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Death
18/M. I usually come to advicenators to ask about girls, always preoccupied with my life. But my head's in a different place.
About three months ago, I was staying up way later than I should have been, as usual, and the thought of death crossed my mind. I think that was the first time I really comprehended death, my own death. Ever since then, I've been trying to live my life normally, and usually it's not a problem, but I can't get it out of my head. And, lying alone in the dark, I can't stop thinking about it. I've lost a lot of sleep, just trying to avoid lying alone in the dark. How can I go back to the way I was three months ago, without the constant thought hanging over my head? I know I have no business worrying about it a such a young age, but how do I stop? I fear that it will continue to affect my life more and more severely.
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your affraid of not knowing what will be on "the other side". people say there is a light, a god, your loved ones waiting for you.
(i personally dont believe in any of those things, i think its just like going to sleep or imagining before you were born)
for some reason i started thinking about it today as well.. its just a question of mortality that we all ask at one time or another. you just made yourself a little.. crazy trying to find an answer to a question that will soon become us. (sorry for using crazy i couldnt think of another word :/ )
you will forget it soon enough, just give it time and keep yourself busy. That normally helps me with what ever im going through, do somthing fun like your favorite hobby. but dont play video games i find that they do nothing for me, i sit there still thinking about what is was that was bothering me.
hopfully i'v been of some help, im not the greatest of writer's... but it makes sense in my head lol
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There is nothing you need to worry about you just scared yourself, I did the same thing a few years ago. You Don't need to waste your life thinking about death just look at it this way, the realization of your own death can help you live life to the fullest. Also we all die when were supposed to its never known when but its already planned. So stop worrying and get back to living.
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I am wondering if you are proned to an anxiety disorder. Mine started at the age of 26 full force. I have a slight case of ocd in which medications have really help me to stop me worrying about a lot of things that I shouldn't. Find a qualified mental health professional to help.
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