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i ♥ giving advise .. ANYKIND! so dont be afraid to ask me. i love this site and im on it all the time so your questions will get answered pretty quickly. Some things about me .. my name is candace and i live in georiga. I love hangin out with my friends and doing stupid stuff. My favorite color is green!! green rocks! my favorite places to shop at are 1) american eagle 2) abercrombie 3) hollister 4) aeropostale 5) old navy ... these are the places i shop at the most but i do go other places sometimes! my favorite animal is deffinatly a monkey! they are soo cool. i have monkeys all in my room (fake ones of course!). well if you want to know anyhting else, just ask!

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If you don't put your name or url/e-mail in when you leave someone on a message, can they figure out it's you? By the way, I don't have one.
The chatterbox is http://cbox.co.za/

yep .. all you have to do is look at the IP number.

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Hey me and my girlfriend just broke up she broke up with me in january a different girl dumped me and i got over her for a little while but when i started talking to her again i couldnt help but love her again i miss her so much i dont know if she likes me
what should i do should i ask her out or should i sit here and wish she would go out with me please help!?!?!?!?!

you should so ask her back out!!! dont wait for this, because she might find someone else ... GO ON AND ASK HER OUT!!

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I really like this guy at my school, but i know for a fact that he doesnt like me, i want to really ask him out badly but i dont want to be turned down, what should i do?

aww .. im sorry! but if he doesnt like you, im pretty sure he wont go out with you. I would just move on. i know there's another guy out tehre that does like you!

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How do you know if a guy likes you or not?

its kinda hard to tell. Some of the signs are he flirts with you all the time, he likes being around you, he stares at you. He does anyhting just to touch you. Things like that.

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my friend likes this guy and they both act like there going out. But they both wont admit that they like eachother. how can i find out if they like eachother or not?

thats what me and this guy name bj are doing right now. we both like each other but we wont tell anyone. We flirt all the time and hang out alot, but we just dont want everyone to know right now. Maybe your friend and the guy doesnt want anyone to know. I would just let them do what tehy want and just let them tell you when they are ready to.

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Do yOU find anything wrong with A white girl and a Black guy being in-love dating, and wanting to get married?

please, share your oppinion, and support it!
I am open to hear both sides!

nothing is wrong with that. i dont get why some poeple think there is something wrong with it. the only difference in white people and black people is there skin color.

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ok well i started to like my best friend, and i was talking to him one day, and he asked me who i liked and i couldnt lie so i said it was him. acctaully, i asked him who he thought it was and he said he thought it was him, so i said it was. ever since then we've still talked and stuff, and things only feel a little different. today, i told him i didnt like him anymore. he asked me why and asked if it was because i liked someone else.. while in my head i was thinking aww i imed him back and said no, its because its screwing everything up between us. then i got booted off. but i dont know what to do, i wanna stop liking him but i cant!

It seems like he likes you, so i would say dont stop liking him, GO FOR IT! but if you think its hurting your relationship, then you might want to try to stop liking him. Its really hard to tell your head not to like someone, when your heart is saying something else. So i would say .. follow your heart!

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Last night I did this really hard aerobics class at my gym and i am sooo sore that it hurts everywhere everytime i move...is there anything i can do to make the soreness go down?...thanks

i'd say soak in the bath for a while. It will go away in a few days. Thats how it was to me at first, when i first started taking workout classes, but then after a few weeks my body got used to it and didnt hurt that much.

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Hey you guyz does any one know if the ab lounge works. If so likie if it works good or not.

yes!! it works. its works good .. but dont overdue it.

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My dad just bought a brand new house,2 story, in a really extremely nice neighboorhood. He's always bragging about the new schools that are in building process and kind of pressuring me and asking me to move with him. Everytime he says "im not trying to get you to move with me", when really he is. Its really getting on my last nerves. How can i come clean (in a nice way) and say stop asking me because i never will. (keep in mind my parents are divorced and i live with my mom). Someone please help soon!!!!

xOxO

thats the same with me .. i live with my mom adn my dad lives like an hour away. he says teh schools are better down there and he wants to spend more time with me so i need to ocme live with him. It does get very annoying, but i just brush it off and tell him the truth. im like "i love you dad .. i really do. but i like it where im at now and i could never picture leaving my mom. I think ill stay with coming to your house every other weekend like i do now." He brings it up every now and then, but no where near as much as he used to. Hope this helped you!!!

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Im 13, and im in 8th grade. Theres this girl, her name is Ashley. She is VERY annoying and she constantly follows me and thinks im her best friend. Shes not my best friend! I have 3 best friends and she is tearing us apart becasuse whenever I leave her for them, she gets mad, and I can't even talk to them without her there! I don't know how to get rid of her because I really want me and my best friends to hang out again without her! I know it's mean but I dont have a choice and shes very geeky and nobody really likes her! Please don't tell me to tell her to go away because everyone is telling me to do that and I don't have the heart to. What should I do?

~Kylie~

i would think that is the easyest way to do it .. (telling her the truth) but say it in a nice way. and if you dont wanna do that .. ignore her. She will ge thte picture when you walk off and dont say anything to her. Or you can tell her that you dont want her around 24/7 and that you need time to be with your friends sometimes without her. i know its all hard to do because it sounds so mean, but you will be thankful after you do it!!

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ok so i have this bf for about 3 months...he is being mean to me..in the halls he says break up with me jokingly n tells me he would rather hang with his frinds to go airsofting than hang with me...i really like him still n all but he doesnt care about me like i think a boyfriend should...should i talk to him maybe he will change or should i dumb him...my guy friend has said to me that my bf doesnt care about me n that he is being an ***hole towards me.im confused b\c i still really like him n if i break up with him i might regret it...im confused on what to do..

i think you need to have a serious talk with him and tell him he needs to change or else its over with. Say you want a boyfriend that will treat you right, and if he loves you then he would be nice to you no matter who yall are in front of. And if he doesnt change in a week or so, the best thing to do is dump him. I know it will be hard, but if he doesnt change .. why would you wanna stay with that? I know there is another guy out there that will treat you right.

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how do i change my password on AIM

at the top click in "my aim" then go down to "edit options" then go to "change password"

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I am a 13 year old girl and in 7th grade. I would describe my clothes style as preppy. However, the music I normally listen to is (in my opinion, I really don't know) far from preppy. I listen to bands like Green Day, The Killers, Linkin Park, and Evanesence (I don't think I spelled that right). I was just wondering if anyone thought this was weird. I can listen to some "preppy" music (a.k.a- stuff you would find on TRL) but most of it really bugs me, because it doesn't soud like they are the people singing. Again, does anyone think that this is odd? Sorry for the length, but I was just wondering! Thanks in advance to all that reply!

not weird at all. thats the same way as me. i won best dressed at my school (a very preppy school) and i listen to all kinds of music!!

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I was wondering what the day 4/20 meant?

Thanks

its national pot/weed day. its just another day for stoners to have an excuse to get high. LOL.

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this is one of his friends .. i was just wondering

yea .. i still like him alot. i would go back out wtih him!!

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if josh still likes u and asked u back out, would you go out with him?

ummm .... who is this?

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I have a bit of flub going over the top of my jeans. Do you know any good work outs for abs? Preferably the lower abs!! thats where i need it the most

i would do 100 or so crunches a day.

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i recently got my belly button peirced 3 weeks ago, its healed really nicely. my boyfriend gave me a really pretty ring for it for my birthday and i can't wait to change it. Is it too early to change it, because it says wait 8 weeks, but its healed and i know a otn of people who have changed it earlier, thanks!

no its not too early. i got mine done on valentines day and i changed it a week later. The guy that pierced mine said it was ok to change it after a week but make sure the ring is soaked in alcohol for at least 5 minutes so that it will be cleaned. Hope this helped. leave it in my inbox if u need anythign else.

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goes anyone know where u can get free music download cuz i want a alot of songs from korn and judest priest
- bri

go to www.bearshare.com and download the free version and then you can download music on there!! its really easy adn free. hope it helped.

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