my name is amber
i used to get on here alot
bt the thing is changed and differant now, so yeah
but i'll answer any question and give you my best way of ahdling it or like yeah you know?
ha well, i've gone through alot, like more than most kids my age have, so i pretty much think i can relate to alot of stuff
so, like yeah, if you ever want to just talk, i'm here and listening
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Gender: Female
Location: the ATL
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Member Since: March 24, 2006
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Okay, well, I recently tried to install the Sims game on my computer, but it keeps being retarded and it says my computer doesn't have enough memory or hard drive room or something. But we deleted all the things with a lot of room so there's more than enough room for a game that's only 2.06 MG. So what's wrong with it? I really want to play the Sims too. It's my favorite game. And don't reccomend getting a new computer because that's out of the question. And I don't want Sims for PS2 or PSP or anything. Thanks. (link)
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okay i had this problem to with a game! and like my dad had to go out and buy more memory!!
so i advice that! because deleting stuff well i guess that works! but i owuld consider trying to buy more memory!
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aright,yesterday people were sayin in their away messages, 'out celebrating 4/20' and on wednesday, my dance teachers daughter said to her friend, haha, tomorrow is 4/20! and uhmm im totally confused could somebody fill me in? thanks (link)
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its kinda like 3/14 which is like pie! and at my school are MATH teachers celbrate that and we have PIE day! yes lame i no! but FREE pie
same with 4/20 which is pot day like the people before me said! or at my school they would say WSD...weed somkin day!
which is pretty much every day at my school! lol
well i hope i helped=]
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what are some advantages of using a tampon? and after you get your period, when should you use them?? thanks ill rate (link)
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you can go swimming if you wear them! you cant with pads
and you use them only when your like on your period! lol
well like yeah hope i helped=]
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everyonr says when they go into my myspace, it takes them to a false add. if i delete all my html codes (layouts, contact boxes, etc..) and re-do everything, will it be fixed? if not how do i fix it? (link)
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ugh well yeah i dont get your question either! but myspace is being slow like today
so give it a day or two it should work better i think TOM is like fixing it or something
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ok...i need to make mix cd's for my party.
so i've downloaded all the music from limewire, now i just need to know how to get the music from limewire onto the cd's.
step by step instructions would be nice please (link)
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kay so like yeah i did this just the other day for my friend
what you do okay you got all the songs you want downloaded!! then there is this button its called well i think it starts with an E! press that so it goes down tot he bottom on limewire!!
if ur not sure what im talkin baout leave me a message in my inbox so i can get back to you on that!!
then after that when you put all the music down there! press save or save as its at the bottom on the left where it says open!!
give it a name like PARTY MIX!! or w.e!
then save it! and clikck WINDOW MEDIA PLAYER!!
and open your saved music file then burn it!!
well im kinda bad at expling something unless im right there doing it or i have it infront of my eyes! which i dont right now
but if you have any question..feel free to ask me
hope i helped=]
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My boyfriend drinks. That I dont care about. Just as long as he is responsible. Well he goes out with a friend of ours and drink this his friend's freinds. It really kind of bothers me because they are girls. I have talked to him about it, and he has reassured me that he won't do anything to threaten us as a couple. But our mutual friend, whom he drinks with, says that he can't control himself. But, This friend is known to tell lies. What should I do? I don't trust the girls he drinks with. I trust him. They drink like 2-3 times a week. (link)
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wellll?? hum thats a tuffy!!
well see if next time when he goes if you can!!
if your boyfreind is like NO then be supisious! well yeah!! just try and go with him one day and see for yourself what he's like
hope i helped
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Me and my best friend got drunk about 3 weeks ago. Now my dad absolutely hates her and calls her a druggie and an alcoholic just because she drank once which was with me. My dad is very strict and very controlling and he's not the kind of guy that should be a father. He used to hit me when I was little and I'm deathly scared of him. I told my school guidance counciler(sp) about how me and my best friend did that and how my dad and mom knows and she says that they should be forgiving because I learned never to do something like that again because I didn't like it. So now i dont know what to do. My dad won't even talk to me and when he does he gets in my face and screams at me. even threating to bash my skull in. I told him he makes my life miserable and he said "NO I FKING DONT DONT EVEN GIVE ME THAT" and i said "how can you tell me if you do or dont" and he just said he knows he doesn't even though he makes my life a living hell. I got about two C+'s on my report card and he screamed at me and said "WHY DONT YOU GO STUDY YOU DUMB SH-T!!" my best friend can;t even go on our huge school fieldtrip becayse my dad called the school and told him I wasn't aloud to be with her. I tried talking it over with him and he just screams at me. On top of that, my mom comes home drunk every night and I don't even want to be living here right now. Does anyone have any help for me? I need it fast because I don't know what to do with myself anymore. (link)
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like OH em gee i could cry! like fo-real im going through about the same stuff!!
but for me the counslor didnt do much! they didnt even believe me! and it made it so much worse!!
like i realyl wish i knew what i could say and make ou feel better! becuase im the same way i wanna leave this house adn get outta here! but i cant!!
and like reading this i can relate to you! i mean i no i dont no you and you dont know me! but if you ever just wanna talk and for someone to listen please email me its a_dolphin@comcast.net!!
i'll listen and wont judge you!
im not trying to sound like a freak but im serious some of my problems relate to yours! and i wouldnt mind talkin to you because sometimes i wish i had someone to talk to thats gone or is going through the same thing as me!!
but yeah well i hope in some way you feel better after reading this!=]
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well i have this problem..i really hate myself i think i'm stupid fat and totally ugly! my mom always tells me i'm not and i'm soooo pretty but i think she's just saying that cause she's my mom! and well a lot of grown up's are also telling me i'm the most pretty girl the've ever seen but in my school people always tell me i'm ugly except my best friend but i think she's also just saying that cause she's my friend! and i really dont get it .. all the grown up people think i'm soo pretty and they tell me that when im not even asking! but in school everybody says im ugly and everytime i look in the mirrow i start crying! i dont know whats wrong with me! i wanna like me but i really hate me! can anybody tell me how i get myself to like me again? please!!!!! i'll rate high for good advice (link)
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dont worry about people at your school and what you think!
to me i try and not see ugly! i dont know whta you believe in! but the lord doesnt see ugly or colord and yeah
i dont know you but if you boost your self asteem it will make you look better! i know people who say there ugly but they have such a great personality it makes them look better!!
dont worry your not ugly....i promise
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...even if we give good advice people rate low if it's something they don't want to hear? Too bad we can't add a comment to their rating. (link)
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i totally agree=]
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Were Adam and Eve the first people on Earth? If so what about the cavemen? I thought they appeared first? I am confused. I mean, are the cavemen really the "people" in Darwin's theory of evolution? And so not supported by the bible...umm.. (link)
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well i believe in the bible!
i dont believe in evolution!!
like the person said before me to some extant it might be true! just not from APE to man!
but see i had a problem sorta like this but it was with Dinosaures! i know that sound weird but yeah because there is proove of dinosaures but in the bible it doesnt mentchen it!!
well im good friend with my preachers daughter and i asked her about it! welll in the bible ONE day could mean like 1000 years are time! it never does say how long the days where!
i dont no if i believe in cave man or whatever!
and i no what i said was kinda different then your question but i hope it helped in some way!!
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I can't pronounce my "r"s. :( What can I do? My teeth, both top and bottom need braces. Does that have anything to do with my speech impediment? Is that even a speech impediment? My R's sound like W's. I am taking Spanish and there are "rr"'s which is hell for me. (link)
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my brother had the same problem
he couldnt even pronounce my name wich is amber
and what was funny about it to me is when he tryed to say fart he would say eww someone fowted
well my stepmom got him to practise! keep saying ART
or trying the beigging of ruff till you get it down! then move on to bgger words with R!
like once my brother got ART down he could say Fart!
well ih ope i helped!!
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Hey Im almost 14 and I still havent gotten my period yet. Is this normal? (link)
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yeah its normal
everyone starts at different times!
and exspeially if your athletic it will come later
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Say on the Hello Kitty site or whatever site there is a star I want to use to put on my shirt. I blow it up and edit it. Is it okay to wear that around places? I didn't make the star; what should I do and what should I answer to people who asked where I got my shirt? (link)
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or say your grandma got it for you! or that you got it for your birthday
or tell them the truth and just be like well i made it but i took it fromt hello kitty website!!
either one!!
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How often should you change your pads?
I get my period heaviest the first two days.
Are tampons comfortable? I'm petite.. and I dance so I think using a pad would be uncomfortable while I'm dancing..
Should I use a tampon when I'm dancing? OR can I just use a pad?
Can you swim with a pad? (link)
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well most pads and tampons come with like directions! i no that sounds weird but its useful
the longest i think you should leave on a pad is like 2 hours specially when its really heavy! but if its not heavy then 3 and a half!
tampons are soo much comfortable to wear! exspeicaly if your gonna be dancing! PADS are annoying as crap to me! if you havent worn a tampon yet! i suggest Tampax pearls plastic!! i wouldnt use cardbored its like harder to me!! but yeah
only leave a tampon in for about 2 hours no more becuase you could get TSS for leaving a tampon in to long!
i wear tampons durring the day then ate night i wear a pad to bed!
and no you cant swim with a pad! thats why you should get use to tampons there more comfortable to do things in! *when you know how to use them right* and you can swim in a tampon!!
so yeah i hope i helped
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im scared about starting my period because i dont know when it will happen. i need to know the syptoms and what it feels like - not trying to be nasty, im really scared.- k thanks in advance.
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well evryone is differnt!
some people get carmps in there stomach area!
i dont sometimes i'll get a really bad headach!!
before you start you might get some discharge which if you dont know isl ike white stuff! that helps me know im about to start soon!
so yeah you could get cramps or headachs! but everyone is different! so yeah i hope i helped
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when or after you start your period do you have to wear a pad, or tampon all the time after you start it like everyday do you have to wear one. sorry. i dont know. i haven't started mine and im scared. lol.
thanks in advance
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nope!
you only need to wear it when your on it!
when i strted mine i was like im gonna wear one all the time just in case! but like that was stupid! lol
you onl need to wear it when your on it! you'll be able to tell when your about to start and sometime you can tell when your almost off!!
but yeah you no you dont have to wear one alll the time unless your on it
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This is for people in high school. Sorry if it's long but I'll rate all 5s && give feedback! When you go into high school from middle school, does everything change alot? && Also, do you loose a lot of friends/do a lot of people change/is there a lot more work?? I'm just really nervous for high school && that everythign's gonna change I know high schools "the best years of our lives" but Im scared so if you guys could tell me your expierences with it && if you loose your old friends/best friends && everything changes && how it changes. Thanks. I will rate you all fives promise! &♥; dayna. (link)
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ewll im a freshie right now! and i thought the same questions when i was in 8th grade!!
i have lost some friends! and i have also grown closer to people who i used to no like in middle school!
stay close with your really good friends!
and high school is the itme when people GROW up. there still might be drama and stuff but im sure you'll make more friends then lose some!
some people will change like i said there growing up being more mature and stuff
and it depends on your classes! like we have block scedule so i only have 4 classes a semester! i dont really get that much homework! but i no people who do! so it depends on the classes an teachers
and please dont screw up your freshman year! i did.. and i failed some classes for that! which sucks! just seriosly do like all your work! because they normally dont give make-up work in high school
well i hope i helped
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I’ve been having issues with my parents lately. I have a different problem for each of them. I guess this is a two-part question.
In order to fully understand my situation, I think a little background information is required . . .
My parents met one another while they were in highschool. They started dating soon after and eventually my mother ended up pregnant with me at the age of seventeen. It was completely unexpected and unplanned - I was a ‘surprise’, if you will. At the time, my grandmother was a very traditional woman. The idea of premarital children just didn’t sit well with her. She managed to convince my parents that marriage was their only option. They married three months after I was born.
Because my father came from a wealthier family, he graduated from highschool and was able to attend university. My mother, on the other hand, dropped out of highschool four months before her graduation so she could get a full-time job in order to support me and father while he was in school.
It’s not really a surprise that my parents are divorced now, they have been since I was five. But that’s not the issue. I live with my mother and stepfather now and she often talks about how she wishes she hadn’t been so careless when she was younger. She’s always warning me not to ‘throw away’ my youth like she did.
I know she doesn’t mean it, but sometimes I feel as though she resents me. I can’t help but think about how much better her life could have been had she not had me at such a young age. I know this is all in the past, and what’s happened cannot be changed but I would just like to know how I can get past this feeling of “I ruined my mother’s life”. I'd like to be able to stop feeling like a mistake.
Any and all advice is welcome =]
And that’s just my mother. . .
Now for part two - my father.
Like I mentioned before, my parents got married and then divorced at a fairly young age. I live with my mother so I only see my father once a month, if that. I wouldn’t exactly say we’re close . . .
Anyways, a few days ago, my mother told me a story about my father that really disturbed me. She told me that three days before their wedding, at his bachelor party, my dad had cheated on her. And even though she knew about it, she still married him. I was completely shocked when I heard this. I can’t help but be angry at my father. He doesn’t know that I know about this yet, but I would really like to confront him about it. I’ve talked to my mom about it and she doesn’t want me to say anything to him. She suggested that I just let it go. However I know that I won’t be able to do that. To me, this isn’t something I can just forget about. I would like some sort explanation from my father, even though I know he wont have one for me.
I’m supposed to have dinner at his house Monday night and I plan on confronting him then. My only problem is that I don’t know how I should go about this.
Any suggestions or any advice whatsoever would be greatly appreciated =]
Sorry this is so long =/ (link)
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i think ur mom just tyring to tell you not to throw away your life and not go to college because she loves you and doesnt want to see you go through what she did!! if she was resenting you she owuldnt care enough to tell you stuff!!
*you should tlak to her about it and tell her how you feel! that way you know for a fact on what she's trying to tell you*
and for your dad! i mean well i dont really no! but if you feel as if you should talk to him! then do that way you dont have a grudge against him
but yeah i hope i helped
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I have started dating this guy a few weeks ago, and we have fun when we go out, when we hang out and everything. I just cant seem to make him want to have sex with me. I am very beautifull, but I do have very small boobs. (A cup) I am going to be 21 in a month, and I really like him and want to have sex with him. We can be totally naked with eachother and making out, but he just doesnt seem to want to do it. He knows that I want to have sex with him. WHen we make out he wont touch me down there and he also sometime looses his erection. Im not sure if he just doesnt like me or what? hmm well thats about it. some good advice is needed (link)
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well yeah he's probably to scared NOT IN A BAD WAY
and he doesnt want you tihnking low of him
or maye its because he doesnt believe in pre-marriage sex!!
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Ok... here's the situation...
I'm a senior in high school (17 female) ...I have a crush on one of my teachers (25 male) ... hes cute and funny and all that... we're really good friends and many of my close friends seem to think he likes me back... but im not sure ... to get to the point ... my question is that would it be considered un-ethcial for us to go out after i was to graduate? (link)
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aw i love questions like this =]
well teacher kinda thing! lol
kay well if you think he likes you back and you like him! wait till you graduate so he doesnt get in trouble!!
and yeah i dont really no what un-ethicial meanss.. lol but i would go for it!!! i dont see anyting wrong with it! AS LONG AS YOUR GRADUATED!! then it would be fine!! because age is just a number and like yeah!!
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