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he wont have sex with me
I have started dating this guy a few weeks ago, and we have fun when we go out, when we hang out and everything. I just cant seem to make him want to have sex with me. I am very beautifull, but I do have very small boobs. (A cup) I am going to be 21 in a month, and I really like him and want to have sex with him. We can be totally naked with eachother and making out, but he just doesnt seem to want to do it. He knows that I want to have sex with him. WHen we make out he wont touch me down there and he also sometime looses his erection. Im not sure if he just doesnt like me or what? hmm well thats about it. some good advice is needed
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Could it be:
1. He just respects you and don't want you to regret it afterwards.
2. He thinks you guys are moving too fast, having sex with the one you love is fine, but there are a lot of other things to consider.
3. He could be emotionally not ready, maybe he wants you to be sure as well.
Whatever it may be, talk to him.
Anyways, what is the rush? Having sex does bring couples closer together but there are other things to strengthen the bond.
I hope you guys have a wonderful relationship....
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talk to him and see if anythings the matter.
but you guys have only been going out for a few weeks. and thats kinda early to be having sex. maybe he wants to wait a little longer. good luck.
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talk to him and ask him whats up. he might have a good reason about not whating to have sex.
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Don't pressure the poor guy! You've only been going out a couple of weeks, most people take quite a bit longer than that before they'll jump in to bed with each other. Your sexuality and his is a very precious thing. So don't rush things. I personally believe sex should be saved for marraige, but if you won't go with that, at least realise it should be kept for long term serious relatioships. If you're gonna be with him seriously, wait. Sex will be rubbish if he doesn't want it, so wait until he's ready. Love him for who he is, not how far he'll go. And if you're not willing to wait, he deserves to be with someone who respects him.
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well yeah he's probably to scared NOT IN A BAD WAY
and he doesnt want you tihnking low of him
or maye its because he doesnt believe in pre-marriage sex!!
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he's probably a virgin and feels insecure about himself and thinks you have more experiece and he doesn't think that he will be able to pleasure you in the way that other men have. so he's probably just scared.. time will tell.. talk to him about it..
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First let me reassure you that your boobs have nothing to do with it. :)
Does his not being able to have sex upset him? I guess what I'm asking is this...is he wanting to have sex or does he say he is waiting for marriage or something?
If he just can't then he may have a medical problem that needs looked into. If he is a diabetic, for instance or if he is on medication for something. All those things can sometimes cause impotence.
If not that then perhaps he is gay. While there is nothing wrong with that, there are still some men who wouldn't like admitting it.
Whatever the problem is he defiantly needs to check with a doctor. If he doesn't want to do that...and it is something you need to talk about...then you need to reconsider your relationship with him. At your age sex isn't all there is to a relationship, but it is a very important part. Don't get so entangled that you think you can fix the problem yourself. That's probably not possible.
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