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Question Posted Saturday July 16 2005, 11:13 pm

omfg i need an answer quickly please!
i am not really a cutter, only on occassions. today i was very stressed and cut, deep and long. (not too deep obviously) as i was getting dressed my sister saw it. she said if i didnt go to my friends house she wouldnt tell, so i stayed home. then she came in later and said she was still thinking about telling. you don't realize how upset my mother will get, how pissed my dad will be, i don't want to hurt my parents! i regret doing it, i will never again. i told my sister that, but she doesnt believe me! what do i doto convince her not to tell! what do i do if she does tell!


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carebear answered Sunday July 17 2005, 10:18 pm:
tell her to trust you that you womt do it any more but dont tell her if you are going to do it again. you should know that many people love you and you wont imagine how much you will hurt them if they find out about that.

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FantastaWoman answered Sunday July 17 2005, 7:20 pm:
Dear cutting,

I agree with your sister. She needs to tell. If you cut at all, even if "only on occassions", you are a cutter. Please get help. Take luck!

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poa answered Sunday July 17 2005, 1:54 am:
If she tells, tell your parents its her fault because she is constantly conning you. Tell them that she is such a wicked wench that you wish she would constantly drop dead, and that the only way you may ever stop cutting yourself is to watch them brutally murder her in front of you.

Or if your last name isn't Ramsey, you can always cover it up in makeup.

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exyweetee99 answered Sunday July 17 2005, 1:52 am:
well!!! there is nothing that you can do if she does tell ecept tell your parents what you just told us!!!

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Alpha345 answered Sunday July 17 2005, 1:03 am:
Listen, there are better ways to relieve a stressful day other than cutting. You need to talk to your sister about it and tell her you do not want your parents to know and be very serious about it. Cutting won't help you relieve a stressful day and it certainly will NOT help you in the long run. In every case I have seen of someone cutting they do it again, which makes it worse and worse, until it comes to a point where it is like an addiction, and as you are most likely aware, addictions can ruin your life and lead to a whole new host of problems. Please talk to your sister then make a hard effort not to cut yourself anymore, no matter how the stressful the day has been or how bad your life may seem. I will pray for you and I hope this gets better for you and I sincerly hope this advice helped.

-Ryan

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YourFabulous answered Sunday July 17 2005, 12:56 am:
Well maybe try talking to her and telling her why you do it..you really shoulden't be doing it =( I'm sorry but still..maybe you needa get help or something..so maybe telling your mom or dad could be kinda good? Hope it works out..
--Josie

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Teza answered Sunday July 17 2005, 12:49 am:
Tell her sister that you were just having a really really stressful day and that you were'nt thinking straight and that you mean what you say. You will never do it again. If that doesnt work just threaten to tell your parents something bad about her that she didnt want them to know. It always works. But seriously dont ever cut again. [[ ♥ ]]

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TheHeadHonchoPoncho57 answered Sunday July 17 2005, 12:44 am:
I know this is not the answer you'll want to hear, but it always works.

The Art of Bribery


Pay her, do anything that you can do!


Sorry I couldn't have come up with a better solution :(

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Messy0105 answered Sunday July 17 2005, 12:26 am:
ok man listen up..first off ill let ya no im kinda mean...but neway you dont need to cut urself i mean your life might be bad but someones life is always worse and how could you do something like that to urself..wat if next time you die how do u think ur parents will feel if they bury there son...maybe you should look both ways before crossing the street again
Big Ace

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