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I had a huge choclate craving than i started to cry while eating the chocolate ice cream that was in the freazer. was wrong with me? i have been all grumpy latly and i'll say things i don't mean and i'll think about it later and i'll be "why did i say/do that" or "that was stupid"
nothing bad has recently happen to me! i what should i do?/?/?/?
please i'm so confused

Hormones (sp) you might be having mood swings because your hormones are a little off balance.(If your a teen). If your a girl, you might be close to getting your period. I know that happens to me to when im about to get mine or have mine, if i cant find exactly what i want to eat in the house, i cry and get upset and everything. just remember to keep a pad or tampon handy at all times like if your spending time with your friends, and take frequent bathroom stops to check. but for now, cuddle up on the couch, get ice cream or a chocolate bar, and watch a sad movie, or funny movie, what ever works for you. I hope I helped!

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Dear advicenators,

Age:13
grade:7th going into 8th
I have a father that abuses me but i really don't know what to do i've tried being sucidal but it didn't help at all i also know if i consult the police he will deny it and he will abuse me even more so what should i do?

OMG...thats horrible! Im so sorry! ok well to go to the police you have to have evidence that he abuses you. Maybe set up a camera so you can video tape it, and the only other way is to show them the brusies and things of that sort, but I think you would get better help with the first one because you have actual hard core proof. Im sooo sorry, nobody should ever have to go through that especially at your age, Im glad you figured out that sucide isnt the answer. If you want to talk more just leave one in my inbox with your SN. I Hope I helped! Much Love...Good luck... ♥

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Ok. I'm overweight and i want to lose about 30 to 40 lbs over the summer. I've tried adkins but it isnt workin. I was wondering if there are any diets i can do to help out while exercising (because just that isnt workin either). If you have any ideas i would appriciate them. Thanks.

South beach diet! It works! I hope I helped! Good Luck! ♥

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Hey,
I am a 5'(foot) 3''(inch) 13 year old Female and I weigh 123pds. Is this over weight?

♥ Meg ♥

No I dont think your not over wieght. and if so, dont worry about it because your beautiful! I hope I helped! ♥

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ok, so recentally i have been crushing on one of my friend's brother. I know she is really protective of him and i dont know if i should tell her or not. what should i do?

Its never good to get into a relationship with your friends brother, trust me. If you end up breaking up It would be very awkward going over and seeing him. But if you just plan on telling her then go ahead. Its ok to just let her know. But if you really want to tell her and go out with him. Tell her and ask her if it would be ok, then take it from there. I hope I helped! ♥

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okay im 14 and i still havent gotten my perios is that something i should be worried about .... or just wait?

Just wait. If you dont gt it by 19 then go to the doctors. also ask your mother when she got hers, you might get it around her age. Dont worry its different for everyone! I hope I helped! ♥

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well i went to a concer like 2 days ago and i was in the mosh pit and i got thrown on stage...
i stood up and the band had stopped playing and everyone was staring at me...i feld so embarassed. but then i saw my bf in the front row and i started singing the song that they were playing... so they started playing the song again and i was up their the whole show..
the band called me the next day and asked me and my band to come with them on tour... my band is called the audio switch.
should i go on tour with them and miss the whole summer hangin wid my friends or play punk rock music with mental riot on tour?!?!?!
help!!!!
they both sound so awesome but bieng on tour with metal riot is a chance of a lifetime..

Omg. do the tour! thats crazy! and exciting! your going to be able to hang with your friends another time, but to do a tour, is something that you might not get another chance at. I would say do the tour and make it up to your friends later. You get the best of both worlds. Have a blast! tell me what you decide to do!

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I love making up my own songs and singing them..the problem is, when i write them down, they look so retarded and then I forget the tune and everything screws up..my question is, how do you write lyrics that match with the tunes? I would love to be a singer one day but that won't happen because I'm asian, but whatever..um what are some tips for writing song lyrics and thinking of tunes? Thanks..I rate

Try setting up a band. or if your handy with an instrument, play the instrument and record it. then listen to it and hopefully lyrics will pop into your head while your listening to it and it will go with the beat. then take another tape recorder and play the imstrumental and sing so on one recorder you have the instrument and on the other you have both, and tada! you have a song! but if you dont play an instrument, just do the same thing except hum or w/e you do to make the beat/tune. Try to make the songs about your life/feelings, it comes easier that way and its fun! I'm sure you can do anything if you put your mind to it and try your hardest, even if your asian, race and color shouldnt matter. I hope I helped! tell me how it works out! ♥

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How exactly is being anorexic bad for you? People has said that if you're anorexic your body loses all these nutrients but what are the actual like 'symptoms' you get if you're anorexic. Besides dizzyness and fatigue.
Thanks I'll rate 5 for any decent answers!

You can:
faint
Die
have heart failure
brain damage
kidney failure
anorexia and bulimia are 2 things you want to stay away from.
I hope I helped!

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how do you do those lil heart things?

You do
&hearts ; but with out the space between the hearts and the ; so like this ♥ not in caps though. I hope I Helped! ♥

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ok,I'm kind of confused. There are all these boys at school who say they are really in love with me (to each other. I've only overheard them saying it.) But out of all of them not a single one has asked me out yet. Then I'll be sitting and class and seeing them gawking at me. I don't get it.

They might just be saying it because they want to look cool. Or they maybe want to go out with you but think you wont go out with them so they dont bether asking you out. But remember any guy who says they love you, but has a girlfriend is not a trustworthy boyfriend because hes pretty much just using his girlfriend. If they are all friends then they maybe could just not ask you out for the fear of loosing a pal. Also they may be scared to ask you out. you might intimadate (sp)them. Just give it some time. things will become clearer sooner or later. Dont sweat it. I hope I helped! ♥

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Me and my boyfriend had a massive argument and he hit me. he has never done that before and he was really sorry and said he loves me i broke up with him and he wants me back should i go back to him or move on.

16 f

Move On! Dont even think of giving him another chance. Is a guy that hits you really worth your time. Thats abuse. He may say hes sorry and maybe he even means it, but whats that to stop him next time. He probably has temper issuse or trouble with his emotions, and his strength gets the best of him. Him saying I love you, He may mean it or it could just be one of the im sorry I hit you but I love you, excuses to get you back. If he even possibly came close to loving you, He never would have hit you. Theres absolutely no excuse for hitting someone during an argument especially if you " love them " think about it, would you hit somebody you loved just because of an argument? He dug himself a hole that he cant get out of, he knows he hit you, he knows it was wrong, he says he loves you, but theres no reason or excuse for hitting you. Nobody should have to take that. I say just move on. If you take him back and maybe a month later you have another bigger argument, He might hit you harder and/or hurt you badly. Once it happens once, theres no telling if he wont do it again. So I hope I helped! I hope things get better soon! ♥

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Lol ok im bout to go tanning, Like right now out back an I was wondering what like can I use to give me blonde natural highlights without like goin to the salon cause my friend said that some ppl so it that way, And another question is lol how can I get really really dark is it possible to use somethin that will make me dark or how long should i layout to get really dark PLEASE HELPP!!!

I know this sounds funny but what I use is Lemon Juice for getting highlights. I put in some lemon juice and I go lay outside and it works for me. Im sorry I dont know about the tanning one. I hope I helped Somewhat! ♥

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I'll be swimming everyday now for swim team. I was wondering, what shampoo's can I use to protect my already dry/damaged hair from clhorine? I've tried Garnier Fruites, Treseme, and Pantene and non of them work. I'll rate :)

ThermaSilk works wonders! try the Shampoo and Conditioner. I hope I helped

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i am 13 and i want to have sex but like when it comes to that i get scared like i want to pratice with someone that wont laugh if i mess up ..... i love makeing out and i want some body that i can pratice with....it dosent matter guy or gurl i dont kno who to turn to

please help

Your only 13! the only thing 13 year olds should be worrying about is school/friends/and what the lunch lady just put on your plate, not about sex!no matter how mature you say you may be a 13 year old is never ready for sex. your not emotionally ready, or physically ready, or mentally ready. You say you may be, but once it happens things are going to go through your mind and things will happen. Its not good for a 13 year old to have sex. Nor is it safe. Have you even thought about pregnancy or std's? they can both ruin and change your life for ever. your obviously not ready to handle everything that comes with a sexual relationship if your scared. Do you really want your first time you have sex to be with a guy you didnt love, just because you wanted to practice? you should wait until your older and more mature and can handle that type of thing, and until you find someone you love that loves you. As for the Kissing thing, expiermenting (sp) is fine, Maybe do it on a dare, have a party with friends and play truth or dare. do it that way. its easier and you dont have to worry about messing up, its only a dare. please re think the whole sex thing. I hope I Helped

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are there any websites to like makeover people with clothes/makeup?

http://www.paperdollheaven.com
you get to makeover celebrities and dress them up and everything its cool! Hope I Helped!

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Well I'd been using clearasil ultra on my face and chest and they got really really dry and tight. my face is getting better but it's still a little pealy and nothing i do will help the skin on my chest, its all red, splotchy, and tight from where the medicine was. I've stopped using the medicine but it seems like even moisturizing doesnt even help. I have graduation in a week and i'm wearing a strapless dress help!

Try using baby lotion or aloe vera, they really help me...go to your local clinic and see what they can do for you. I hope I helped!

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ohk i have a bad case of ashy elbows ... anyhome remedies to make them less dry ?? thnx

Lotion Lotion Lotion! Always keep them moistrized!! After a while they will start to become less ahsy and more soft! try aloe vera (sp) It works for me! or maybe try sunblock/lotion or baby lotion that works too! I hope I helped

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what things would you recommend to do for fun with the gorgeous girl i call mine?

Take her to the movies, bowling, out to eat, watching a movie at your house, just talking, the beach, swimming, Im sure you could think of something! Have fun!! I hope I helped!

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Most of the time my hair is frizzy and not straight. I've tried a lot of methods and my hair is still going to be frizzy. what is the best way to straighten hair?

get a Straightener, I have one called " ceramic tools by jilbere de paris " and it works sooo well, also use thermasilk shampoo/conditioner/other hair products, I have all of their hair products and they all work fabolusly! when you straighten your hair, do the bottom first, put the top of your hair up. never let it burn your hair!! I hope I helped

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