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Do you know how to delete the history of what internet sites you have been on??

Thanks xoxo

Well I can only help you if you have Explorer.

Go to Tools (above the refresh button) click it and scroll down to the bottom of the list and click 'Internet options' click that and on the 'General' tab toward the bottom there should be history and click 'Clear History'. Do that and you're good!

Good Luck

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So i just turned 18 in june, and i have not had a g\f in over 2 years. I have no idea how I use to get g\f's or how to go about meeting new girls. So what is a good way to catch a girls eye(so to speak)? And when are we going to play yahoo pool against each other again ? lol
Tks for advice
lost4life
lost4lifegone4ever

hmm Well I'm not sure how you "catch a girls eye". Usually what makes me attracted to a guy is his personality and what he really is like, not what he trying to get my interested in. I would say just be friendly and act normal and I think you will be just fine. You'll get a girl, don't worry. :}

And about kicking your ass at pool again...well, if were both online one night maybe we can play some games of pool on messenger. That way it won't make your rating sink lower *evil laugh*
I shall go easy on you though..I know a guys ego can't take too much beating. :P

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Chatspeak detected. Type in english please.

Any term you see in red below is not allowed:


what the heck is that!! and how come it only came up that one time andd did the question even get answered ugh!!

http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?f=93

Read the Help and FAQ every so often. You may learn things.

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I have been in this relationship for 9 months. The previous relationship was 4 years, and we had a daughter together. He was a part of her life up to 6 months ago. Now he doesn't see her anymore. My current boyfriend doesn't understand why she pulls away when she starts to get close with him. I think it's because of her father abanding her, but he thinks that she just doesn't like him. She will go up to somebody she hardly knows and hold their hand but won't hold his. What could be some reasons for this. Please help!!!!!!!!!!

For starters I'm exactly sure why you're asking me this since i'm only 15 but I'll answer the best I can.

Have you ever thought that maybe your daughter doesn't like your current BF? Babies and young children are often said to be able feel or tell something that isn't that good about a person. You may not like the sound of my next question but do you leave her with him alone alot? He could be either mistreating her or touching her
inappropriately when your not around. I suggest talking to your daughter...even if she is just toddler and ask her why she doesn't like your BF.

Good Luck with all this

AG

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ok first of all, please dont say go google it or yahoo or whatever. doesnt work. does anyone know the artist name or song title for this, im really dont know much of the lyrics so ill try. also im pretty sure the group starts with the letter "A". it usually also plays on the semi-emo station. so heres some of the words i remember, its teh chorus:
"wanted to be something that's different. wanted to see the change in me..."

sry i know its not a lot-thanks a lot!

http://www.stlyrics.com/lyrics/stealth/different.htm

The artist is Acceptance and the song title is "Different".

Also, Yes it does work if you write in what part of lyrics you know into Ask.com. Thats how I found this for you.

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okay my 16th birthday is comeing up and i want a car... hopefully my parents will buy me one, but what are some nice cars... like that everybody wants... under 20,000$!! please help... need to now quick! thanks in advance!!

For your first car I suggest getting a car that is practical. One you drive to school in, do errands for your parents (trust me, they will make you do so), and isn't a gas eater. A sports car might not be the best idea at the moment. My family swears by Toyota's. They last for years and years and they pretty cool. Looks are good but aren't always the most important when buying a car. Especially your first car.

Look around, and don't just pick the first pretty car you see. Watch the price and keep in mind what you will be doing.

Good luck!

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i am a 14/f and i still talk to my ex-b/f and he thinks ive changed ever since we broke up. but we've been broken up for over 3 months now but he's just now telling me this...now he doesnt wunna talk to me any more because i've "changed." all of my friends say i havent changed though... could it just be my ex being paranoid...or am i just actin differently around him. cuz i havent noticed anything different about me.

Don't worry about it, He could just be acting stupid or maybe to him you act different. I suggest if you really are so worried then find a time you can talk to him when no one is around and ask him how you have changed. If he doesn't answer or blows you off then just forget him. I know you probably want to talk to him but if he doesn't want to there isn't much you can do.

You stay the way you like and don't worry about it. We all change and if he can't take change then he is going to have some problems when he gets older...

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Ok. Let me start at the beginning. First I am 14. And A freshman. And awhile back (like 5months) i was dating a senior. David. And well we ended up having sex and then he dumped me. During this I fell in love with him and he didnt feel the same, i know he didnt. And my pretty much best friend johnny (a junior now) was with me the whole time. Johnny was also dating my current friend Tara. Well tara and johnny broke up and johnny and me had sex like 2 months later. we like each other alot. but after we had sex he ended up trying to suck up to tara and try and get back with her. i found out and was kinda mad. but then Tara thought it wuld be fun to rub it in my face calling me a one time thing and a whore. and i beleivied it for awhile. I mean bc look at what happened with David. Im sooo lost. I really like Johnny. Should I waste my time on him? or look elsewhere? if this is confuzing sorry. My life is confuzing i know.

first off Im extremely sorry I didn't answer this sooner...I didn't know I had unanswered questions in my inbox.

Forget about Johnny, he is what we call a jerk. You need to get your priorities straight. No guy is going to want you for a serious relationship if keep jumping into bed with every guy you like. You are only 14! Fine you had sex but do you realize how much you are risking? You can get STD's if you don't watch it.
I suggest you forget about this guy and maybe even Tara, find a new group of friends and really just try that. Don't go looking for a guy and when you start have feelings for a guy stop yourself from having sex right away. Learn to to get to know someone better. Let them like you for you and not just the sex. If guys find out you are easy then thats all they're going to want.

Good luck
AG

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i hope you can help....

ok this girl i dance with was my bestest friend for the past year. anothe rone of my friends lives down the street from me and we hang out sometimes. well her stepbrother was in town and she invited me to go to the movies with them. i said ok and went. wheni came home my "bestest friend" left me a message on AIM saying "take me out of your profile please". i dont know what her problem is! she hangs out with other people ALL of the time and it annoys me but i dont stop bieng her friend because of it. i sont know what to do or why she said that all of a sudden.

if you have no idea or anything to help me its ok i needed to tell somebody.

heh, well have you tried talking to her about it? That may be a smart idea.

Things like this happen and most the time friends aren't forever, you may not like to hear that but its true.

Just talk to her about it, ask why she asked you to take her out of your profile and ask if she'd rather not be friends.

AG

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Hey. I am 17 years old and dating a 19 year old guy. We have been together for eight months now, and things have always been rocky with us. From the get-go he's always wanted me to promise him the moon and stars, and that we will be together forever. Now, I somewhat feel confused, and scared, and I am worried that he is pushing me. However, I also feel scared about losing him. That if I tell him I need space, he'll just leave me and that will be that. I do love him, or at least, think I am in love with him.. One other thing, sometimes if I don't do everything he wishes me to do, he get's mad and fake leaves me, meaning, hangs up on me and such. I need advice please!

Come on! this guy is controling you and you are just letting me him get away with it. If you let him do this, its just going to get worse to the point where it may get physical.

I can't help you with this one, you have to do it yourself. You have to make the decision to say no, You have to make the decision to not be with him. I personally don't understand why you want to be with him with how he is treating you. You don't love him, That I can say with confidence. You are just afraid of being alone and you need to get over it because there are a lot better guys out there. You just have a real shitty one.

Good Luck
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how do you know if that one friend is that one true "best friend" that will stick with you for life, thru all the bad and good times. i cant really explain what i mean by that one best friend but i think you might be able to get what i mean. thanks

You just know, You may not know for a while but I think when do have that friend you'll know.
To be honest with you, I don't have a best friend...I've never had one. I've often wondered if I ever would. I think that friends are great and I would love a best friend forever but sometimes it takes forever to get a forever friend. It most probably won't be all good times either, friends take work and probably some minor fights here and there but you will know when you have a true friend.

AG

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Does anyone kno any really good makeout tips?? 15/f

http://www.partyhearty.com/kissingadvice.html

You never can have too many links :P
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Hey, I'm 14 & female, and everyone at my school has had girlfriends and boyfriends and are not virgins anymore, I have never had a boyfriend and i feel pressured to make one up so im not so left out, can u help me?

Why should you make up a boyfriend? It's not what its all cut out to be, seriously. To me, you're the smart one of your friends. If your sexually active, your at risk for STD's. You shouldn't want that.

Just think, by all this waiting for the right guy you might have a first relationship thats better than all your other friends. When you feel pressured, try to ignore it. If you think you're left out then maybe its time for some new friends to hang out with. I can bet you that you aren't the only person that hasn't had a BF or GF. Its just how you see it so you think it.

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"If your question is typed well, has correct spelling, and your don't sound like some complete idiot then you may get a true thought-out answer."

Maria
college student
age 20

I just wanted to let Maria, the college student, know that she isn't the brightest crayon in the box either. If you noticed the error "your don't sound" in the middle of correcting you, I'm sure you got quite a laugh.

Yes, I noticed that I thought it was quite funny, I guess I should have said something about it but I didn't. Goes to show I'm too nice. :P
Thanks
AG

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Hey, when are you going to get on MSN Messenger? I haven't seen you on in a long time.

PS. Cute picture.

*Ponders* I could say the same to you but it's just a matter of me feeling like talking and having time. I've been appearing offline a lot because of some of my friends have been bugging me about certain things. I guess I could just block them...heh that thought didn't occur till just now.


dude, must you always use the word "cute" to describe pictures of me?

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"If your question is typed well, has correct spelling, and your don't sound like some complete idiot then you may get a true thought-out answer."

That is what you typed. If you're going to ask someone not to be an idiot, you might want to learn what the contraction for "you are" is (which is "you're" and not "your" as you typed). Looks like you could use some advice on the English language.

Maria
college student
age 20

Thanks, I wasn't sure if I had typed that well when I did that but I don't think anyone one this site realizes how much work I put into one answer. I'm homeschooled okay, and I don't get taught a damn thing. I haven't since I was about 10. Anything I know has pretty much been self taught via the internet. Everytime I answer a question I have to have a another broswer window open to check if I have my spellings correct. Dictionary.com is the only thing that really helps me and if you see at times when I have a spelled really badly those are times when I was too damn tired to try to correct my spelling.
I don't claim to know everything and I don't claim to know how to spell perfectly. But I do find it disgusting with people that use chat speak just so they look cool or to be lazy. I refuse to answer a question when they use chat speak.

If any of you have any other problems with me, I suggest to go ahead say them now because I'm getting sick of everyone telling i'm a awful person, I can't give advice, I can't spell or blah blah blah. You know what guys, I'm here. Your not going to get my password, your not going to make me quit and damnit your not going to get my advice to change to make it apeasing to your eyes. If you guys can't take it or don't like it than don't look. Simple as that.

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i think your fuckin retarded and your actin like your the shit and know everything and what everyone should do, people have their own minds so dont think your soo cool because your a liltte intrenet fag givin people advice..big deal..anyone can give advice n i read yours..ur retarded..and how u said about the 11 12 year olds..fuck you they can have relationships too so stop thinking your a hardass n knowing everything

Listen, I never said I was the "shit" and that "I know everything". I don't tell people what to do, they ask me questions and I give them my opinion. Thats all advice is really, someones opinion. I see you don't like my opinion or your offended by what I say, too damn bad. I don't change for anyone, especially not for a 12 year old. Yes, thats right I know your 12 and I also see that you have been banned. Good, you need to be with this attitude.

I never said 11 or 12 year olds couldn't have relationships, I said they never last and they don't. Its just a couple of kids walking around holding hands and maybe kissing. It never lasts and its definitely not love. Don't try to tell me it is.

Grow up and then come back to this site.

Sincerely,
AG

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I'm a girl. I went out with one of my friends, "Mike", and we went out for about a month before i broke up with him. I dumped him because i felt like he didn't trust me and he gets annoyed easily so we got into a lot of little fights. We would pretty much always make up but one day I got sick of it and broke up with him. Another reason was that i didn't completely like him as much as he liked me. This happened again for another week when I took him back. Well now we are offically done and he is with someone else and it's serious. I'm so hurt because I tried to ask him back out because i realized that i love him and he was dating someone else. I tried to move on but it's so hard. Now I'm with someone else too and I think he's jealous too but I can't tell. I still really REALLY like him, i think i still even love him like i did but i don't know. I'm just so confused. I know that the girl he is with is gonna break his heart and that she doesnt even care even though she says she does because she has a huge of history of dating guys and then breaking up with them because she loves to flirt more. Do you have any idea what i shoudl do? I don't know if i should dump my current boyfriend and go back to him or what.

If the girl he is with hurts him, too bad for him. Don't try to tell him he'll get hurt and definitely stop asking him out. Your putting the lable "The Clingy Exgirlfriend" on yourself and I'm sure he doesn't find it attractive nor does any guy. Wait a while and if the girl does hurt him, wait and see if he comes back. If he doesn't come back to you than forget him and move on. There is more to life than this guy, you just need to realize that.

Take up a new activity, go out with friends, go for a run around the block but STOP obsessing about him. If you start to wonder if he is okay or blah blah blah than turn some music on or start thinking about something that happened that day just keep yourself busy and try not to think about him. Its normal to think about someone you care about but there is a line.

Good luck
AG

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How do you become a level II moderator? Is it possible for like anyone?

http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?t=13

The FAQ and the Help are a great place to learn about the site.

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Can anyone give me the recipe for a homemade face mask?

http://www.momscape.com/articles/masks.htm

If you Google/ask.com this you find even more.

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