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What should I do???
Hi I have this friend who went out with my ex a week after we mutully broke up. She's nice and all but I don't like how she would go out with him after I did! SHould I forgive her or not?
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That is pretty low and it doesn't sound like she even thought about how you'd feel. You might just want to go up to her and say "Can I ask you a question? Why did you go out with *so-&-so*"- just get it out in the open and see where it goes from there. It might be that she's been feeling really bad about it or she didn't think you two were that close so didn't think it was a big deal.
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yes, forgive her! you need to forgive her because your guys relationship if gone! now its time for someone new and fresh to take on this roll as a girlfreind! you cant be mada nd or jelous if a person you know dates one of your ex-bfs. you need to know that your boyfreind is going to have plaenty more girlfreinds in the future...and you might know one of them...but its not there fault...you need to give them a chance! ;)
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okay well if you are jealous of your friend than it means that your not fully over you ex so its not her fault at all.. i mean you should be happy that your friend found someone...its not a forgive or not thing its all about you! you are just jealous of your friend and its not her fault at all so dont drag her into it... & if you still like your ex than you shouldnt have broken up with him.. im sorry to sound mean but i am just trying to tell you the truth. -ashley
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Yes, you probably should. After all, you broke so he is free (and so is she) to anyone. It might hurt a little, but think about how your friend feels. She likes him and she has a right too.
Hope i helped
♥// Brianna
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Yes you need to forgive. Because honestly, once hes back on the single list, hes free to date anyone. She might have talked it over with you first just because...but it isn't a have to thing. :)
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I know how you feel. You think that since you went out with him she should back off and leave him alone.
But think about it, put yourself in her shoes, she likes him too, but even though you went out with him last and she doesnt want to hurt you...she still likes him.Would you want to just give up on a guy because one of your friends found him first?
If she likes him let them be together, its not like they are getting married..yet.
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i had a crush on this guy HE DID NOT KNOW! well he asked one of my friends out, she dumped him n than thank to anotha friend of mine he found out i liked him, well he asked me out n said yes. she acutly took it better than i thought, she said he was a jurk and i'd be sorry, but she wasn't mad, me n him r still going out, (she movied to fL), n were still bff's, n eveything is good, moral forgive her. she might have had a crush on him while you were going out with him. so jus don't be nasty to your ex jus sorta act as if he was ur friend, i kno it sounds weaird but jus do it. its llike the only way not to make this aquard fer all of you
hope i helped
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Heyy. the SAME thing happened to me. sure i was mad at her, but then i realized that im not gunna let a guy..expecially an EX ruin my friendship. So i would forgive her..but thats just me. hope i helped♥
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Been here before, my ex girlfriend had a boyfriend pretty much the day after we said we're done with each other. Forgive her and wish her well, then get on a bit with your own life and let their's run it's due course.
In short, forgive her because she really hasn't done anything wrong. And since you broke up with your ex, he is fair for anyone, so don't harbor any bad feelings, so yeah forgive her.
Hope I helped and you get some good advice!
-Ryan
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She sounds like a generally good person. It seems like this was the only time she ever disregarded your feelings. Unless she was trying to hurt you, she probably didn't know how much it would bother you. Talk to her about it, and she will probably give an explanation for her actions. If she is truly sorry, then you should try to forgive and forget. Friends are more important than any guy.
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