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Is this guy worth it?


Question Posted Sunday July 10 2005, 1:03 am

Ok. Let me start at the beginning. First I am 14. And A freshman. And awhile back (like 5months) i was dating a senior. David. And well we ended up having sex and then he dumped me. During this I fell in love with him and he didnt feel the same, i know he didnt. And my pretty much best friend johnny (a junior now) was with me the whole time. Johnny was also dating my current friend Tara. Well tara and johnny broke up and johnny and me had sex like 2 months later. we like each other alot. but after we had sex he ended up trying to suck up to tara and try and get back with her. i found out and was kinda mad. but then Tara thought it wuld be fun to rub it in my face calling me a one time thing and a whore. and i beleivied it for awhile. I mean bc look at what happened with David. Im sooo lost. I really like Johnny. Should I waste my time on him? or look elsewhere? if this is confuzing sorry. My life is confuzing i know. <3 Much Luvs Meme


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advice~gurl answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 3:54 pm:
first off Im extremely sorry I didn't answer this sooner...I didn't know I had unanswered questions in my inbox.

Forget about Johnny, he is what we call a jerk. You need to get your priorities straight. No guy is going to want you for a serious relationship if keep jumping into bed with every guy you like. You are only 14! Fine you had sex but do you realize how much you are risking? You can get STD's if you don't watch it.
I suggest you forget about this guy and maybe even Tara, find a new group of friends and really just try that. Don't go looking for a guy and when you start have feelings for a guy stop yourself from having sex right away. Learn to to get to know someone better. Let them like you for you and not just the sex. If guys find out you are easy then thats all they're going to want.

Good luck
AG

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