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guy trouble
Ok,you see, there is this guy thatI really like
and he knows it and he told me that he liked me...he is really sweet to me and if i'm having
a bad day then hr will try anything to make me feel better.But the problem is that he has a
girlfriend and i'm like madly in love with this guy and i dont no wat 2 do!?!?!?
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it seems to me that you have misread this guy.
he probably likes you but as a friend, before you start jumping to conclusions number 1 he has a girlfriend and number 2 the reasons that he's always sweet and nice is because your friends, thats what friends do, help one another.
i guess you are going to have to control your feelings. either you want to tell him that your madly in love or you cant be friends anymore, but just remember he has a girlfriend dnt you really think that he wants to jepordise his realtionship? dont worry there'd plenty of other guys out there, i'm sure you'll move on... just think before you do anything..
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About all you can do is be friends until he no longer has a girlfriend. Not saying he is, but beware of guys with girlfriends who are overly "nice" to you. They may be looking to keep her and get you to use on the side. I'm not in anyway saying that is happening...just be careful. :)
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Okay, listen REALLY carefully because I'm going to tell you what you have to do!...................ask him out.
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just leave it be. still flirt with him and what not but dont try to get them broken up or anything bc that really isnt the right thing to do. its not like their gonna last forever right? it sounds to me like he likes you so once their broken up then start leaving clues/hints. hope it helped!
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well think of how you would feel if you were in his girlfriend's position and had another girl trying to get your boyfriend. so just back off for now & be friends with him...and if you think you'll do something to jeopordize his relationship with her gf, then just stay away from him.
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Wait. Just wait for the right moment. See, if you attempt to make him either break up with her or like you more, things will happen. One possibility is that he will hate you for trying to interfere with his relationship. Another is that his girlfriend will absolutely tear you apart for taking him or trying to take him away. A third is that you'll be seen as a girl with no respect for others who are going out.
Well, that can all be avoided. Just wait until he breaks up with her, plus a month. That's when you start getting closer to asking him.
-Steven
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He has a girlfriend...so obviously he will break up with her if he likes you like he says he does..if he dont break up with his girlfriend and continues to say he likes you...and stays with her...he obviously likes her more...and u cant do anything about it...so i think id keep my feelings to a certian level until he is SURE he likes you...
Hope i helped!
-Sam`x0o
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