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me and my freind have been talking about perminatelly dying our hair. she wants streaks of bright green, on her black hair. i want the look where you dipped your hair in paint. i want the 2 bottom inches of my hair purple. my hair is a weird combination of chesnut and dark brown. what kin of a haircut should i get under it, or should i get a trim? both of us have a little longer than shoulderlenth hair. will it look creepy if we die our hair these wayz? please give me your opinion on the brand of paint, the style, and the haircut!
-thanks in advance.
-olga (link)
when green fades it turns to a yellow. i dont know about dying your hair outragous colors but alot of people do that, and they have to die it alot to keep the color because colors that are not normal like green and purple dont stay in all the time. no it wont look creepy, alot of people do it, i dont know any brands or anything sorry!


my webcam is a little fuzzy, is it just my cam type or can i fix it?

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i never had a webcam let alone actually use one. sorry i can't help you out there.


i recently got my belly button peirced 3 weeks ago, its healed really nicely. my boyfriend gave me a really pretty ring for it for my birthday and i can't wait to change it. Is it too early to change it, because it says wait 8 weeks, but its healed and i know a otn of people who have changed it earlier, thanks! (link)
yes, wait 2 months so that way you know for sure it is healed and wont get infected as easily.


okay.. i was talking to my friend yesterday and she told me she thinks she might be pregnant.. At first i thought she was kidding but she was being serious. She said she doesn't want to tell anybody and would be too scared to get a pregnancy test or anything. She thinks she should be on birth control too. She's only 14! what can i do?.. Oh her boyfriend doesnt know she might be pregnant either :/ (link)
she shouldn't be scared to get a pregnancy test because if you may think you are, thats one of the first things that you should do. she can go on birth control, shes not that young, i think that showing that she wants to be on it shows that shes responsible. you should talk to your friend and convince her to talk to her boyfriend about it, he should know as soon as she has that thought.


hey i'm on the pill and my docter never told me how long it would take until it was effictive.. so i was just wondering if any one could tell me how long until it is effictive and how effective it is???PLEASE HELP (link)
when i started taking that i had to go back in 3 months and see if i was alright with it and that everythings working out. so i would say a few months.


when i was a little girl my aunt went out with this really tall and ugly guy. he was nice but he liked to play with my private area and he stuck his in side mine a few times. i dont considder it rape or sexual abuse but i dont no what 2 say when people ask me if i am a virgin cuz besides that little thing i havent had any sex. what should i tell people. i dont mind it if people no that i am not a virgin but i really mind it if i have to tell them how i lost mi virginity and when. so am i still considerred a virgin or not and wat should i say wen people ask me that question?
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no your not a virgin. and i think you need to tell somebody that the guy your aunt was with raped you. you might think its no big deal but you were a little girl and he was a way older guy. he shouldn't have done anything to you, and you need to tell someone that, tell your parents and your aunt about what happened. xox


My Boyfriend told me yesterday that if he doesnt have a girlfriend who loves him when he turns 16 he is inlisting into the army and i dont want that to happen. I dont want anything to tear us apart but if he does go i will miss him how do i talk him out of it!

Im 14 and He Is Almost 15! (link)
my boyfriend, matter in fact last week, just signed up to be in the marines, for 4 years. yeah, i'm 15 and hes 18. we've been together for over a year, and i knew before we even started going out he wanted to sign up for the marines, but i never really thought anything of it, but yeah he did. its not going to tear us apart, atleast that we know of, were still going to write to eachother i'm still going to be at his house when hes gone. i still have 2 years left in highschool and then 2 years out of that until he comes back. i'm going to miss him alot but imagine if you were older, if you had kids and your the other person running the house, with no help. your better off now, but i'm sure things won't get to the point you would have to break up. and plus you have to be 18 to sign up to enroll in anything with the government unless your parents sign for you. hes still got 3 years, have fun with what you have now. xox Renee


well i want to have a great tan before i go to Flordia may 26 but i am so white, is there any kind of tanning stuff that works really good and stays for a really long time or stays forever without going to a tanning bed? Also i am tired of shaving all the time my hair grows back so quick, is there any kind of wax or something that doesnt cost that much money that works great to keep hair gone for a while? (link)
besides going to a tanning bed, you can use lotions that have bronzer in them, but they leave your skin orange. trust me, i've seen people use it and it just looks incredibly fake. but when you do go to florida stay out in the sun for an hour or two but keep puttion sunblock/suntan lotion on so that you won't burn so easily. you'll get a real tan that way. with the wax, i wouldn't know, i dont wax, but ive hoped ive helped!


ok me and this guy have been going out for about 4 months, im 14, female, and i luv him soo much! We have made-out and been to each others houses, also hes looked down my shirt and lil things nuthing totally taking clothes off or anything, i definately dont want to have sex because im a christian and ive made that promise so what should we do if i want more than just making out? (link)
well you guys can do oral sex, like you can give him head or a hand job, he can finger you, just things that you both get pleasure out of but not going too far into sex. do what you feel comfortable doing. xox


hey! does anyone know of a site where you can put in a picture and see what you look like with different hair and stuff? i'd perfer a free website please. thanks so much! (link)
paintshoppro 8/7 can do that, its just confusing as a beginner to learn how to use the program, but after a while it works good. other than that program i don't know, hope ive helped


Hey I just bought a cute new purse. What kinds of things should I put in there? Thanks =) (link)
makeup, pens, candy, gum, cellphone, chapstick/lipgloss, keys... pretty much anything that can fit in it that you need.


My bf and i are going to 2 proms this year and we're not sure if he should buy or rent a tux for them. What do you think would be cheaper. All he wants is a basic Black Tux with nothing fancy and also besides Mr. Tux and Steping out Formal where can he rent them and where can he buy one. thanks and sry if that is confusing (link)
rent it, it would be alot easier for him,guys and girls are differnt for proms,guys dont really need to wear tuxes or save them until their older and be like 'oh i wore this to my senior prom' but girls keep them. for guys if they need a tux they can just rent them. so rent one. xox


ok well i have this ex b/f i will call him z and i went out with im on and off for almost a year i alos got quite heavy with him. i still like him and have done since we broke up. he has mooved on and been with loads of other girls so why cant i move on??? (link)
things like that happens, it takes a while to move on from a guy that youve been like together for a year, but try hanging out with your friends more and other guys maybe, just do things that dont make you think of him and sooner or later you'll move on, its not going to ruin your life, just have some fun and meet some new guys.


well were havin celeb day at school besides the olsen twins can anyone think of two celebritys me and my friend could do?

thanx a bunch! (link)
christina aguilera, britney spears, jessica simpson, ashley simpson, gwen stefani....hmm thats like all i can think of sorry! hope ive helped!


theres this guy and i like him alot and we talk everyday and he flirts with me and of course i flirt back but he said he doesnt like me! and people are always like do yall go out or yall should go out...what should i do? (link)
well maybe he flirts with everyone, some guys are like that, and if people say that maybe you should talk to him about it, say something like you know people always say that we should go out, what do you think about that? and maybe he'll say something good about it, oh and you should tell him that you like him to, it'll help! xox


I have dark brown hair, it kind of looks black. People say I can't dye it blonde, but I kind of want to since people believe they can stop me. My skin has a natural tan, if that matters. My friend said I could dye my eyebrows to match. What do you think? (link)
try getting some highlights done the next time you get a haircut or you can buy hair dye and put in some highlights yourself, they look great!


i asked Frank to the prom, but he said he didn't know because he said he can't dance. i asked him again and he back with the reply "dances aren't for me". what should i do?! i really want him to go because the 2 of us will have a fun time. (link)
dancing isn't all about prom! its about having fun, try getting him to go once more and if he says no i'm sorry but i guess he just isn't the guy, if you have any other guy friends who are available to go, ask them, itll be fun and hopefully frank can go xox


ok.. me and my boyfriend of 10 mths broke up.. its almost been a month.. and im still totally in love with him.. ive told him.. and he knows.. i think he might like me again too.. so i was wondering.. if the next time we hug as "friends" should i kiss him on the cheek? or do i show him any type of emotion towards me wantin him back, or should i just act like friends with him?

*Madinga* (link)
i dont think thats a good idea, because if he doesn't like you still, and you do kiss him on the neck, he could get a little freaked out about it and then he'll stop hugging you as just friends. get what i mean? first of all, just talk to him about how you feel, its the best thing to do. xox


Hey I realized my friend sorta WANTS to have sex and she is only 13, shes not going to have it, its just she wants to. I was on her computer and saw alot of porn websites, is this normal for a 13 year old??
I rate high! (link)
i would say that is normal, thats pretty much the age where girls and guys start noticing the opposite sex and are curious, so yea porn is what most people do, its normal.


Hey!
What are your favorite names for guys and girls??

Middle names are always appreciated too!!

:)

Thanks!
*(no worries, Im NOT having a kid anytime soon!)*

*-KeLs-* (link)
guys, christopher and micheal girls, heather and rachel. middle names, hmm.. for guys i would say allan, and girls, marie or lynn.




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