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he's always gone..
my boyfriend is always gone.. hes either at baseball or football or out with the guys or at the lake..he never tells me when he has to do stuff and when he is home and i wanna do something he makes me feel bad because he starts to tell me how much he misses me but its not my fault hes never home.. but rele i miss him a lot too and thats the main reason it bothers me..i wanna be able to talk to him more and see him more.. is there anything that i can do...??
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Talk to him about it, and ask him if he could try and set aside a certain day, where just you two can hang out, tell him it doesnt matter how long, o r what day or anything, that you'll make time to see him, & rearrange schedules and such, just so you two can hang out. If he has time to hang out with his boys, and fit that in his busy schedule, than he certaintly can make time for you
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You can dump him if he doesn't start making time for you. I mean it, he has time to hang out with friends...he has time to hang out with you. Get tough on this one because you shouldn't wait at home until its convenient for some guy to give you the time of day. Sorry if this sounds harsh. :)
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Get to know his friends better and do the whole "group date" thing with them and your boyfriend. You could try calling him, but most guys aren't a fan of talking on the phone. Tell him how you feel about wanting to spend more time with him. It seems like he cares for you a lot and would probably understand why it bothers you. If he shows no interest in wanting to spend time with you, it might be time to move on. Time together is an important factor in every relationship... a friend of mine went on one date every few weeks with her boyfriend and they both lost interest quickly.
Good luck... I really hope this works out!
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Nothin wrong with going to the lake or hanging out with his friends, but he MUST make time for you too. Of course this doesn't mean that he should be around you 24/7, I REALLY RECOMMEND AGAINST ANYWAY, but come to a compromize with him.
Tell him how you see it.
Honestly though, if he wants something that will always be waiting for him when he eventually gets back from where-ever, he should get a dog.
If he expects you to make time for him, he'll have to same for you.
hope this will help you out and
good luck
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wow, i HATE it when i have bfs like that but anywho this is what you do. just have a SERIOUS talk with him. tell him that you really like him but it seems as if you two dont talk verry much anymore and you want to spend time with him or even talk to him. just ask him if there could be a time when he could call you when he isnt busy. hope it helps even though its short. lol.
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heyy you and your boyfirend should plan something with his friends and your friends or go see him after one of his baseball or football games
hope this hellped <3333333
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