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Should I confront her?
Hey okay this is quite a long story so il do my best to sum it up ina nutshell.
basicly at then end of school before summer myself and 2 of my other best friends fell out with a girl in school litteraly over nothing.
she over exagterated the whole thing,she went home to her sister crying and told her that we were bullying her and spreading sh*t about her.
now she was one of our really good friends wed never do that to her or anyone it was just some good natured fun we were all having even she was at the time just teasing each other over stuff like we always do and we didnt take it too far,it went on during english class and we were all laughing and even the teacher was there so shes proof that we werent bullying her or anything it was just a classic case of give and cant take,
we were just saying to each other shes an attention seeker too,she started screaming and crying in the school corrider the next day over it in front of everyone making us out to be bitches. so we havnt talked since then,i'm ok with that though because shes extremly childish and I dont need people like that in my life.
the problem is her sister has it out for us,we were out last night and me and my friend were making our way to the bar and someone shoved into us really hard and knocked our drink flying we turned around and it was *laura her sister,she screamed watch where your going at us and started yelling and starting a fight with us we just laughed told her to grow up and walked away.
but it wasnt the first time it happend she did it a few weeks back to just my friend when i wasnt there and shes been writing stuff over facebook to her sister about us,and telling some of our guy friends that were tramps and not to hang around with us. I mean her sisters 20 and were 16 for god sake its really starting to annoy me so I was wondering should I confront my ex friend about it and tell her to just stay out of my life and tell her sister to stop harrasing me because I didnt even do anything? or should I pay no attention to either of them?
I really don't know what to do considering im back to school tomorrow and its so awkward when shes there and I cant talk to certain friends if shes tlaking to them and stuff you know? so im dreading it =/I mean before this happend I was half thinking of making up with her on monday so theres no awkwardness in school I was even going to apologise for doing nothing wrong for the second time! (I tried before school ended because she put on this big show and started crying and apologised to my other friend over it on the last day because shes moving we then found out it was just an act because she was still being bitchy towards us after)... anyway
so anyone any advice about this situation? im at a loss.
anything will help
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Okay. If you seriously didn't do anything to her and she's overreacting, if it's all an act to fuck you up, if it's a lie .. Screw confronting her.
Because she'd probably use it against you, and she'll probably have this big ass ego that you're a pussy and all scared from her sister and you're only apologizing because you're afraid and this is not the right way to make things right because I bet she won't stop or make her sister stop, they'll probably laugh about it too..
You should avoid them somehow but not completely, I know this is somehow going to sound wrong, but if she's playing dirty, then play dirt in return, stand up for yourself, don't let a tramp like her sister who is older than you by the way who should be mature enough not to do this and try to settle things between you and your other friends but instead she chooses to knock of your drinks in a bar, dude that's not cool ... You should stand up for yourself and knock her drinks before she thinks about knocking yours because you aint some game they can play with.
And who cares what they say about you, actually take this as an advantage to know who your really friends are.
You shouldn't be threatened by her or her sister, and stand up for yourself, don't just laugh about it because it's going to get to a point when it's not funny anymore.
You should tell someone about it, and when i say you should knock of her drinks first, I mean it, be confident enough to kick her ass. I mean for fucking sake she is 20 an official adult.
I bet you have a brain so use it ;) but all I can say is ..
Good Luck =]
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You should confront her about it only because its involving other friend's that had nothing to do with it. You don't want to blow them off just because she is there it would just be easier to be the bigger person even if you didn't do anything wrong just so you can move on with your life.
Just remember keep your friends close keep you enemies closer.
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