During the summer I met one of my sister's boyfriend's friend.I met him once,I went to his house with them.His name is Stevan and he would IM me and we'd talk about different things just life in gernal{{sp??}}Yeah well one day he told me he was going to his dad's house and he doesn't get on much so I should call him.Well i didn't want to becuase I never talked to him on the phone so I thought it would be weird ya know?Well I did call.And I called everynight during the summer.We'd always flirt and stuff you know the normal.I started to like him and I told him.Then he told me he likes me.Well at the end of summer we kinda stopped talking but he's still the only guy I think about.Well I went to his house on Sat.He had his arm around me and stuff and was holding me tight.Well we kissed.And then it lead to making out.And when everyone was out of the room he kinda not fully but a lil on top of me and we made out.Well he hasn't asked me out. =-/ so what should I wait for him to ask me out{{which makes me crazy and I cry everyday....}}..Idk what to do....sorry it's long but it's my life.I'm 13 and female.
Additional info, added Monday August 23 2004, 6:21 pm: I like this kid...alot....idk what to do...i mean im not "depresses"{{i dont liek that word" but im not happy.and he makes me happy..but i dont think he likes me or ever will.So am I just kidding myself? . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? SleepingBeauty answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 5:36 pm: If he likes you that much too why don't YOU just ask HIM out? It's not like an unwritten rule for girls to never ask out guys cause it's their job. In fact it takes alot of the pressure off of them to always have to do the asking so he'll be relieved. And if you do ask and he says no then you two weren't meant to be anyways so don't sweat it. [ SleepingBeauty's advice column | Ask SleepingBeauty A Question ]
VBabi13 answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 11:05 am: Hey! Its ok, therre's a lot of long stories!This guy dat u like, seems to like u too! i mean why would someone want to make-out wit someone they don't have any feelings for? u kno? I wouldn't N i don't think u would either*lol*No ur not kidding urself. Most ppl think dat da opposite sex never or ever will like them!which is usually wrong. It seems like he's dropping hints! Hands around u...TIGHT, N Kissing u, N talking to u bout life N wutnot! It seems like ur "friendship" is good! So why not go for it! Da guy might be as scared as u are! Ask him out! I agree wit da one gurl...it's da 21st century, N anything is possilbe! Talk to him, tell him how u feel in this situation! don't be scared! Express ur feelings. I would talk face-to-face, cuz then u can read therre expressions better, instead of their voice!u kno? i think u guys might have a good chance of dating, but if goin out, doesn't work, u still have friendship! I think still having him in ur life is better then not having him @ all!Right? well lets keep in touch N tell me how it goes....I hope i helped u a bit...Take care N GOOD LUCK!!!!
-Phuong [ VBabi13's advice column | Ask VBabi13 A Question ]
Paige answered Monday August 23 2004, 10:19 pm: I think that you should wait to do anything else untill you guys are going out, and then take it from there. [ Paige's advice column | Ask Paige A Question ]
MrsPhelps answered Monday August 23 2004, 7:18 pm: If I were you, I would just tell him that you really like him, and that you don't want to get hurt if it turns out he doesn't really like you. And if he says that he hasn't been lying, then maybe drop a hint that you want him to ask you out. ("Yeah, so there's that football game on Saturday...are you going?") Or maybe even just ask him out yourself. ("Well, do you want to go to the football game on Saturday with me?")
And for a first date I would recommend something very much LIKE a gootball game. Something in public, with a lot of people around, and the possibility of running into friends. Plus, the game is something to be talking about during the date. Or maybe, if you don't have problems talking with him, then take a stroll through the park, or something, or have a picnic.
But anyway, back to the first subject. I'm not sure if this was what you were trying to ask for, but if you're upset about him not asking you out, just ask him out. This is the twenty-first century!! Girls CAN make the first move!! Who knows? Maybe he's just shy to ask. Maybe he thinks the exact same as you do, that you might not really like him. Whatever you do, if you really like him this much, keep calling him and talking to him online. It's best to stay in touch, and if nothing else you can get a friendship out of it.
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