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I have a problem getting over my ex... I'm a girl. I went out with one of my friends, "Mike", and we went out for about a month before i broke up with him. I dumped him because i felt like he didn't trust me and he gets annoyed easily so we got into a lot of little fights. We would pretty much always make up but one day I got sick of it and broke up with him. Another reason was that i didn't completely like him as much as he liked me. This happened again for another week when I took him back. Well now we are offically done and he is with someone else and it's serious. I'm so hurt because I tried to ask him back out because i realized that i love him and he was dating someone else. I tried to move on but it's so hard. Now I'm with someone else too and I think he's jealous too but I can't tell. I still really REALLY like him, i think i still even love him like i did but i don't know. I'm just so confused. I know that the girl he is with is gonna break his heart and that she doesnt even care even though she says she does because she has a huge of history of dating guys and then breaking up with them because she loves to flirt more. Do you have any idea what i shoudl do? I don't know if i should dump my current boyfriend and go back to him or what.
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If the girl he is with hurts him, too bad for him. Don't try to tell him he'll get hurt and definitely stop asking him out. Your putting the lable "The Clingy Exgirlfriend" on yourself and I'm sure he doesn't find it attractive nor does any guy. Wait a while and if the girl does hurt him, wait and see if he comes back. If he doesn't come back to you than forget him and move on. There is more to life than this guy, you just need to realize that.
Take up a new activity, go out with friends, go for a run around the block but STOP obsessing about him. If you start to wonder if he is okay or blah blah blah than turn some music on or start thinking about something that happened that day just keep yourself busy and try not to think about him. Its normal to think about someone you care about but there is a line.
Good luck
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