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I'm 14/f and i live in cali
thats right... LOS ANGELES.

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I've had this firned. She's really sweet, and never did anything to hurt anyone. We went everywhere together, and told eachother everything. She's made new frinds now and doesnt pay attention to me that much. We have the same lunch period and she wont even sit with me!!! She's also changed a lot (but i still love her) I miss her so much. How can we be BFF again???

Write her a note or e-mail or something, or if you have enough courage, then say it to her. Just tell her (or write) that you really enjoyed the times you guys had to each other and you miss that. Maybe it's time to move on but if this friend is really important to you, then keep trying. Hope everthin works out!!

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Hey!
What are your favorite names for guys and girls??

Middle names are always appreciated too!!

:)

Thanks!
*(no worries, Im NOT having a kid anytime soon!)*

*-KeLs-*

For Girls: Aubri, Melody, Charlotte, Grace, and April

For Boys: Josh, Jake, John, Derick, and Colin

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ok i have wavy/curley thick hair and i striaghten my hair most of the time with a blow dryer and i was wonderin if anyone know how i can striaghtn my tips they are always wavy i dont know how to get them striaght. i used to iron my tipes which made them go striaght but i dont do that anymore because it damages my hair too much. can advice i can use?

Sorry! The only option you probably have is to go to a hairdresser! When you straighten over the tips of your hair , like you said it damages it real bad. sorry i couldnt help you out!
The remarkable ***PINKYMEOWCAT***

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I have been married for almost 7yrs and since about a year ago I don't feel my husband loves me like he use to what do I do? Recently his coworker told me that he might be stealing do I say anything to him? I am 27yrs old. He is 25. We have four kids. We just boughgt a house.

Definitely talk to him!!! Your his wife so I'm sure you 2 can work things out. You guys have been married for 7 years and have 4 kids so definitely try to work things out. I'm sure everything will b fine. Your husband and you should be able to talk about anything, so I think that's exactly what you should do.
Hope I helped!! :):):):):)
The fab ***PINKYMEOWCAT***

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okay, so because i go to a private school, it ends at 4;00 pm
so i get home around 5:00. Everyday of the week i have something afetr school-so by the time i have dinner and start doing homework it is about 8:00, i am so overwelmed but my mom insists on me having these afetr school activities. the only day i have to myself is friday-but my mom usually makes me clean my room or something, so i don't even have that. What should i do, i don't wanna cancel any of them cuz i like them. But i also don't wanna be so tired and nervous all the time. I even have to do my homework in school cuz i don't wanna fail or i wake up at like 5:00 am so that i finish my hw. What should i do?
-dorinflower55

I know it might be hard, but you really need to cancel some of the after school classes! I know you like them, but if you really wanna do well in school then you've gotta concentrate more on school. Well just think how your doing now, and think how much better you'll be doing after you quit a few of those after school classes! Right now you sound overwhelmed, so make it easier by just working a little more on your school work.
Hope I helped :):):):):):):)
The amazing ***PINKYMEOWCAT***

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hey everyone what do you say is "in" style these days lol - I am size 00 and ned to knoe ware you get it

Forever 21, Wet Seal, Express. Icing also has some great accesories! Uggs, mocassins, ballet shoes, and sequin shoes are all really cool shoes. Hope I helped!
The marvelous ***PINKYMEOWCAT***

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Hey im 16 and for my birthday my dad and mom got me a Hummer H2 SUT...and it has a navigation thing in it and its not working correctly..what should i do?

Get it fixed....

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What is some good tanning lotions?

Neutrogena and also Total immersion is a great tan extender! !!!
The fab ***PINKYMEOWCAT***

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ughhh, ok, this girl likes meeeee and i like herrrrr, BUT, she has a boyfriend -.- and he's a grade lower than i am, she's 2 below me, and she's white...he's...black...so it's safe to say they've come from differen't worlds, differen't upbringings, different ways of thinking. All they've done is kiss, lol, nothing serious, they're not fuckin' or nothin, but mannnnn she likes him a lot i think. And i KNOW he likes her just as much, if not more, she's GORGEOUS, but...before she started dating him she had a HUGE crush on me, and she JUST now told me. -.- dammit. haha, and i just got dumped a week and 2 days ago...HARD 2, man, it sucked. Like...when i'm able to hang out with this girl, we get um..."close", hehe, but she feels SO guilty. Her bf doesn't give her that kind of attention...so she loves it when i'm affectionate. UGH, anywayyys, this girl and her bf have only been together a month, a week, and 2 days, yeah...i've been counting...haha it's going by SLOW, but that's not much time at ALL, practically NOTHING. so they don't really have much more than an "at school" relationship. I need her to see it's a dead end...what can i do to swing things in my favor??
:] thankssssss,
-Kyle

Obviously, if she really liked you, she would have dumped the other guy already. When she does, you'll be free to ask her out! Just wait and see how things work out, and I'm sure everythin will b ok.
The amazing ***PINKYMEOWCAT***

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My mom doesn't want me to get braces because she thinks my teeth are fine. But I think I do need them because there are like 3 teeth that aren't straight. Well we had a huge argument over this and now she's mad at me. But anyhow, I got my seperators today and they are really annoying. Do they hurt the day after? And when I get my braces will they hurt? Also, what should I do about my mom-situation?? She's not talking to me and she's very pissed that I am getting braces.

Who knows, maybe if you dont get braces on now, then youre teet will get worse and then you'll have to get them when youre an adult!! no getting them now is MUCH better, especialy if your ortho says so!!
Hope I helped
The extraordinary ***PINKYMEOWCAT***

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Hi, im 14/ m and I just want to know what to do about me and my girlfriend, we have been going out for a year now and were across states. We always talk on the phone and we have gotten really close. But I am just wondering if when me and my girlfriend meet, Im worried that she will push me away. And Im afarid of that, does anyone halft to say anything about this...?

I'm sure she won't push you away. After all, if she didnt like you, why would she be spending all her time with you talking on the phone and stuff?

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What should i do becuase i don't have a boyfriend and all my friends do?

I would say either try to hang out with your friends more, make some new friends, or get a boyfriend of your own. :)
Hope I helped
The amazingly wonderful ***PINKYMEOWCAT***

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Ok, I really like this guy. I mean, we understand eachother and we get along great and we've been going out for a week now. But the only problem is that my friends don't like him because he is a year younger than me. I have already lost some friends to this and I really am just at a point where I am confused. I love all my friends, and I don't want to call my relationship with this guy love yet because we have only been dating for a week. I'm only fourteen, but this guy acts very mature for his age and when we're together I feel as if nothing can bother me. If you were a girl my age, in this type of situation, what would you do?

Are you really gonna let a guy come between you and your friends? seriously! Youve know him for a week and youve already got in fights about him! Do you really think you love him after a week of dating???!@?!Friends last waaay longer than some teen relationship. I dont exactly understand why youre friends are giving you SUCH a hard time about you going out with some guy a little younger than you.. for crying out loud, ive heard of people who mary who are 20 yeaars apart! You decide.. b/f or friends witch help you throught stuff and are always there 4 u. On the other hand you could just tell your frinds to deal with it for a while if you REALLY want to go out with some guy you just met or friends youve known for a long time. I dunno hope i hellped :)
The amazing ***PINKYMEOWCAT***

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Okay well.. my bff ( Chelsea )just got this new guy that she liked..( i'm going to call him bob) They went out two times and he broke up with her both times.. that was about a mounth ago, and now she chelsea likes Bob again... But the other day chelsea was talking to Bob on the phone and he told her that he liked ME! When chelsea told me, i didn't know what to think! I thought about it.. and i realized that I liked Bob too! Well i know that i like Bob, and Bob likes me.. but i could never go out with him because my bff, chelsea likes him.. but i really like Bob! What should i do? by the way.. i'm 12 and i'm a girl lol

Thank's,

lol same! Ok anyways.. Chelsea knows that he likes you though right? So I know you don't want to hurt her, but if you actually really do like him, i would go for it.. (even though it was lame that you just like decided you liked him but whatever) well you should probably like check with her. Was she hurt when she found out that "Bob" liked you? If she was i would say wait a while. Im sure you care about your friend, but if he likes you and you like him then i dont see any harm in it. She'll probably understand, because i think she knows by now that he dosent want to go out with her( after breaking up with her twice-on the first date! and even TELLING her that he liked you) hope everything works out
the fabulous ***PINKYMEOWCAT***

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well.. i have a boyfriend.. and i really love him and stuff but sometimes i feel like hes not treating me "best" although he seems a little obsessed.. haha and theres about 6 other guys that i could go to.. but i know if i break up wtih him for them ill never be able to get over him! hes an awesome guy.. help please!

im a really generous rater...!!

Just think.. if there are several other guys you can go out with that's great. But do they treat you better than your bf does? If they do, go for it, or just tell you're bf that things arent working out and maybe you can try again when he appreciates you more. It may sound mean, but if he's really an awesome guy, he'll start treating you the way you deserve to be treated.

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i want to lose a little weight, i am going on some sort of diet but i was thinking about throwing up like 1 time or even 2 times. Its nothing big, and i am going to eat, but IF i do this whats going to happen?? Because if you give me enough reasons why not to then i might change my mind

im a big athlete and i dont want to ruin that!
i rate high

NO! Now your saying that you might only do it a few times, but you might get like addicted! If you do it too often you'll become bulemic nad that WILLLLL NOTTT BEEE GOODD!! That's not thet way you want to go and there are sooo many other ways to get skinnier. Especially if you're really athletic! DOnt ruin that. Hope i helped even in the least bit.
The fabulous ***PINKYMEOWCAT***

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ok, i have a really big mouth, i can't keep a scercret & all of my firends get mad at me when somethihg slips. they never tell me a scerect any more, even though i am working on it. does anyone have any advise. plese help, if u can!!!!!
signed blabber

Think about it... would you really like it if you trusted your friends to keep your deepest secret and then they just went and blabbed it to everyone else? Next time you think about blabbing your friends' secrets to others, just zip the lip. Just think how horrible or embarrased your friends feel when everyone finds out about about their secrets. And then when they figure out that their best friend who they TRUSTED, told everyone their secret, just imagine how they feel. Think before you talk. It's great that you're working on it, and i hope my advice works, or even helps at all. Hope you learn to keep your mouth shut. haha
The wonderful ***PINKYMEOWCAT*** hah
PS. Seriously dont mean to be mean! Just want to help you out.

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Hi, Advicenators. Normally I make up my own mind, but I need a little help. If you're going to be sarcastic or rude, don't bother.
Gender: female
Grade: Eighth
I have a problem with my Sunday School teacher. You see, I honestly believe that I have more Biblical knowledge than her. I know that sounds conceited.. but it just seems like it! Yesterday (Easter Sunday) our "lesson" was on miracles. This is what the conversation was like:
Teacher:Who can preform miracles?
Teacher:Only Jesus can preform miracles! No one else can!
Me:*raises hand*
Teacher:yes?
Me:But Jesus isn't the only one who can preform miracles.. Paul, Elija, Elisha, the Devil, the Twelve Disciples.. they all preformed miracles..
Teacher:No, no, no. That's not what I said..
Me:You said "Only Jesus can preform miracles".
Teacher:Anyway, girls, as you see.. blah, blah, blah.
At this time, I'm feeling pretty screwed over since she just blew me off. All of that conversation is an exact quote. This was the third time that I was able to correct her (and the third time I got blown off) yesterday alone! It happens every Sunday.. she doesn't know the lesson, she doesn't know what she's talking about.. It makes me mad!
I know that I am much, much more mature Spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and in my knowledge of the Bible and Christ.. (not trying to sound conceited..) but the lessons are never fufilling! I could gather more from my eight-year old sister's Sunday School lesson. Get this: I was the only girl in my class of seventh and eighth grade girls that knew what the Rapture was! Oh my gosh! How dumb?!
So, I was considering talking to my youth pastor about this. I'm naturally shy, and I don't like to put myself in that position.. but this is so annoying.. and a waste of my Sunday morning! So.. do you think I should speak to my youth pastor about this?
PS - I don't really get along with my teacher, I'm nice to her... but we don't get along. :\
PPS - Sorry it's so long! Thanks in advance..

This lady obviously doesn't have any clue what she's talking about. If someone in sunday school( you) knows more than the teacher, it's definitely time to get a new teacher, or make sure that she's more prepared. If you go to church often, you shouldn't have to sit through these lessons that are teaching you absolutely nothing! Definitely talk to your pastor, because this IS God we're talking about.. your religion is very important. Hope that I helped!!

The famous ***PINKYMEOWCAT*** hah

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My mother is triplegic (meaning that she can't walk, and that she can't use one of her arms very well). Recently, I was taken out of my mother's home, and now she lives alone. In the past two years, she has moved twice. the first time she had a lung failure and my familly decided that she needed to move closer to us so that we could keep an eye on her. The second time, she got evicted. Now they are raising her rent (which was already too high for her to live comforatably) and she's worried that she's going to get evicted again. She's only forty seven, and she's been bed ridden since 21, and has gotten aid from Medicaid, and Medicare, but that won't be enough for this I'm afraid. After this house, she'll have nowhere left to go, and our house is too small ( we have seven people, a dog, and a cat)for her to live with us( and we are to poor to move either.) I don't want my mother to have to move into a rest home. PLEASE HELP ME!!! I love my mother soooooooooo much! Please don't delete my question, I really really really need some help!!!

I'm really sorry about your mom and that your put in this position. I know you love you mom, and really care for her, but if she does need to go to a rest home, it's probably just what's best for her. Support the desicion, because i'm sure that she'll be alot better in that enviroment. You can still visit her and all. I'm sure evrything will work out.
Best of luck- ~**Pinkymeowcat**~

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Lately i have been sad and mad.. basically depressed. all i wanted to do is cry and i couldnt even enjoy easter... thats the day when i get PRESENTS FOR MY GOSH DARN B-day!! my b-days april 16th... anywayz, the only time i was havin fun was when i was outside...like when me and my brother were playin frisbee or when me and my friend and my neice and just everybody was outside it was fun!! but thats just because i miss havin my brothers live with me and the only reason i enjoyed being out there was that my bro was out there with me like "old tmes" i just dont kno why im soo sad or mad!! please help!! i dont even kno why im sad or mad!!

Kinda obvious!! YOu totally miss your brother!! YOu miss having siblings around and being able to hang out with them and stuff. Even though me and my bro fight we still are able to hang out and everthing. Try getting out of the house more, or hanging out with your family and friends more often, It sounds like when your out of the house and active with your friends and family youre alot happier! Hope i helped

The lovely pinkymeowcat :)

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