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I have another question, earlier i asked one about breaking up with my boyfriend and still likeing him and we became friends with benefits. well we were both were virgins and lost are virginities together. It was my first time so it didnt really feel to good. after he asked me if i felt good an i told him no. we did it a couple more times after that time and it still didnt really feel the best. i guess it got him angry bc he told my sister and his friends that i hate sex. is it normal to feel like that after your first time? is something wrong, what should i do?
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yes, its very normal to feel that way after your first time. your body is not used to it yet, its not that you hate sex tho. i dont think you should continue to have sex with him bc he might tell everyone and give you a bad name.
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yes; it is normal to not enjoy sex at first. nothing is wrong with you - your body is still stretching and it'll hurt the first few times. if he's a virgin and not so experienced; he may not exactly know what he's doing. if you want to have sex with him.. then try some different positions that will have you reach your potential.
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No pumpkin. My first time was unbearable. My second, third, fourth, even fifth time wasn't that great either. I lightly bled those times as well. It's completely normal. It just takes a little while and alittle patients. It will get better, trust me. You just need to take it slow, and perhaps the next time you have sex don't let him take the reins... you take the reins and try figuring things out that you'll like.
If the problem is that he has a hard time getting into you, I suggest purchasing some lubricant. It really works wonders and will help him slide in and out of you a little more efficently without stretching you or making you burn down there.
If the problem is that you feel he's hitting the back of your vagina(where the cirvex is), which can be either painful, or just plain uncomfortable, you might want to ask him not to go as deep.
If the problem is neither, then it might be that his penis is just too small to give any real pleasure, or that he doesn't know how to properly give sex.
If you want to get back at this looser for spreading it around that you don't like sex, I suggest that anyone who asks you about it you reply with,"Well... maybe I'd like it if someone knew how to properly give it." This should make him think twice before trying to bash you.
<3 Nyx
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Ya, it's totally normal! Your idk umm"vagina" isnt used to havin thing go in and out of it lik that so its really tight at first and after a few more times it starts to loosen up. Obviously the guy you did it with dusnt know anything if he automatically thought you wud have an orgasm! Trust me after doing it a few more time you will start to feel good! hope i helped leave a question in my inbox if you'd like x0x0 *Caitie*
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Ok first off, do not let anyone make you feel like something's wrong with you because they didn't get the reaction or answer they wanted.
The first time usually isn't that pleasurable for women, although there are some exceptions. This is usually due to the guy getting carried away and not taking the time to make sure you reach pleasure. It was a year after my first time before I ever got any pleasure from sex, and that was more my doing than his.
If you know what turns you on, don't be afraid to tell the guy. Guys are just as insecure about sex as girls are and very few mind if you give them some pointers. Make sure to do this tactfully so he doesn't take it as an attack on his manhood. A moan when he hits the right spot or telling him how good it feels when he finds it will let him know without sacrificing his ego.
With that said, if I were you I would dump him. For one, no one that truly loves you would tell everyone that you were lousy in bed. Sex is a highly personal act, not to be shared with your circle of friends for their amusement. Second, a truly loving guy would take the time to learn what gives you pleasure and go from there, not get mad about it.
Don't give up on sex. When you find the right guy, you will have the fireworks and passion you were expecting.
Last but not least, if you decide to continue having sex, please make sure to protect yourself. Your local health department or planned parenthood office can give you information and contraceptives at little or no cost if you don't feel you can talk to your parents. They also keep your visit confidential.
Hope this helps. Good luck.
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Yes it's totally normal for it not to feel very good the first time, or couple of times. First off because your are tight and in pain and secondly because alot of girls don't actually get off on intercourse.
It takes time for a couple to learn how to enjoy one another and have great sex, it doesn't just happen, you actually have to work at it as a couple. Don't worry though, it usually gets better with patience and practice.
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yea usually a girls first time is definetly NOT the best!! i guess it takes a few times to get use to the feeling!!!!
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oh it's totally normal for the first couple times hun! If your sister is a virgin, you should tell her what happens. if shes not, then she should understand! His friends are probably boys right? well...then they can take a girl yelling at them. ;) If you want, try it again. If it still doesn't feel too good, don't worry. It's normal. Hope i helped. if you need anything, let me kno and i'll answer your question ASAP. good luck!
Julie ^o^
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