Question Posted Thursday September 3 2009, 7:20 pm
well ive liked this guy for 5 years (ive dated others but they were really bad to me and i know this guy wouldnt do anything to hurt me) well earler this week my mom and her friend were at the store and the guys brother works there. they were putting there stuff in their cars next to each other but my moms friends car was flipped so they werent whispering this. my mom was saying "you see that guy that was bagging our groceries thats eugenes brother the guy megan has a huge crush on for years" they didnt notice the truck next to them with the windows rolled down..his brother comes out and gets in the truck and leaves. mom knew she did something bad. now his brother stairs at me when i walk by and eugene kinda just avoids me i think but when me and a friend were walking she said he was smiling and looked at me and kept on smiling i just dont know what that means and i like him so much i dont know what to do i cant talk to him i freak out i can message him on myspace i dont have his phone number and i when i see him in the hall i just walk passed to get to class just like he does we both just want to get to class and everything. what should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Rock_Chick13 answered Thursday September 3 2009, 10:06 pm: Start by sending him a message on Myspace that is the easiest way to tell whats going on. If he replies to the message than what his brother told him doesn't affect him and he may even like what he heard. Make sure you ask a question in the message. Ask if he likes his classes or something easy like that. If he doesn't reply try one more time and if there is no response than you have a problem. That way you can know if you can continue trying with this guy. Now even though your shy there are very easy ways to let him know you like him. Instead of looking at the ground when you pass him look him in the eye and smile, you don't even have to say anything. If he smiles back than your in the clear if he stops and talks to you thats a very good sign. Once you get that down you can just keep taking bigger steps like saying hey and asking him how he is doing to lightly touching his arm. Those simple things will let him know you like him, just start off slow. [ Rock_Chick13's advice column | Ask Rock_Chick13 A Question ]
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