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Yeah, you can change your name the person below me is wrong. Log into facebook, and MY ACCOUNT (in the top right). Scroll down all the way to the bottom & there should be something that is labled change name. Just submit your new name & no it doesnt untag your pictures or anything like that, it just changes everything to the new name :)

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So my name is Rebecca. People always ask me which name i prefer so what do you guys tyhink is the best?

1. Rebecca
2. Becky
3. Becs
4. Becca

Same as the person below me. I like Becca the best :)

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how do you do an SOS with a mirror and can you do it by blinking?

My dad once told me it was 3 long flahses then 3 short flashes. Best bet, google it.

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i just recently got braces and ive always heard stories and seen stuff on tv about how hard and the things that happen when kissing with braces.

does it really hurt the other person and hard?
or is that just made up?

mainly, can i kiss with braces?

Yes you can kiss, I had braces for 3 years, never once did it effect kissing. Don't worry about it. It's safe, sparks arn't going to fly nor will you get stuck to the other person. Relax & just have fun :)

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i recently met this guy and we went to the movies but it was a double date with my friend and his friend. it was the first time we met and we didnt say anything like during the movie and our friends were talking away. we talked later on the computer and talked about a bunch of things. now i know him better and were going to the movies again, but im scared its going to be awkward again.

any ideas on what should i say to him?

It should be less awkward this time. You guys now know more about each other. Talk about things you talked about online or talk about the movie or other movies you've just seen. Hope this helped.

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okay.
my friend recently had sex
for the first time.
without a condom. .
but he claims he didnt cum in her?

idk.
shes freaked as hell
and is worried she might be pregnant.

is there a chance she could be?
i think so, but i figured i'd get a second opinion.
thank you (:

Yeah she could, even tho it was her first time and he claims he didnt cum in her. Sex with out protection = bad idea.

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has anybody ever used witch hazel as a toner?
like put it on a cotton ball and wipe it over your face?

did it work for your acne?

It's all I use. It doesn't smell the "best" but it keeps my face clear. I say try it !!

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There this girl I know she is my buddies step-sister at first I saw her as a buddy then my buddy starts telling her that I liked her and as he did I actully started to. It freaked her out at first cause we were young, yet a year later she started doing those little things that you can tell she liked me i guess we matured. I haven seen her in a while then i was talking about the past and how I thought she liked me and that we had "something" and I could tell she was uncomfortable and she stormed off and later I founf she had a Bf Now i dont no what to say. plz help

Tell her you're sorry, that you didnt know she had a boyfriend and you didnt know it would make her uncomfortable. Tell her that you were talking about the past & you didn't mean to complicate things now because of back then. I'm sure she'll understand.

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i cant hide my top friends, or my comments anymore.
i know there used to be a note from tom on everyone's home page that said it was messed up, but it's not there anymore.
is ther any codes that can hide them now? or is it still being fixed??

thanks!

I just hide mine today. I used these codes but make sure you put them in your [WHO ID LIKE TO MEET] section & at the very bottom of the section or it doesnt work. Just copy & paste this whold link in there, it works for both hiding friends and comments.

THE CODE : (everything inside the [ ].
[ td.text td.text table table table, td.text td.text table br, td.text td.text table .orangetext15, td.text td.text .redlink, td.text td.text span.btext {display:none;} td.text td.text table {background-color:transparent;} td.text td.text table td, td.text td.text table {height:0;padding:0;border:0;} td.text td.text table table td {padding:3;} td.text td.text table table br {display:inline;} .rid br {display:none;}
]

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does mylie cyrus lip synce? on her show, it doesnt look like she does, but in clips from her concerts on tv, it looks like she does.

Most TV shows the person lip synces (much like music videos), but in concert I'm almost sure she sings for real.

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hey my name is tara and ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months. recently he's been getting closer to one of his friends that i dont really care for. My best friend was involved with my boyfriends friend and he screwed her over. since this new friend has been in my boyfriends life hes been distant to my best friend and they were good friends for a long time. Since this all happened my bestfriend constantly complains about my boyfriend how hes different cause they dnt talk as much. shes said that she would never ask me to break up with him cause he means alot to me but i feel like she wants me to. i'm in a really weird position i love this kid so much and its so great but i feel like everyones bringing me down i dnt know what to do. =[

That was a little confusing, but ill try my best to help you.

Talk to your best friend, tell her how you are feeling and tell her how much you are about him & how you wouldn't want to break up with him. Talk to the guy, tell him how your friend is feeling. If you don't want to talk to the guy have your best friend talk to him. You shouldnt have to break up with your boyfriend. He means alot to you and your bestfriend should see that.

Try asking the question again, but in a different way & I'd be glad to help, your question jsut confused me a little & I couldn't give you the best advice =/

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How to get rid of hickeys in an hour?

The spoon thing works.. sometimes. I'v tried it and sometimes it worked and sometimes it didnt. Try that, and then use makeup to cover up whats left..

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is there anyways i can get myself to fall asleep? i am up sometimes like 2 hours after i lay down and its like 3 am! no naps...
please help me :D thanksthanksthanks

Same problem, summer always makes me have old sleep times. I read, it tends to make me "bored" and sleep..

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I am gonna have sex with my boyfriend for the first time, where would be some romantic places for my first time to be at?

Think more comfort then romantic... Somewhere you're both comfortable.. one of you guy's bed ? Just make sure your both okay with it & you use protection.

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Ok so i have this boyfriend and we get into aguements alot. He tells me that im stupid and retarted. sometimes he even calles me a stupid bitch, dumb ass bitch, or jus plain bitch. he says that im tha problem and that im always getting him mad. Im only 15 and my friends and familly say leave him but some say dnt if ur happy. Im tired of heareing that hole "theres more fish in tha sea" cuz thers really not im in love with him not anyone else. I dont know wat to do anymore im in love with him and want to spend tha rest of my life with him but not like this..
Please someone help me wat do i do????

-shawttii

I been the same place you are now. It's not good and your confused, people are telling you so many different things you don't know what to do. Listen to yourself, and go off what you want not anyone else. What he is showing you.. isn't love, it is abuse. It's verbal. No one should be talked to like that. I delt with being talk to like that for 3 years, it doesn't get better it only gets worse. He doesn't change, no matter how bad you think he will. You are 15 years old, you may love him yes, but there are TONS of other guys out there that would treat you the right way. You may think there is no one else out there for you, but there is. This guy isn't treating you the right way, and things are only going to get worse to the point where he may start being physicaly abusive. You can't be happy if he says that stuff to you, it has to hurt you and effect your feelings. Leave him, he's not doing you any favor. There are guys out there that are amazing and you won't know unless you try and find one. You're 15 years old, who says you have to find the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.. now ? You have so much ahead of you, dont waste your time on someone who doesnt care about your feelings and only hurts them...

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Well here is the story. Ok the other day My friend had sex for the first time and she said that when her boyfriend put his dick in her it hurt really bad. And I told her ( not knowing anything about this stuff beucase I am still a virgin.)that it was probley beucase it was her first time having sex! and she said that she was moaning just because it hurt her so bad..! she said she let her boyfriend do it for like 2 min's and had to stop him. So when girls moan is it beucase they hurt so bad or it fells good? idk?

Thanks In advance!
much lover XoXoXo

It should be because of a good feeling, not a painful one.

--- EDIT ---
I don't see how my answer is confusing. It's pretty self explainatory...

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whenever i try and add a new buddy to my buddy list it say that i can't save it. what's wrong?

Possible you have to many buddies. Try deleting old or unknown screen names on your list, then try saving the new ones.

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Can you get AIDS by drinkin after somebody that has AIDS?
thanks :]

No you can't. I heard its around 8 gallons of spit to get HIV/AIDS from someone. Honestly.. if you come in contact with 8 gallons of spit.. I'd like to know ;)

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My boyfriend wants to have sex. I don't want to lose him. What should I do?

If you're not ready for sex and he is, then you need to talk to him about it, and explain to him why you're not ready and that he should respect your wishes. If he doesn't, then you don't need him in your life. You should wait until you are comfortable with who your having sex with and you shouldn't give him to him just because you don't want to lose him. You're better then that I'm sure, you shouldn't have to have sex with someone just so they stay with you. If that's the case.. all he's looking for is "some". If you are comfortable with him and you don't have to question yourself then you know you're ready to have sex with him, but if you have to double ask yourself (basicly like you are now) then that should be a sign right there, that having sex with him is a wrong idea (at this time) and you should hold out and until you are really ready and comfortable. Good luck, hope this helped.

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