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well ive liked this guy for 5 years (ive dated others but they were really bad to me and i know this guy wouldnt do anything to hurt me) well earler this week my mom and her friend were at the store and the guys brother works there. they were putting there stuff in their cars next to each other but my moms friends car was flipped so they werent whispering this. my mom was saying "you see that guy that was bagging our groceries thats eugenes brother the guy megan has a huge crush on for years" they didnt notice the truck next to them with the windows rolled down..his brother comes out and gets in the truck and leaves. mom knew she did something bad. now his brother stairs at me when i walk by and eugene kinda just avoids me i think but when me and a friend were walking she said he was smiling and looked at me and kept on smiling i just dont know what that means and i like him so much i dont know what to do i cant talk to him i freak out i can message him on myspace i dont have his phone number and i when i see him in the hall i just walk passed to get to class just like he does we both just want to get to class and everything. what should i do?
Start by sending him a message on Myspace that is the easiest way to tell whats going on. If he replies to the message than what his brother told him doesn't affect him and he may even like what he heard. Make sure you ask a question in the message. Ask if he likes his classes or something easy like that. If he doesn't reply try one more time and if there is no response than you have a problem. That way you can know if you can continue trying with this guy. Now even though your shy there are very easy ways to let him know you like him. Instead of looking at the ground when you pass him look him in the eye and smile, you don't even have to say anything. If he smiles back than your in the clear if he stops and talks to you thats a very good sign. Once you get that down you can just keep taking bigger steps like saying hey and asking him how he is doing to lightly touching his arm. Those simple things will let him know you like him, just start off slow.
Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 3 yrs now. And im a girl too btw. We have been living together for about 2 first at her parents but the past year we've had your own place. We've been having problems for the past I couldnt even tell you how long. i know that both of us dont feel the same about each other. We agreed a week ago that we would try to be "just friends" for a while to see if anything improved. So we havent been kissing or anything intimate like that or even seeing each other naked because friends dont do that. Well last night we were sleeping and she pulled me to her and we started having sex. I was skeptical bc I didnt want it to just be sex but I went thru with it anyway. Now I asked her about it today and shes basically saying what I didnt want to hear. That is was just sex to her and nothign more. Which hurts ya know..
A big part of me feels liek we shouldnt be together anymore. And Im pretty sure she feels the same way. But its hard tho to end something after 3 years. And its even more complicated for me because like i said we live together and I cant afford it on my own. Plus all the furniture we have we got from her family so that would go with her so i would have nothing. I just dont know what to do. Im not happy at all in my current situation but I dont feel like I have a choice. Has anyone ever been thru anything like this or give some opinions or advice please?? Thank you in advance.
It's going to be very hard to live with your ex as just friends and like the other night there are going to be some slip ups. Your just going to have to stay strong and not give into her when she tries to be intimate with you, it will only make things harder for you. You need to tell her that you don't want to be friends with benefits. Also start looking for other room mates so you can get out of there as soon as possible. Until than I would start buying little stuff for when you move out so it's easier. Just look at it as a good chance to save money.
ok i did something i regret now ... i went to facebook and Steve was logged in and i didn't even notice. I saw there was a new message and i didn't realise until i was in his inbox that i was under his account not mine. once i was in there i couldn't help but read a message he and an ex of his had been sending back and forth. Apparantly she asked him how i was doing and he didn't answer so in her next one she mentioned "oh i see you didn't answer my question about Julie ... what gives" and this was what was sent next ... my heart sank and i wanna cry ... it made me feel really bad and i dont know what to do. i can't say something to him or he will get mad at me for reading his messages ...
*BF* August 20 at 4:14pm
Well, we are still together and doing well, but we still haven't had sex. We have talked about it, and she told me that if I happened to have sex with someone, she would understand. Because I have been patient with her for almost 4 years now. I'm not going out there and looking for sex from girls, but we talked about the fact that since I haven't had sex in awhile, and if someone is making passes at me, and I don't think I can refuse, she would understand. And I didn't answer the Julie question cuz she was walking into the room as I was sending my last reply, so I didn't want her to catch a glimpse of me talking about her in that capacity.
*EX GF* August 20 at 6:49pm
You go. NO WAY would that ever be me. I have no idea what her particular issue is but I really think you are either a saint for being with her still or truly wacked. Her reasons for not having sex are hers, whatever they are waiting for marriage, what have you, but (playing devils advocate) whats to say that she doesnt continue this after vows are said, because she just isnt into penis.4 years is WAY too long to have lived with a man you profess to love and NOT had consumated with. There is another issue there. Believe me or not. Choose what you wish. No woman that "loves you" would say "I understand" if you have sex with another woman. Sure only if she was secretly relieved that she didnt have to deal with "that" herself. I gain nothing by putting these thoughts in your head. I just want you to think. There is no reason for you to be in a half way relationship unless you are happy that way. And if you are than forgive my opinion. You deserve to be happy.
I mean i am serisouly crushed right now that he is just openly talking about it to her like that ... i mean do i pretend i didn't even read it? Do i just brush it off? what do i do??? im about to flip out seriously ... ug ...
Honestly the situation is not good. You should really talk to him about what you read, if it was an honest mistake than you shouldn't feel bad about it and if he had nothing to hide than he shouldn't be mad about it. Sounds like the ex is no good whether she was trying to start something or not she was putting info in his head that made you sound bad. If you aren't ready for sex than he should respect that. If he loved you he would wait and be patient. The only mistake I think you made was when you told him that you would understand if he cheated on you. It is never okay for a guy to cheat and you should not give him that excuse. You really do need to sit down and have a talk with him. You cant just let him keep doing what he is doing especially if it affecting you like this. The nude pictures of the girl is not acceptable and if he had any respect for you he wouldn't do that. Let him know how you feel now before its to late, and if I were you I would take back what you said about understanding if he cheats on you.
My boyfriend of over 4yrz cheated on me, he was drunk and kissed another girl...Do you think I should forgive him??? He been crying and is truly sorry he said, and he said he was drunk and it didnt mean anything at all..I found out becoz the girl told me..this was over 1 month ago...Now he is not friends with her and wants nothing to do with her at all.( they used to be really good friends) thats all that had happen a kiss.
I think you have already forgiven him by the sound of it. Being drunk is not an excuse for being stupid but if he has cut off talking to his friend so you will forgive him than thats a good start. I don't think you should break up with him but you should let him know that its going to be hard for you to trust him again and that he is going to have to work for it. No it wasn't good that he cheated on you but it sounds like he knows he made a mistake. I think you should let this one slide but keep and eye on his drinking habits.
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Hey okay this is quite a long story so il do my best to sum it up ina nutshell.
basicly at then end of school before summer myself and 2 of my other best friends fell out with a girl in school litteraly over nothing.
she over exagterated the whole thing,she went home to her sister crying and told her that we were bullying her and spreading sh*t about her.
now she was one of our really good friends wed never do that to her or anyone it was just some good natured fun we were all having even she was at the time just teasing each other over stuff like we always do and we didnt take it too far,it went on during english class and we were all laughing and even the teacher was there so shes proof that we werent bullying her or anything it was just a classic case of give and cant take,
we were just saying to each other shes an attention seeker too,she started screaming and crying in the school corrider the next day over it in front of everyone making us out to be bitches. so we havnt talked since then,i'm ok with that though because shes extremly childish and I dont need people like that in my life.
the problem is her sister has it out for us,we were out last night and me and my friend were making our way to the bar and someone shoved into us really hard and knocked our drink flying we turned around and it was *laura her sister,she screamed watch where your going at us and started yelling and starting a fight with us we just laughed told her to grow up and walked away.
but it wasnt the first time it happend she did it a few weeks back to just my friend when i wasnt there and shes been writing stuff over facebook to her sister about us,and telling some of our guy friends that were tramps and not to hang around with us. I mean her sisters 20 and were 16 for god sake its really starting to annoy me so I was wondering should I confront my ex friend about it and tell her to just stay out of my life and tell her sister to stop harrasing me because I didnt even do anything? or should I pay no attention to either of them?
I really don't know what to do considering im back to school tomorrow and its so awkward when shes there and I cant talk to certain friends if shes tlaking to them and stuff you know? so im dreading it =/I mean before this happend I was half thinking of making up with her on monday so theres no awkwardness in school I was even going to apologise for doing nothing wrong for the second time! (I tried before school ended because she put on this big show and started crying and apologised to my other friend over it on the last day because shes moving we then found out it was just an act because she was still being bitchy towards us after)... anyway
so anyone any advice about this situation? im at a loss.
anything will help
You should confront her about it only because its involving other friend's that had nothing to do with it. You don't want to blow them off just because she is there it would just be easier to be the bigger person even if you didn't do anything wrong just so you can move on with your life.
Just remember keep your friends close keep you enemies closer.
Hey im 18/f im currently on Yaz birth control and i have been for about 2 years. I know there is always a chance for spotting. but its never really happened to me. Im about a week and a half into the pack and today i realized some brown discharge almost like i was going to start my period. But then later today it went away. I am sexually active i dont know if that helps at all. I was reading up online and it says that there is a possibility of being pregnant? I havent felt very good today, and kind of had a stomach ache. Is this normal?
Yes those are signs of pregnancy and i would take a test. It could also just be your mind playing tricks on you. I saw a recent commercial about Yaz telling people they can get compensation cause there have been medical injuries from it if I were you i would take a pregnancy test and if you aren't I would switch birth control.
19f
so my best guy friend, we've been close for about 6 years now or so got in a fight last night.
he's a really popular kid, all the girls want him, but he never let that get to his head. he currently broke up with his girlfriend of a long time and now feels the need to be a player! and still hang out with his ex at the same time?! i don't want him to be like that! he's my best friend!
so i heard from people what he was doing to girls, like saying he'll hang out with them and then at the last minute say oh i have to go to my uncles, and then go hang out with his ex.
so i confronted him last night, well in a text, maybe not the best way to go buuuuut, this is what happened...
i was like i heard what you're doing to girls! it's not nice! and i told him how i heard about ditching a girl to hang out with his ex and lying about it and he was like what? and then i was like stop being a player mister! and he was like what are you talking about? and i was like don't play dumb, you're playing girls and it's not right. and he was like i don't know what you're talking about and neither do you. and i was like yeah i do! and he was what the hell are you talking about? he was like ok whatever linds. and i was like don't get mad at me! you don't have to hide this from me, so much for being best friends. and he was like ok sure yeah i know. and i was like ok smartass, maybe we should just not be friends anymore since you're going to act like this towards me..
and he never texted back! and then i find out he was with his ex! that boy, god i don't know! i just want whats best for him because i care about him as my friend and don't want him to be known as a player who hurts girls.
before he never treated me like this, like a jerk! ever since he hasn't been "officially" with his ex he's acted weird towards me and i hate it. and now, i don't even know if we're friends anymore? and now he's lying to me, acting like he doesn't know what i was talking about when he knows EXACTLY what he did.
I think that in this situation you should have waited to hear his side first the girls you were talking to could have been making it up and you would't even know because you accused him of it instead of asking him about it. If I were you I would apologize and try to get his side of the story. Tell him that you heard some things about the way he was treating girls and it upset you. Than ask him whats going on with his ex. From what you told me on the text it sounds like he doesn't know what you were talking about and you may have jumped to the wrong conclusion. Just apologize and start over again.
WHO IS PRETTIER? & WHY IS SHE PRETTIER?
CHOICE A: http://i31.tinypic.com/2nkuut1.jpg
CHOICE B: http://i28.tinypic.com/11bn0ci.jpg
Choice B but i'm going to have to say that choice B does have on make up and is dressed up and choice A isn't. So it could change my answer if they were both dressed up
i've been with my current boyfriend for 8 months. i love him, there's no doubt in that.
my ex boyfriend, i was with him for a short while, but he was my first serious boyfriend. i got over him last year. but recently, we've become better friends. and because of that, i've been having dreams about him and i, alone, kissing, etc.
and i think that's because last year when we broke up, he never gave me complete reason why. he just shut the door on me. we didn't talk for 8 months last year.
in my dreams, i'm just kissing him, showing him who i am, i'm the same girl he fell for. but i'm never in a relationship with him in my dreams or when i think about it.
could this be because i needed closure?
This could be anything from you needing closure to a simple fantasy. There is nothing wrong with you dreaming about him as long as you don't make that dream a reality. It seems like you want closure whether its a dream or not and since you are friends I think you should ask him the reason. You can be light about the situation that way he doesn't feel he is being put on the spot. As long as you aren't thinking about cheating on your boyfriend and the only time you think about him is when your dreaming than it's not a serious issue. Just try to think good thoughts about your boy before you sleep and hopefully your boyfriend will be the one you kiss in your dreams.
i've always wondered if getting a brazillian wax and like bikini waxes and stuff was weird? Haha, like they're all up in your business and what if you have discharge and stuff, is it me or does anyone find that getting these types of waxes is a bit personal? lol
Some people do feel its very personal to have someone looking down there. But just like the gynecologist they see many different people and they are very professional about it. If your still uncomfortable going than you can use the Nair products, just leave it on for five minutes instead of three and use a soft wash cloth to remove the hair.
Okay so the other night my girlfriend and I had sex for the first time. She is a bit younger than me, and it was her first time ever. After a little ways into it she started crying so I asked her what was wrong. She then informed me that I reminded her of her dad... what the hell do I do now??
It sounds like she needs to go to therapy because if she said that she isn't over what has happened in your past. Stay away from anything sexual because she is definitely not ready for that and you should respect that. Do some major comforting and you need to convince her to get the help she needs, otherwise every time she has sex she is going to have a painful memory. Just be there for her and take it slow.
Alright, so I'm in this "summer fling" i guess you could say. I started talking to this guy weeks ago, and Wednesday he asked me out and I said yes. So we've been dating for like three days. Now, before this happened his bestfriend (who also liked me) said he's such a player. Anyways, so I've hungout with my boyfriend now a few times since Wednesday, and we've made out and got real into it if you know what i mean haha. Last night, on my way home from his house, he told me he wanted to have sex with me. I can't help but really think all he wants is sex, and he's compleeeetely using me. But he says no, that he likes and cares about me a lot.
Should I just let this go before i get hurt? Move on into school without this guy, or should I stay with it a while and see if it works out? I like him a lot, but I'm just tired of being used,cause it's already happened this summer a few times.
advice would be appreciated :D thanks guys.
You need to let him know that your not comfortable with a physical relationship. If he is okay with that than i say stick with it...If he isn't than there is only one thing on his mind and thats when you need to move on.
18/M. I usually come to advicenators to ask about girls, always preoccupied with my life. But my head's in a different place.
About three months ago, I was staying up way later than I should have been, as usual, and the thought of death crossed my mind. I think that was the first time I really comprehended death, my own death. Ever since then, I've been trying to live my life normally, and usually it's not a problem, but I can't get it out of my head. And, lying alone in the dark, I can't stop thinking about it. I've lost a lot of sleep, just trying to avoid lying alone in the dark. How can I go back to the way I was three months ago, without the constant thought hanging over my head? I know I have no business worrying about it a such a young age, but how do I stop? I fear that it will continue to affect my life more and more severely.
There is nothing you need to worry about you just scared yourself, I did the same thing a few years ago. You Don't need to waste your life thinking about death just look at it this way, the realization of your own death can help you live life to the fullest. Also we all die when were supposed to its never known when but its already planned. So stop worrying and get back to living.
Dear Adviceanators: A few years ago my mom passed away. My sister who is in her fifties received my moms house of 130,000.and most of her money (about 80,000 dollars) I got a lum sum as well but not nearly as much as my sister. The problem is this my sister is a master manipulator. She worked very hard on my mom behind my back saying things like if I would give the house away If I got it. (both of our names were always on the house my mom told me) She also told my mom she needed more money than me because she need to fix up the house. I never new my name was taken off till after she died. You have to understand my sister is a lpn nurse who used to make 20.00 an hour. Before my moms house she lived in a trailer with hole in the walls. She always had the ability to make a good living instead she only worked 2 days a week just to get by. What bother more than anything is that she abused my mother physcially and mentally and my mom enabled this bum by buying her cars and giving her money and now my mother has just enabled her after she died as well. I get so angry at this whole situation still to this day. Espcially if I ride by my moms house and see her sitting there like she worked so hard all her life to get all these things. I do have to say that GOD had truly blessed me in my journey of not getting that house. I just feel she got away with what she did. Oh and also she plans to get one of those reverse mortages to live off of. Any advice?
I understand your anger and if it were me I would be livid but since she has passed away and it is in her will there is nothing that can be done. I think your mom knows what she has done now but she cant change it considering she is gone. Your just going to have to be the bigger person and turn the other cheek. Karma always gets her revenge so don't worry eventually your sister will get whats coming to her. You should be proud that you work hard for what you get and at least you still got some money. The people who do nothing advance in life and the people who work advance after death. Just stay strong and be happy for the things you have, it could be way worse.
17/f.
i'm dating this one guy, who well. isn't captain of the football team or whatever, he isn't cool, but hes so nice & i like him a lot. I've never liked jocky/popular boys like my friends have. I just like sweet nice guys, who are into music & stuff. Well, my friends are ggetting so annoying about it! I never bring him up, because they will just be rude. They'll be like "why are you dating him, he is so weird", "you could do better" & so on. its just little remarks any chance they get to say it. & i really don't appreciate it! i like him, and their opinions really won't change it. but its just getting to the point of unbearable to deal with. i tell them to stop, and they won't. i can't stop being friends with them, because it is my whole group of friends, and that's all i really have for friends. so yeah.. how can i get through to them to tell them to stop?
I know how you feel I am the same way and I am dating the same guy. I admire that you like him no matter what people say. As for your friends your going to have to tell them how you feel and give them an ultimatum. Either they accept your dating him or they find another friend. If they care about you than they need to respect your relationship like you would respect theirs. If they keep saying bad things about him than you need to walk away and not talk to them. If they are truly your friends than they should accept your boyfriend for who he is and respect you enough not to talk bad about him.
oh shoot =|
So my bf and I have been happily dating fir 5 months now. He is 19 and I am 18. The thing is, is that I feel that I forced him to say he loves me.
...the reason I feel this??
Well he told me like a month into our relationship that he has never told a girl that he loved them. He says that he takes those words very seriously and he only wants to say "I love you" to one girl the rest of his life. I respected that and thought it was sweet. So then we kept dating and a couple more months go by and I seriously started falling in love with him. I felt that he felt the same way. We would, instead of saying "I love you", say "I like you". It was used as if the word like was taking the place if the word love. Eventually this became frustrating for me and I would tell him "I don't like you baby...I more than like you" but I wouldn't actually say I love him because he had told me before not to say it because he wouldn't say it back. And I obviously didn't want to get hurt.
...fast forward to like month 3 or so. So there we are...lying in one of our friends houses hanging out upstairs while our friends are downstairs hanging out. So it's just me and him and we are all cuddly and kissing and stuff and I told him that I was sick of saying I "like" him blah blah blah cuz I didn't feel I "like" him, but a stronger feeling. He totally agreed with me and said he felt the same way. This just bothered me. So I told him that if we both feel this way then why aren't we saying it. So we ended up talking and finally he told me he loved me. It was awesome the way he said it too...he was all detailed and sweet. It was perfect how he said it.
But I totally nagged him about saying it for the longest time and he finally did, but I forced him.
So we have been saying "I love you" ever since. I really do love him. I am in love with him. But I'm scared...
Tonight I sent him a text saying "do u feel that I forced you to say you love me?" and his respons...
"sorry but ya kinda."
WHAT!?!
Then before I could find out any information more he ended up falling asleep before texting me back! Ahh!
So tell me...how am I supposed to know he actually does love me if he said I forced him??? Totally sucks. =\
But anyway...thanks for your help in advance. It is MUCH appreciated. :)
It sounds to me that he really wasn't ready especially if he told you he thought you forced him. I know this isn't what you want to hear but I think what you need to do is talk to him about it and tell him you don't want him to say he loves you until he is ready and that you were sorry that you made him feel he had to say it. If he really does love you than he will tell you and don't let it get you down if he doesn't its better that he tells you when he really means it than just says it to make you happy. It sounds like love is a very serious matter to him and you should admire that cause its very rare. Just give him some time and if you are the one he will let you know.
how should i feel? i sleppt with this boy that i thought was going somewhere, as in i thought a relationship was going to start up. i jumped into this too quickly and now i regret it. im ready to move on from him and am starting to feel like an idiot. ive already slept with him. shouldnt have done that. what do i tell myself to move on from this unfortunate event?
Everyone makes mistakes it's human nature. Don't beat yourself up over one little thing it could be way worse, you could be pregnant. All you need to do is learn from this mistake and take things slower the next time around.
i'm having some trouble deciding on what religion i actually am. i was brought up catholic and i'd like to believe i'm catholic because i believe in everything the bible says about jesus and the resurrection and all. however i think that gay marriage shouldn't be a problem (as long as they don't raise children). and i don't see the big deal in having sex before marriage, as long as you're in love and not just being a prostitute or whatever. i don't really know much about religion so can someone help me out to religions i could look into? thankss.
I'm catholic and I don't believe everything the stronger catholics do. It just means your a more laid back catholic and if that doesn't satisfy you as an answer than your Christian.
Firstly thanks for taking the time to read my question :-) Sorry if this is too long! There's quite a few people involved in this so i'll explain now ha ha:
Jordan - One of my friends (he used to have a crush on me for a long time but we're just friends now)
Joe - A guy I met through Jordan who I now like.
Nate - One of my guy friends who has a crush on me.
Rachael - Me, ha ha
To start with, I have had feelings for Joe since around May. We've been friends for a few months before then, we met through one of our close friends, Jordan.
I've always had troubles believing that someone actually likes me, I'm not the most confident person ever, and although people tell me a lot that i'm beautiful, I don't really believe them. Once I started to have feelings for Joe, I told him that I liked him. He admitted that he liked me too. A couple of weeks later, our friend Jordan told me that Joe said to him "Would you mind if I asked Rachael out? I know you had feelings for her and I want to check that this won't hurt you" Jordan explained that he didn't have a crush on me any more and we're just friends.
Any way, it was my friend Nate's party one Saturday night and I went and Joe was there. He didn't really know Nate, but his friends did. So Joe took me outside and said he wanted to speak to me (so I thought he was going to ask me out like Jordan had told me) and just as we went outside, my friend Nate came over to us and said he had feelings for me and asked me out - right infront of Joe (he knew I liked Joe - his friends told him days before) I was so angry that he did this. I told Nate I didn't want to go out with him. Joe looked quite annoyed but he told me to go out with Nate if I wanted to. This has been an on-going thing now. It's kinda like they're fighting for me, only Nate is fighting more. I don't like Nate in that way and I have told him so many times. I have also told Joe that I like him and not Nate. But Joe doesn't seem to believe me. His friends say it's because he's insecure.
A few weeks later Nate had another party, I was there with my friends and so was Joe. I was speaking to Nate (just like I speak to all of my friends) and Joe wouldn't speak to me because of it. When I tried to talk to him he said "it's obvious you like him and not me, please don't talk to me" I gave him some space and hung out with my friends. Joe got really drunk and said to me "I really wanted to be with you, but it p*ssed me off when I saw you with Nate" And he said he didn't want to speak to me again (Even though he called me the next day) Nate told me that Joe said to him that night "If you even try and get with Rachael i'm seriously gonna punch you"
Does Joe even like me? I can't tell! His friends say he really likes me. I'm so useless at times :-( I saw him again at my other friend's party and he came over to me and apoligised to me, kissed me and started saying he was really sorry that he really likes me and that he hates Nate...BUT he isn't ready for a relationship.
What do I do?! I really like this guy, I know it isn't love - i'm not so naive. But I know that I have feelings for him, do you think he likes me too? What should I say? What should I do? I need help guys!
YES he likes you. If I were you I would ask to talk to him. You need to tell him that you like him and that you have been waiting for him to ask you out since the party because you thought he liked you. Than you need to tell him that you are still hoping he will ask you out and there is no way Nate compares to him. There is nothing wrong with boosting his ego. All he wants to know is that you like him and not Nate and you need to make it as clear as possible that you do. If his guy friends are telling you he likes you than he does, he just isn't very confident right now thanks to Nate.