do something to myself again.

well if i was u the next time i went 2 my parents w/ a problem and they did that i wood just tell them how you feel! i always try to talk ALL of my problems out with the people involved..... and what do you mean "do something again?????" have you done something befor????

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i used to be a cutter right? And at some times i still am. I went through a lot in my childhood and am just recoving from a consequential 3 years of depression. But thats not the problem its this: i have this crazy compulsion with picking at my skin. it has nothing to do with cutting, and i dont think it has anything to do with depression. Like, i do it all the time, even when im happy. theres no emotion at all attached to it, except sum kind of bizzare need, i guess. i cant help it. i did it like a little bit before, but no its so much worse! once i start i cant tear myself away. i make myself bleed. i cause scars and i hate it. Does anybody know anything about this? Anything similar? Any ideas? i'll rate high for good answers.

i have never heard of anything like this... i say u need to go to the doctor...like a special doctor.

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This is the thing. my friend recently had a cold sore. I've heard that the only way you can have a cold sore (even once) is if you have herpes. Does this mean that she has herpes? Answers would be greatly apreciated. Thanks. Will rate high.

well i have always heard that it was.... my friend has them all the time and my mom told me NEVER 2 drink after her or use her lipgloss or anything..... and my mom is a gynocologist(sp?)

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me and my boyfriend been together for pretty long now...and about four months into our relationship we started having sex...we have sex pretty much..and i was wondering is it wrong for me to like to have sex a lot...like im not a slut or anything i can go outwith it..i just like to do it..the only person i slept with was my boyfriend that i have now..i just dont want you people to think im a slut or anything..

no its not bad or anything.. and as far as people talking about you....well just blow them off..

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