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Obsessive Boyfriend.. I need advice!


Question Posted Friday July 1 2005, 10:02 pm

Hey. I am 17 years old and dating a 19 year old guy. We have been together for eight months now, and things have always been rocky with us. From the get-go he's always wanted me to promise him the moon and stars, and that we will be together forever. Now, I somewhat feel confused, and scared, and I am worried that he is pushing me. However, I also feel scared about losing him. That if I tell him I need space, he'll just leave me and that will be that. I do love him, or at least, think I am in love with him.. One other thing, sometimes if I don't do everything he wishes me to do, he get's mad and fake leaves me, meaning, hangs up on me and such. I need advice please!

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advice~gurl answered Sunday July 10 2005, 10:47 pm:
Come on! this guy is controling you and you are just letting me him get away with it. If you let him do this, its just going to get worse to the point where it may get physical.

I can't help you with this one, you have to do it yourself. You have to make the decision to say no, You have to make the decision to not be with him. I personally don't understand why you want to be with him with how he is treating you. You don't love him, That I can say with confidence. You are just afraid of being alone and you need to get over it because there are a lot better guys out there. You just have a real shitty one.

Good Luck
AG

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