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can you get rid of STD's? like without seeing a doctor. and please just answer with a yes or no. no long paragraphs. didn't mean to be rude! (link)
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STDs are things that stay with you for the rest of your life, doctor or not. Sorry. : (
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In my opinion, religion was created to:
a) make people feel better about things like dying, poverty, disease, etc. (It's all in God's plan.)
b) keep the masses under control. (Don't be bad, or you'll burn in Hell!)
c) keep troubling things from happening (Don't give into natural urges and make babies before you marry or you'll burn in Hell!)
d) keep people from getting too curious about opposing the daily way of life. (If the religious leader tells you to do it, you must or you'll burn in Hell!)
Organied religion has kept many intelligent people from asking questions that may throw off our way of life. For example, whenever something bad happens, Christians reassure themselves with "it's all in God's plan." Was the Holocaust in God's plan? Were the millions and millions of starving and homeless people part of God's plan? Was it in God's plan for Gandhi and Abraham Lincoln to get assassinated? If so, I would never want to believe in a God that made such terrible things happen.
Christians live their lives with so many guidelines that they do not have total freedom to be and do what they want. I just find it foolish to let yourself be controlled by some being that you can't see. Christians live their lives so they can enter heaven. Non-religious people live their lives to the fullest, not knowing what lies ahead.
Sorry if I offended anyone, it's just my opinion.
haha well well umm your wrong in your opinion because none of those things are facts no where does it state in the bible that you have to be a christian cause it doesnt theres more than one types of christianaty too yes everything as you say is gods plan or you may also hear everything happens for a reason for instants why were you born do you know well no one knows all they know is that there parents got together one night and just did it they didnt expect a baby but they got it and even if you dont belive in god god still belives in you well thats all i have tah say lata (link)
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Yes, I know they're not facts. But none of the things you're stating are facts either. I respect your thoughts, but I'm not changing mine.
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what kind of programs are out there to record streaming music onto my harddrive?
-Montrealfan (link)
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http://www.apple.com/ilife/garageband/
My friend got a demo of this and it sounded really great.
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i am a 13/m and i just cant seem to loose wieght i am 5,4 and wieght between 120-125 and i skateboard and am very active and sweat alot but i just cant seem to loose my baby fat and my gut i have a six pack but it doesnt show that much and when me and my friends skate to impress the girls i want to keep my shirt on so how can i loose wieght faster then i have been
P.S. i have lost about 10 pounds in the last 6-8 months (link)
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There's only one healthy way to lose weight... eating right and exercising.
Here are some tips:
1) Try to be active in some way every day, whether it's skating, taking a walk or running.
2) Cut out really fatty foods from your diet (chips especially)
3) Do't undereat! It'll just make you hungrier so you'll overeat.
4) Replace unhealthy foods with salads, lean meats, yogurt, fruits, whole wheat breads, etc.
5) Remember that changes don't happen that quickly. If you expect dramatic results in a few weeks it's probably not going to happen.
6) Keep a positive attitude. Don't get discouraged or think that becomig healthy is too hard or get lazy and stay inactive for a long time.
Good luck!
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well for my year 9 school formal we are having the theme... 80's retro recycle...so im not really sure what 2 wear? like i want 2 wear a dress but like what style goes with that theme, i have no idea about fashion so some help would be appriciated.. just a few suggestions!! thanks xo
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Wear anything eclectic... black or neon colours with big, colourful jewelry pieces. Puffy sleeves were very popular in the eighties, as were nylon and spandex. Also, pouf up your hair (big hair was popular in the 80's) and wear bright but not over-the-top makeup.
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i have been cutting myself for about 4 months now, i dont know how to stop, but i dont want to do it anymore. how do i stop and deal with my emotions in other ways? (link)
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Talk to someone like a counselor or a friend (esp. if the friend is older). The counselor especially will be able to help you. If you don't want to talk to anyone, try writing poetry, writing in a diary or drawing pictures to get your anger out. I know several people who use this method and it works quite well.
Also, try to pinpoint what situations trigger you to cut, and avoid situations like that or learn to control yourself when in them.
Hope this works!
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What are the "bases"? like whats "first base", 2nd base, 3rd base etc.?? (link)
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First base - kissing, frenching
Second base - above the belt touching
Third base - below the belt touching
Home - all the way
Teehee.
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im a 16 female and my bf is 19. i only get to see him twice a week, if even that. he has a full time job, and i am working too. my parents are stressing me out because they dont like how he calls me so much, but i like it.. he only calls me about 5 times a day, but yet those convos are 10mins long. my parents act like they dont want me to be happy, and im sick of it. sometimes i take all of this out on my bf, and he gets really upset about it, cus i get to the point where im so upset, i could break things off. i want my parents to get off my back, and for me to be happy. the only time im happy is when im with my bf. and now thats all changing becauz my parents bitch at me and embarrass me when me and my bf are hangin out all the time. im just sick of it. neither of us have our lisences... it'll be 4mths til i can get mine, and he can get his whenever, yet he has no expirence, so he wont pass anyway...
and my parents are sick of drivin us around all the time.
how do i find a way to see him, and how do i stop taking things out on him?? (link)
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I see both yours and your parents' points on this one. Five calls a day is a little much, and I can see how the phone ringing constantly could bother them. Your parents want the best for you, that's why they worry about you so much. I could see how driving him around could piss them off, since he is 19 and has had the opportunity to learn to drive for three years. You could help by encouraging him to take a driving course and get his license. This will help both of you in the long run.
I don't see why your parents would want to embarass you in front of your boyfriend, though. Talk to them about it and tell them how you feel about the situation. Convince him that he is well-meaning. And don't shrug off everything they say as being hurtful or bitchy. They're just trying to help, and you never know, they could be right.
You can't think that you only lash out at your boyfriend because of parent issues, though. There is probably another outside source that you have to deal with. If it's really bad, consider counseling with or without your boyfriend and/or parents. As for seeing him, try taking the bus or other public transporation.
Hope it works! ♥
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heres an easy 5 for ya!
so im 13/f and havent made out yet..i know embarssing, and i know im goin to soon with this kid who wants to but im wicked nervous cause i dont know how ...i feel stupid asking it but what are some main things you deff. should do! thanks soo much!!
much love
courtney (link)
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It's not embarrassing at all... I'm fourteen and I've never made out (and I'm fine with it). One question. Is "this kid" your boyfriend? Does he care about you? If he's not, you might want to reconsider the whole making out thing. You don't want to go around making out with people you don't like or know very well.
But anyways, you shouldn't worry too much, because the chances are that he'll be nearly or just as inexperienced as you.
Just make sure your lips aren't chapped, don't thrust your tongue in his mouth, maybe run your fingers down his neck or through his hair... stuff like that. Search Google for some websites about kissing, those'll probably be your best bet.
Hope I helped!
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ok, i got my braces off today and my bottom front teeth are sore...well the gumm around them is at least. It swelled up really big and is covering like half my tooth. My school starts in like 6 days..how do i get rid of it and keep it not so swollen..haha sry i worded that wrong. :) thank-you (link)
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I had a similar situation once. DON'T brush the gums hard, that may cause more damage. What you need to do is put some ice on them, massage the gums GENTLY with a soft toothbrush, drink lots of fluids and avoid overly spicy foods. Most or all of the swelling should be done in under a week. If there is still some swelling when your school starts, put on some nice earrings/other jewelry (if you're a female) to distract the eyes away from your mouth. Chances are, if you ignore it, everyone else will.
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my boyfriend is always gone.. hes either at baseball or football or out with the guys or at the lake..he never tells me when he has to do stuff and when he is home and i wanna do something he makes me feel bad because he starts to tell me how much he misses me but its not my fault hes never home.. but rele i miss him a lot too and thats the main reason it bothers me..i wanna be able to talk to him more and see him more.. is there anything that i can do...?? (link)
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Get to know his friends better and do the whole "group date" thing with them and your boyfriend. You could try calling him, but most guys aren't a fan of talking on the phone. Tell him how you feel about wanting to spend more time with him. It seems like he cares for you a lot and would probably understand why it bothers you. If he shows no interest in wanting to spend time with you, it might be time to move on. Time together is an important factor in every relationship... a friend of mine went on one date every few weeks with her boyfriend and they both lost interest quickly.
Good luck... I really hope this works out!
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hi i read your other opinion on christians and i agree but my parents are christian and i don't want to be one. I havent wanted to in a while so please help me figure out what to say to them to let me not be a chrisitian!
xo Lib (link)
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1) Sit them down in a quiet place with no distractions.
2) Tell them that as you're growing up, you are developing your own opinions about religion, and that you have decided that Christianity isn't right for you.
3) If they ask why, give them your reasons. DON'T rant or insult the religion. Don't say that anything is stupid, either. Just say, I'm having trouble understanding and believing some parts of Christianity. List a few examples, and give more if required.
4) If they tell you you're wrong or anything like that, tell them that you respect their opinion, but their opinion does not affect your beliefs.
5) Comprimise with them. If they still want you to attend church, say you'll go once a month or only on holidays. If they are stubborn and completely refuse to let you stop going to Church, praying, etc., you could ask another adult (teacher, family friend, aunt, uncle) to help you. I guarantee someone out there will understand you.
Let me know how this works out. Good luck! ♥
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My boyfriend wants to have sex. I think I love him, but I just don't feel ready yet. How can I tell him and not lose him? (link)
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Just tell him plainly and simply that you don't feel ready. If he dumps you, becomes distant or gets angry because of this, he wasn't worth your time in the first place. IMO, two people need to have more than just love before they are truly ready to have sex. You need to have an emotional understanding that is unconditional. If you are worried that he might feel differently about you if you refuse to sleep with him, you probably don't have that bond quite yet. Give it time, and don't give into him if you don't want to no matter what he says (eg "If you love me you will).
Good luck!
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Hi I have this friend who went out with my ex a week after we mutully broke up. She's nice and all but I don't like how she would go out with him after I did! SHould I forgive her or not? (link)
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She sounds like a generally good person. It seems like this was the only time she ever disregarded your feelings. Unless she was trying to hurt you, she probably didn't know how much it would bother you. Talk to her about it, and she will probably give an explanation for her actions. If she is truly sorry, then you should try to forgive and forget. Friends are more important than any guy.
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how does weed affect your health? I mean, can you get lung cancer from it? What illnesses can you get if you're a pothead? (link)
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Yeah, you can get lung cancer. And pot can also kill brain cells. Basically, everything that happens to you if you smoke cigarettes can happen to someone who smokes weed.
1 joint = 3 cigarettes (healthwise)
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ok not too long ago i put a question up about my b/f but after breakin up with him i took him back and everything is goin fine except...my dad dont like him cuz hes blak and he wants me to dump him..but i dont know what to do? (link)
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Keep him! Don't put up with your dad's racist values. If your dad is slightly open-minded, try and get you, him, and your boyfriend to spend some time together. Maybe your dad will change his mind. If this doesn't work, tell your dad that you're not going to dump him, no matter how many times he asks you to. Don't yell or get mad, even if he does. If he still doesn't accept this, just completely ignore him. He can't force you to break up with him.
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My boyfriend came over the other night and he was impliying that he wanted to have sex But i said no Now he won't answer my calls and Hes always with this girl named sarah and shes a slut Do u think hes cheating on me?
*Nikki 14 (link)
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Duh.
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What is your opinion on religion? I've heard about the theory of evolution and it makes a lot of sense.
And right now the theory of god and heaven doesn't seem real. There's no proof.
Can any of you give me your point of view? I want details b/c i'm really troubled with this.
plz help
thanks! (link)
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Yes, evolution makes a lot of sense. There is also a lot of evidence to prove it, like a skeleton named "Lucy" found in Africa that looks like a human that still hasn't completely evolved from an ape. Religion seems much less believable to me. Here are my reasons:
In my opinion, religion was created to:
a) make people feel better about things like dying, poverty, disease, etc. (It's all in God's plan.)
b) keep the masses under control. (Don't be bad, or you'll burn in Hell!)
c) keep troubling things from happening (Don't give into natural urges and make babies before you marry or you'll burn in Hell!)
d) keep people from getting too curious about opposing the daily way of life. (If the religious leader tells you to do it, you must or you'll burn in Hell!)
Organied religion has kept many intelligent people from asking questions that may throw off our way of life. For example, whenever something bad happens, Christians reassure themselves with "it's all in God's plan." Was the Holocaust in God's plan? Were the millions and millions of starving and homeless people part of God's plan? Was it in God's plan for Gandhi and Abraham Lincoln to get assassinated? If so, I would never want to believe in a God that made such terrible things happen.
Christians live their lives with so many guidelines that they do not have total freedom to be and do what they want. I just find it foolish to let yourself be controlled by some being that you can't see. Christians live their lives so they can enter heaven. Non-religious people live their lives to the fullest, not knowing what lies ahead.
Sorry if I offended anyone, it's just my opinion.
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somebody help!
i really like my b/f. i think i love him. i know ppl say oh you dont know what love is when your 13. but i cant talk or breathe around him. and when he touches me i get chills up my spine. heres the problem. ppl r always tellin me hes cheatin and i dont know who to believe my b/f or my best frends?i mean i want to believe him but i think it mite be true because whenever we go to this dance place these same girls are all over him and he doesnt do anything he like ignores me.....i dont know what to do. i have tryed to break up with him but wen i try i cant i think im in love...plzz help
from confused!!!!! (link)
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He sounds like an ass. By ignoring you when those other girls fawn over him, he's showing signs that he's not that serious about the relationship. Just by what you've said, I wouldn't doubt that he has, or at least seriously thought about cheating on you. Try to find out more from your friends and keep an open mind with them. Even though you love him, you have to realize that being with a guy like this is not the best thing for you. I'm not telling you that you should dump him, but you should consider it.
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