Ok i am 14 and me and my bf have been having sex i aint got my period yet so its good but he wanted to f me in the back door(butt) i wanna let him because it sounds like it would b fun but i dont wanna acidently let a lil poo on his penis id feeel wierd sooo do u think i should use the bath room b4 we do it...pllz answer ty
luv ya
*aimee*
*Aimee*
Hey! Well....since your 14, ask this, is he the right guy for you? If you take away the sex and kissing...what do you have left? Would he still be there by your side?
For you not having your period yet...that's not so "good". I'm sorry to say, but go get check hunn! I know how having your period is so bad, and not Fun! But if your not getting when you had sex, that's dangerous, and irresponsible. If I was you, I would get E.P.T.!!! Just do it, so you really don't have to worry.
OK, well for him "hitting" you up the butt, don't worry about poo getting on his penis. The only thing is if you cum. But really, don't try to take a crap on him. You know. If you think its fun, then go for it. NOTE: Every Action Has it's Consequence. Please be carefull in whatever your gonna do. Really, you won't get that much stuff on him. Just relax. If your questioning about this, it don't seem like your ready. Just chillax, and don't push to hard....Don't consepate. lol! But yea, i hope things go well for you! Best wishes. And tell me how things go. if you have anymore questions,feel free to drop it in my inbox!
Take care!
-Phuong
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umm i move to tennesse and i lived in MI i was gonna cum bake this summer but do you think everyone would have changa and i would have no friends cause the 2 people that are my best friends we hardly ever talk and i just dont know what to do you prolly will figure out who this is well thanx you for helping
*love ya *
ME
Hey! I think I know who this is, but you decided to stay anonymous(sp?). So it'll stay that way. Since you live in Tennesse now, it's fine. Moving back to Michigan, would be awesome. Your "best friends" would miss you, and ask you how everything was down south. Honestly the reason why they probably don't talk to you as much is because, they're busy doing things, or they don't talk to you because of long distance. Best friends would remember you always. I think your best friends still think of you once in a while. It'll be great comming back up here. Yes a lot change. Everything change. Maybe not a lot, but things change. who people hang out wiht, who they talk to, what they wear. Everything you can think of. It's fine. You can start fresh again. lol. Don't worry so much, your not even up here yet. Just chillax as much as you can In Tennessee. Then when you get up here. You can talk to me bout whatever. Hope i helped you a bit. Take care, and best wishes.
-P*K-
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I'm not even sure if I'm allowed to post these type of questions on this site... but... what they heck...this is actually an english-y type question... you see, I was just wondering... there's this quote that I heard and liked the sound of, but I dont really understand it... maybe some adults in here (or some really smart teens) could explain it to me please... *batts eyelashes*?? anyway, the quote is... "All is fair in love and war" please answer... i know this is a boring question; i rate high!!!
hey! Well I heard this quote so many times "All is fair in love and war"...my teacher said something like that to us. I'm in advanced english, really no difference! But what I think the quote is trying to tell us, is that love and war is similar in some ways. but also different. Love, you get hurt(physically, and mentally), gain respect, self-esteem...so much more, and in war, you get hurt(mentally, and mostly physically), you gain respect and pride(depends if it is for the right reasons). You win some and you also lose some. In either ways you get something out of it. the outcome of the situation can be a positive or a negative outcome. But mostly you learn how to deal with it. so it's fair! This is just my opinion on this quote. but if you really do know what it is, then please tell, like what do u think it is in your own word? best wishes on finding the meaning. but it's deep down, there's really no right answer, it's just what you feel or think. Hope i helped, take care!
-Phuong
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my names ashley and i have a best friend named cameron and i really like him and he likes me too... but he also likes this other girl from a diffrent city and she lives like 30 min away. well i hear that he is going to spend time with her one day then spend time with me the next.. but im afraid hes gonna end up liking her even more adn then they`ll end up hookin up!Hes really makin me mad and i dont no how i should react to that type of situation bc i feel like im being played.. wat should i do?
*Ashley* Hey girl! Hey my friend is so much like you, but instead the girl goes to the same school.Since Cameron is you "best friend" shouldn't you tell him or let him know you like him more than just friend-wise? This girl dat's out of city, shouldn't matter. Don't get too uptight bout this situation. Let things flow, and if something bothers you let him know. this girl is a friend too, but if you meatn that much to him, he'll realize it in the end. Everything happens for a reason. If he means so much to you, take it into your own hand, and try to ask him out. Warning...it might change your friendship towards eachother. All i'm saying is to talk to him. and inform him about your emotions and what you've been goin through. This girl dat's out of city, is too far, and that relationship wouldn't last long. Trust me, cuz they would never see eachtoher that much and they would prolly lose interest soon. Hope i helped but if you need anything come by my inbox. Take care, and best wishes. Tell me how things went!
-Phuong
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Ok.. well i am 14 and a girl and i have this kid that i like but one of my good friends sorta likes him to but she just got dumped by her bf and i really like this kid so should i try hookin up with him.. or .. just let my friend?
*cOnfus3d*
Hey *CoNfUs3D*. Well did she get dumped by the guy you like? If she's one of you good friends, don't you think she has the right to know that you like him, and stuff? I think you shuold tell her what's up. How you feel for him, how long this been going on, why do you like him, why you think it might be a good idea to hook up with him, why you like HIM(the person your friend likes too). All i'm saying is, your friend might be upset, and be like what the heck? you know? so tell her what's going on, and then talk to the guy and see if he has the same feelings back, would he do that to his ex and so-on-and so forth! let your friend do what?Just remember that every action has some sort of consequence. Do you think it's not that big of a deal to like someone or hook up with someone that your friend just got done with or something? things to do is...1)Tel your friend how u feel. 2)Tell the guy how you feel. 3) Think is this worth making your friendship different?((i mean, telling your friend, she might treat you different, or look at you in a different perspective now)) well i hope i helped you in some ways, but if you have any more questions feel free to stopp by my inbox! Take care, and Best wishes on your friendship and relationships!
.:*PhuOng*:.
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Well i just broke up with my bf and we went out for a long time. We were still kinda close after we broke up and i was wondering if we should go back out or not.
John in Jersey
Hey *John in Jersey*. Well relationships, are bout risk taking! If you still have feelings for your "BF" then go for it. Nothing is stopping you, besides you and your mate. The thing is, do you think, both of you want the same thing? What got you guys to break up? What makes it so different from now and the past? Will things get better if you back out? Most of these questions would be going through your head time-to-time! I garenteed you on it.All i'm saying is, if you have feelings for that person, then give it another chance. Everything happens for a reason! If you respect him, trust him, care for him so much, and love/like him a lot. Then yes go for it! Still being friends or even close after a relationship is the most wonderful thing ever. You guys went out for a long time, thats really cute. Maybe you can go out even longer. Just make sure your "bf" feels the same way, so talk it out with him. ASk him does he want to give it another try, make sure he likes you respect you and TRUST you. I hope i helped you...but if u need anything else, then please feel free to stop by my inbox. Take care and BEST WISHES!!!!
-Phuong
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I am best friends with this boy called Tom. Things were fine until I introduced him to another friend who lives really far away from us, Hannah. Now all he does is talk online to her and I'm so jealous. I don't know why, he's just a friend but I get so jealous when they talk. I have a boyfriend, I don't like Tom in that way so I don't understand it. Tom and I used to like eachother and we dated once but I don't feel that way about him anymore. How do I stop feeling this way?
Hey! Well maybe the reason why you feel this way is that, you also do think Hannah might take your best friends place with Tom! I think you might be a little jealous is because, your not getting attention from Tom. I got jealous, because i didnt' get the attention i use to have. This is something you have to talk `bout with Tom, or something, you would have to adjust to! I hope i helped, if u need anything else, feel free to stop by my inbox! Take care.
.:*PhuOng*:.
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okay hurr it goes i went out with this guy over the summer for like a month and a half and i truley believed i loved him then he cheated on meh and broke up with me for my best friend. Well they are broken up now but i still love this guy but he hates me now n i really dnt know why but i kant get him out of my mind i love him sooo muchh and i want to be back in his arms sooo bad wut should i do?
Hey! Well i feel stupid sayin this, but i can relate to u!*lol* The word "Love" is thrown around these daes, ask yourself this, do i care for him this much? What does he have that the other guys don't have? why does he mean so much to me, would i die for him? the reason why i'm sayin ask yourslef these Q's so dat to see if u "Love" him! I kno u hate this, but it takes time! Everything happens for a reason...if u care for him as much as i think u do, then u'll be happy for whatever's goin on for him! Me N muh Ex. broke up, but we haven't dated anyone, but he likes one of muh best friends, which sucks major time! But i'm sayin i can't control dat, N if it makes him happy N her too, then i guess whatever floats their boat! I wish i can be in his arms again, but just try your best to be friends, don't throw yourself for a guy! Try to experiment with other guys, i did, I still think bout muh Ex. but i try to move on, it's hard! u'll get better! to summorize this long "paragraph" talk to other ppl, try new things, hang out wit your friends((that means guy friends too))*lol* I hope i helped U, if u need anything else then feel free to drop it by in my box! Tell me how things go, Best Wishes! Take care
-Phuong
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During the summer I met one of my sister's boyfriend's friend.I met him once,I went to his house with them.His name is Stevan and he would IM me and we'd talk about different things just life in gernal{{sp??}}Yeah well one day he told me he was going to his dad's house and he doesn't get on much so I should call him.Well i didn't want to becuase I never talked to him on the phone so I thought it would be weird ya know?Well I did call.And I called everynight during the summer.We'd always flirt and stuff you know the normal.I started to like him and I told him.Then he told me he likes me.Well at the end of summer we kinda stopped talking but he's still the only guy I think about.Well I went to his house on Sat.He had his arm around me and stuff and was holding me tight.Well we kissed.And then it lead to making out.And when everyone was out of the room he kinda not fully but a lil on top of me and we made out.Well he hasn't asked me out. =-/ so what should I wait for him to ask me out{{which makes me crazy and I cry everyday....}}..Idk what to do....sorry it's long but it's my life.I'm 13 and female.
Hey! Its ok, therre's a lot of long stories!This guy dat u like, seems to like u too! i mean why would someone want to make-out wit someone they don't have any feelings for? u kno? I wouldn't N i don't think u would either*lol*No ur not kidding urself. Most ppl think dat da opposite sex never or ever will like them!which is usually wrong. It seems like he's dropping hints! Hands around u...TIGHT, N Kissing u, N talking to u bout life N wutnot! It seems like ur "friendship" is good! So why not go for it! Da guy might be as scared as u are! Ask him out! I agree wit da one gurl...it's da 21st century, N anything is possilbe! Talk to him, tell him how u feel in this situation! don't be scared! Express ur feelings. I would talk face-to-face, cuz then u can read therre expressions better, instead of their voice!u kno? i think u guys might have a good chance of dating, but if goin out, doesn't work, u still have friendship! I think still having him in ur life is better then not having him @ all!Right? well lets keep in touch N tell me how it goes....I hope i helped u a bit...Take care N GOOD LUCK!!!!
-Phuong
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is a 7 inch boner a little big for a 14 year old, if it is, do i need help?
Hey! Uhhh...No u don't need help, unless u keep hurtin it!*lol* i'm juss messin round! but yea, some guys wish they can be dat size! so yea, i guess ur one lucky kid*lol* Once da gurls find out, they'll be all over ur nutts! Hope i helped. L8er lil man!!
-Phuong
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ok well there is this girl that i have liked for a long time now but thought she was always " out of my league " well finally i told my best friend that i liked her one day and the next day he went and asked her out well they broke up and now the girl found out about how i liked her and she liked me the whole time too so now we wanna get wit each other but my friend keeps sayin if we do he wont ever talk to me again so im not sure what to do
what would you do???
sorry its so long
Hey! Well da first thing is, why did ur "friend" do this to u? Most guys think dat the gurls out of their leagues....which is so not tru!*lol* Your "best friend" is really wrong for doin dat to u! How did u react to it? i mean why did he do dat to u? Especially da gurl u like? I mean he's ur best friend so u don't really want to be madd @ him forever...but it's juss wrong!Your friend has no right really to say"if u go wit her, i won't talk to u anymore" u should be da person sayin dat, dude if ur friendship is dat strong, then this will all pass! I say go wt da gurl, talk it out wit him, N see if it'll work out, if not, then try to meet new ppl! Bros don't do dat to eachotha!If i wuz in ur postion, i would first off talk to ur friend, N try to see wut da hell is up? then i would talk to gurl, N see how long this thing been goin on(( as in liking u)) then ask if she would want to date, but one thing...if she knew u guys were best friends why did she go wit him? did she use him to try to get wit u? or did she like him too?Gurls should not get into a guys friendship, N vise-versa!!Do wut u think is right...But really talk it out wit ur "friend" see wuts goin on,N talk to gurl! I say go for it! Hope muh advice works! Tell me how it goes! GOOD LUCK! Take care
-Phuong
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Heya there. Okay, well, I just lost my virginity, yesterday (I'm the one with the problem below called birth control) and now that I know for sure that there is a risk of be getting pregnant, I want to know what kind of test I should get. I'm 16, and I should know this because so many of my friends have gone through it, and I know I have to wait a couple of weeks, but I was wondering, what is the best brand of pregnancy tests and how much do they usually cost?
Hey! Well think E.P.T. is da best! i think it might cost like under $5! i'm not sure, but like it shouldn't really matter da cost, u juss gotta find out if ur pregnant or not, but birth control isn't 100% portective! u kno? every action has a consequence, but i hoped i helped a bit! Good luck, N tell me how things go for u! if u need anything else feel free to dropp by muh inbox! take care
-Phuong
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my ex want to go back out with me and i think i want to go back out with him to but i think all he cares about is looks and i gained 5 pounds over the summer because of a foot ingery and i dont look so great what should i do also i am 13 and female
qtpie101
*Qtpie101*
Hey! Well if u "think" u want to go back wit him, then ur not so sure! u still have doubts N stuff, right? Well if u think he cares so much bout looks then why do u like? Ask yourself this...do i want to be in a relationship like this? does he care for me like how i care for him? is this guy worth my time? are we better being friends? Why do i like him? I'm sorry to hear bout ur foot, hope u get better, but like u can alwayz lose weight! so don't worry, but yea juss talk it out wit him, tell him wut u think bout this thing, N if it's meant to be it'll happen! Don't rush into anything u ain't ready for aiight? Well communicate wit da guy! i Hoped i helped, if u need anything else fell free to stop by muh inbox!!! tell me how things go, Good luck, take care.
-Phuong
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i think its coming to the point in my relationship with my boyfriend where we should be taking it further...like giving head or sumin like that...i just want to know, if someone can explain how to do it and how to do it good, just in case if it gets to that point.
Hey! Well, be careful when u do things, cuz EVERY ACTION HAS A CONSEQUENCE! aiight? well go to this site
http://www.minou.com/aboutsex/fellatio.htm
well juss to warn u, therre's pictures dat isn't appropriate, but go to google N look it up, dat's wherre i got da site! but like be careful, N stay protected!i hope the site helps! GOOD LUCK! if u need anything else stopp by my inbox! Take care!
-Phuong
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OK, today my private started to hurt really bad. and i looked at it and it started to bleed. I dont have mi period and i know its not that because the sides were bleedin. I dont know what to do! sumone plz help me. PLZ ILL RATE U A FIVE EVEN IF U SAY "BLAH".
plz help thanx
Hey! the ppl been sayin "blah" haven't they?*lol* well i think it's prolly a ripped tissue from havin sex,duh!*lol*j/p,uhhhh shavin, or like playin some sports! Anything is possible, but if da bleeding don't stop go to da doctor immediatly! wait i have to do this *lol* BLAH! i did it! sorriez, but i hope i helped, if u need anything then dropp it in the inbox! tell me how things go, GOOD LUCK, take care
-Phuong
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Okay I have a b/f and hes goin into High Skewl and im still in 8th grade. Im 13 and hes 14 and alot of my friends and sum of his friends think that we'll make it thru the first year. He thinks that we'll last at least half the year. But i dont think we will last, is that wrong???
I mean i love him soo much and i really Dont wanna lose him. i wanna make it last but its gonna be really hard for him in High skewl with all the new gurlz and stuff! Please HELP me!!! Oh yea is there a way i could make it last and if so HOW??? PLEASE tell me!
-Kaila
*Kaila*
Hey! My friend went thru this, her N her boifirned has been goin out for almost a year or suttin now, i kno it's more than 6 months*lol* well it's not wrong dat u think this, ur juss stating the obvious! It won't be hard, because if he feels da same way, N u guys trust eachother fully, then therre's nuttin to be worried bout! U guys can still flirt, therre's nuttin wrong wit dat, but don't get to touchy touchy, u kno?Yes therre are alwayz ways to make things work! don't give up, ppl nowadaes be givin up to damn easy! People who has hope N beliefs, get thru a lot! i have!*lol* my xperience wuz bout muh Ex. i have hope! Well for u tryin to make it last, talk on the fone like almost everydae, cuz hike skewl would be busy N maybe middle but i doubt dat*lol*, well if u boi does sports, then go to them, u kno? on weekends hang with eachotha! dat's wut muh friends did! They talked on the fone like everydae, N they hang out like all the time when they can! my friend be goin to her boi's football games! N bball games N stuff like dat! try to talk it out, ask his friends to help two "love birds" hang out! if things are meant to be then let it happen!U kno? Hope i helped, if u need anything else, feel free to stopp by da inbox! tell me how things go! GOOD LUCK, take care
-Phuong
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ok well when I get mad I tend to cut myself very badly my parents found out and sent me to the doctor but he didn't do anything to help me stop cutting he just asked me questions like did your parents abuse you and stuff like that and I still cut myself more and more I get mad I don't know why am I mental do I have an illness I need help plz I'm scared I might kill myself one day
Hey! Well a good thing is u realize what's wrong, before it gets even more dangerous! Try your best telling your parents, because no matter what's goin on in their life, ur still their top priorty! they're suppose to love u no matter what, N ur suppose to turn to them when ur in great needs! so give that a try! =)Seek help, like go to theropy! Well i had this issue like awhile ago! It wuz a bunch of emotions N i didn't kno wut to do, so i did this! Some of muh friends wuz therre to help me, N tell me how much they cared, N i didn't want to hurt them, so i stopped, but it wasn't that e-z, cuz i be thinkin bout it! But for this subject i would like to thank da ppl who stopped me! Especially Emm! she wuz therre for this! i appreciate it a lot! Well if u are interested in sports do dat! Cuz it worked for me, it got muh mind way off of this subject! Try da rubber band thing! A lot of ppl say it helps, i'll try to research more on this! but i juss want to say thanks for everyone who trys to help ppl! Killing yourself is neva an answer, or hurting urself too! it's da answer, but u realized it, so try to seek help,talk it out wit a love a one! write it down in a notebook! u kno juss get it out, but not in a way that can harm u! u kno wut i mean? please be careful! cuz nowadaes suicide is often, N it's wrong cuz ur life is special, N ur herre for a reason! I hope i helped, N changed ur mind on some things! Tell me on how things go for u! GOOD LUCK,TAKE CARE!!!!!!
-Phuong
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Im asken this ? again cuz i still dunno wat 2 do n im hopeing this time i will get more responces! Well i went out wit this kid last year.. in september, lets call him 'Bob'. N we went out for mayb a week or two, then he broke up with me.. n me n bob i know both feel this way cuz he told me many of times, that wen we were with eachother... it just felt perfect, n even tho we have a 2year age difference it didnt even matter! N omg wen im with him it just feels soo right like i wanna be with him forever.. even if im 13 n hes 15 i mean like i -CANT- say yeah i wanna marry this kid but thats just how it feels kinda, i mean not marry him.. but i wud stay with him for very long n try to make it last as long as possible. But newayz after we broke up we argued alot, then in december, close to my birthday we started talken again, n i gess we kinda liked eachother, even tho i always had feelings for him. But then sumthing happend, he went away til umm June. Wow that was probly the hardest time i hadta face so far in life. I went crazy, i thot about him a few times a week, eventually i thought about him less and less. Then he came back. We talked alot, i told him i still had feelings for him, he told me he thot bout me wen he was away, then he went out w.sum girl, we lost touch for a lil, then started talken again. N i read him 1 of the poems i wrote wen he was away, i never thot i wud read that, but i did, n i dunno we were talken n i dunno if he likes me or not, itll be a year of likeing him this september, i mean i went out with other ppl in that year, but it wasnt tha same. But now.. he kinda likes sum girl, lets call her 'K', n i tell him to go out w/her n stuff, but i am really jealous, i just act like i want him 2 be happy... well i do, it just wont make me happy if hes with her. Wat shud i do? i rate very very good just please help me!
x0x signed confused n depressed
*Confused N Depressed*
Hey! Well...u guys went out once right? Then became really good friends? I think U being someone dat he can turn to N talk to bout everything N anything, is a plus! "Bob" is prolly ur first "LOVE"! Since he kinda know's how u feel, juss confront him N tell him everything,how much u liked him, how much u want him back, so on N so forth! Then u can ask him if he wants to give it another try! Being "jealous" is normal, don't worry!I kno wut ur goin thru! I think i'm still goin thru it, unfortunately!*lol* are u sayin, like when he wuz gone, ur starting to lose interest in him, but when he returned from his trip, u guys communicating again, got ur interest back? It's like whatever happens u'll alwayz have feelings for him, N u'll alwayz open ur arms out for when he comes bak!right? That's normal too.I'm sayin u should let things take place, if it's meant to be then it'll happen! Trust me.i think this is u" Whatever makes him happy, makes me happy." right? WEll i did the same thing for this one guy, let him open up to u, be therre when he needs sumone....let him rely on u, let him kno he can trust u! do u get wut i'm sayin? During ur time "apart" ((not going out)) try talkin to otha guys too! Give them otha "studs" a chance! I kno they won't be da same as "Bob" but u need to see wut else is out therre! u kno? Trust me on this! I've learned from xperience, N still goin thru it! I hope i helped, tell me how it goes! if u need anything else, stopp by muh inbox! GOOD LUCK.Take care
-Phuong
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This might sound a lil weird.. but im 15 and i was wondering when is the best age to start having sex?
Hey! Well therre's no Best age in havin sex! but usually ppl say "Save sex for marriage!" cuz then that person is committed to u, N they wouldn't use u! Cuz havin sex is suttin special, so u would want to do it to someone u love, N share ur life wit! u kno? Cuz Every Action HAS A CONSEQUENCE!!!! If u still doubt urself or insecure bout suttin, it means ur not ready yet! But stayin Abstinence isn't bad! Losing ur virginity isn't like da things these dae! cuz look, if u love this guy, N he loves u! u guys get married, N @ ur honeymoon he says "i saved this((his virginity)) for da person i loved N dat i'll share the rest of muh life wit", N for u, u can't give him dat sacred or special back besides ur love!herre put it this way! let's say u guys had presents for eachotha, N da present represents ur viginity! Well he gave u da present! it's a brand new shoe, never worn or anything! still clean N nice! well then u gave him da present he opened it, it's worn out, N a bit dirty! would u want to give someone dat kind of present? NO! Well i hope this makes sense*lol* Hope i helped,if u need anything else stopp by muh inbox! Take CAre!
-Phuong
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ok im going into 9th grade and im trying out for varsity...we already had one tryout and i didnt do very well i dont think...i need to be tougher going to the ball....any suggestions??? im a fast learner and im willing to work hard! leave your AIM sn if u can help and also leave advice!!
Hey! Well I watch soccer, N only play goalie, for funn, not actually an official team! but muh dad is a freak for soccer!*lol* so i think that when ur goin for the ball, try to get ppl to hold u, if u have good techniques,or ball handling! fake move, try to pass it, N assist! But Varsity, is tough! as the coach wut's he's lookin for N then work on dat! but hey when my dad get home i'll ask more! aiight? muh aim is GButta13 or LilKim13x3, Hope i helped a bit! but if u need some more, then dropp by muh inbox or IM me! otay? tell me how it goes, Take care
-Phuong
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