Ok... here's the situation...
I'm a senior in high school (17 female) ...I have a crush on one of my teachers (25 male) ... hes cute and funny and all that... we're really good friends and many of my close friends seem to think he likes me back... but im not sure ... to get to the point ... my question is that would it be considered un-ethcial for us to go out after i was to graduate?
Please tread carefully though because whether you are a student or a recent ex-student, he still runs the risk of getting into trouble because generally faculty members are considered less trustowrthy if they act on such feelings.
am-bur answered Friday April 14 2006, 11:11 pm: aw i love questions like this =]
well teacher kinda thing! lol
kay well if you think he likes you back and you like him! wait till you graduate so he doesnt get in trouble!!
and yeah i dont really no what un-ethicial meanss.. lol but i would go for it!!! i dont see anyting wrong with it! AS LONG AS YOUR GRADUATED!! then it would be fine!! because age is just a number and like yeah!! [ am-bur's advice column | Ask am-bur A Question ]
Swe3ti3boO answered Friday April 14 2006, 8:12 pm: l0lz, chica, unless your in school and dating your teacher, THEN it would be unethical. But obviously you got your head in the right place and know when the steps should be taken. After graduation is perfectly fine, he wouldn't be your teacher anymore for one and for second, the correct term would be "he WAS your teacher". l0lz, good luck for you sweetie! I wish you the best *MuaHz* [ Swe3ti3boO's advice column | Ask Swe3ti3boO A Question ]
helpfulhintsviahannahx4 answered Friday April 14 2006, 5:56 pm: hmm...this is a hard question, but i would most deffently wait until after i graduated, maybe even a few more years, because you might still feel like a high-schooler.
Also, it's a bit of an age difference but it could work if you waited a few years.
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