anyone know any mental pick-me-ups for someone who feels really depressed? (foods, activities, etc. don't tell me to "count my blessings" or "see a therapist" or "love myself" or something.)
work out, swim as much as you can. eat lots of apples apples give your body a up...they wake your body up eat lots and then drink tons of water...
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well a while ago my boy friend got shot and went into a coma for about a week. and i was talking to his friend online so she could keep me updated once and a while on how he's doing. so i kinda sliped up that i was trying to kill my self with a knife and slitting my wrists and that i was trying to over dose with sleeping pills. so she told him once he woke up... and now hes mad at me... what should i do?
give him some time and then tell him you let the sitution get out of controll and your lost it and you went crazy and you wernt thinking but you just wanted to be with him, and you know you should have been standing at his side the whole time but it was just too hard for you...he'll understand
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16.f...My good guy friend, also on my tennis team with me, started to like me over the summer. He like talked to my bff about me, to find out if I liked him? Atleast that's all she could/would tell me. We went on like 2 dates to a movie a couple months ago but I decided I wasn't that into it. So, it's been a few months and I'm successfully tried to not talk to him as much so not to lead him on or anything. But I just found out that he still likes me hardcore-his friends call me and are like "do you like jared?" UGH it's just really annoying. So, now i really just don't like him in that way and now *partly bc of his friends calling me, who by the way i have never met* well, I just don't know what to do. I thought we had moved passed that but boy was I wrong. What should I do?!
As mean as it seems you need to confront him. Just be like "Hey, I've tried to show you that I wasnt into you anymore than a friend. But it doesnt look like the point is getting across to you. So I want to keep you as a friend but I dont want to be anything more than that...so would you please ask your friends not to call me anymore?" and then just reassure him that you do want to be friends but you dont want anything more...
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*15 female*
My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and like 2 weeks. I care for him a lot, but i'm such a jealous girlfriend and I can't help it.I mean I get jealous even when he says jlo is hot or someone else famous. I don't like when he hangs out with other girl unless i'm there to. I feel this is wrong of me. I trust him with all my heart but sometimes i just can't help it to be jealous. any advice?
Thanks in advance
I've been with my boyfriend for a long time. But yet I get the same way too. Its like your confused...your like wait your with me but your talking about another girl who is hott infront of me...lol (even if it is just someone famous) and then he always goes and partys at his dads house and i know there are tons of girls there and it bothers the hell out of me but i just relax and as hard as it is for me I just go do something to try to take my mind off of it like go out with some friends or just go to sleep or call him and ask him whats up and tell him how much you miss him and hope he's having fun. The first step to a healthy relationship is TRUST and you can say you trust him but you cant after two weeks so you have a reason to be jelous...try this ...get to know his friends real well and they will start inviting your over to hangout too and then you'll never have to worry about him being around other girls without you!
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okay i have been going out with this guy for a month and by christmas would be three months. i am needing help on what i can get him for christmas. i dont know what to get him b/c we would be going out for three months and i dont want to get him someting that special. so can someone plz help
thanks alot
punkbaby69
I've been with my boyfriend for awhile...and when It comes to presents its easy for me why? i dont know! hehe but go buy him some cd's or dvd's something he'll like and then maybe a shirt and then a picture frame with a picture of you two in it...believe it or not he'll have it standing next to his bed the whole time u two are together
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Hi!! im new to this website and Im 15 years old. I was just wondering if I should shave my vagina or do I leave it like it is. I have never been told yes or no, and I am too embarassed to ask. Thanks...I will rate high.
I do and I have since I was 13 its much better...you know for those times your on your period and all those things. Most guys like it saved more than just hairy...dont do it to please a guy thought. It will itch the first few times you do it but then you'll get use to it and realize its alot better without hair
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I guess you could say that i am prude...but I have made out with a guy and he has felt me up, but I am really scared to be in a situation where he wants to finger me or he wants me to give him a handjob,or do anything else for that matter.(he is my boyfriend) I just think it would be awkward and i dont know what im doing when it comes to sexual stuff. can u jus give me advice on what to do if the times comes? Sorry so long...i rate high
Just relax. Believe it or not he's nervous too. So just take it slow and ease into things. Its not bad to be scared. Just be confident..that sounds silly to say but so true. Just remember he is having the same insecure nervous feeling your having but he's a man and they wont come out and say it...
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i have had one period (in july) and it was at the end of the month. like the very end carrying over into the begining of the next month. i haven't had it since then and now my discharge is kinda brown-ish (gross, right?) and it kinda burns/stings when i wipe... whats wrong w/me???
the brownish discharge usually happens before or after a pro-longed period...the burning and stinging slthough isnt normal. you need to go make sure you go get that checked out...are you sexually active because you might be...ugh i dont even want to say it...go take care of yourself dont wait another month !
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O.k Well my best friend is a total whore... i mean like shes the type like if you have a dick .. shell suck it like after an hour of knowing you.. i confronted her about it like.. why have you changed so much (because she was never like this)The Other night i said some
things to her i maybe shouldnt have said..
but i meant them she told me i was never on her side, and i never helped her through anything meanwhile when she broke uph with her boyfriend i was there, through everything and when other people called her a whore i was there through it allll!!!
Well I Told Her i hoped she got pregnant and, shes a f****** whore, and a slut, and guys only want you for a#$ soo yea, i was pretty mean she was probably crying...
But today i was thinking am i just jealous of her. I mean shes a whore and she gets all the guys she wants, i always thought that if you havent done a lot of stuff with guys they'd want you more, am i wrong... AM I JEALOUS?
As sad as this is to say i was once like that. i mean i didnt do it after knowing them for an hour but i just dated alot of guys...and my bestfriend got fed up with it and got pissed off at me to. and you know why? not because she was jealous in any way why would someone get jealous over that, she got irritated because she really cared about me and didnt want to see me going down the wrong road in life. to this day i thank god that she handled it the way she did because im not like that...i have a boyfriend i love and have been with forever...just let her know you love her and care about her and dont want to see her get herself into a bad situation
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No matter how much or little I brush my teeth the night before, I always wake up with a nasty tasting coating all through my mouth that also gives me bad breath. It shows up on my teeth as like white patches sometimes, that can't be brushed away. I've used mouth wash and it doesn't change it. I brush my teeth twice a day, and properly. Does anyone know what the problem could be?
I also have braces and I can't remember if I had this problem before my braces or not, but it certainly wasn't this bad.
as gross and wrong this sounds hydrogen peroxide will do the trick...put it in your mouth and swish it around let it sit for like 40 seconds then spit it out...it is really gross but will work!
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Hello.ok,I am in the 7th grade and my boyfriends never does anything with me like go up town or go to the movies.I am haveing thoughts of dumping him because he hasnt even huged me and we have gone on a date yet but i love him 2 death. WHAT DO I DO?
~*BLONDE*LOVE~
As hard at it might be you need to sit down with him face to face and tell him how you feel and that you want more to a relationship than he does and if he wants to keep it that way you need out...it will solve the problem i promise...go for older guys way more muture if u ask me!
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There are these girls on my soccer team and their really popular and i'm a lot like them but I only started on this soccer team this year but it seems like they just wanna keep the clique their in and dont wanna let anyone else in although if they got to know me I think we could be really good friends what can I do to make them see that?
start a conversation with one of them ask them if they wanna go do something go to the mall go see a movie or have just a girls night out...once one of then notices how well u two get along...you'll be in the group!!!!!!
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I'm very shy but I want to be more outgoing, i'm popular but I think I would be more popular if I was more outgoing, What should I do?
what exactly is popular? just because you have more friends than someone else or just because your well known? dont ever do something just to be more popular...be yourself and just stay true to who you are...you dont need to change to be more popular! I promise!
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I'm not fat but I would feel much better about myself and more confident if I was skinnier, what are some good ways to lose weight, i'm already in soccer and bearly eating anything, but i'm not losing weight.
dont try to look like someone else dont try to be skinner. be happy with who you are...do sit ups eat healthy and dont just eat everyonce and awhile or ur body will tore it because it thinks its getting starved...have confidence, most girls lack that. your beautiful just remember that next time u step on the scale or look at yourself
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I NEED HELP!!! my last boyfriend and i have been broken up for more than 3 months now, and within those three months, he already went out with somebody else. i still like him, however, and even though he knows that, he's still trying to hook up with this other girl, ever since he and his girlfriend broke up during halloween. i was thinking of asking him out, but there's this one little thought that keeps me away from it: the fact that he seems to not care after you two are broken up. i don't want that to happen anymore, because it hurts if we break up again, but at the same time, i still really wanna get that feeling again when i was with him.
what do you think i should do??
ill say it once ill say it twice ill say it one more time...if it didnt work the first time what makes you think it will work the second time?
idk just something to think about xoxo
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ok me and my best friend (guy) are going out secreatly and i was wondering if that is wrong to keep it even from my best friend. Should i talk to him and see if im able to tell a couple of really good friends? im 13 and a female.
**sleepiesheep**
if you two are going to be together then you should have to hide it let him know that. because your relationship isnt going to work if its secret
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Everyone in my school thinks im a slut. I have made bad decisions in the past, and now im a totally diffrent person. No one will give me the chance though to be my friend. EVERYONE HATES ME!!!! How can i loose this reputaion fast and gain friends back?
Just ignore it, find one person you can trust and confide in them...and one more thing just relax and brush it off act like you have never heard about that rumor...it will be hard but work
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I have changed a lot ever since my dad died. I have become sad. Like not just sad, but like "depressed" I don't know if I am, but I'm afraid that I am. I don't want to get out of bed in the morning and have to push myself to even sit by my friends. When I am with my friends I try to laugh and smile to make it so that they don't have to see me this way, but I can't do it much longer. My grades are dropping and my parents don't suspect anything yet. I don't want them to know, they don't really understand. I don't feel comfortable talking to my mom because she cries every time i talk about him, and my step dad... well I just can't talk to him. I don't like my councilor, besides, he would talk to my mom and step dad. I can't talk to my grandmas or aunts, I just don't know what to say. My boyfriend would understand, but we aren't that far in the relatiopnship. So I don't know if he would be comfortable, it might scare him away. My father died 3 years ago, I don't know why it is just starting to bug me now. My whole life is confusing! Can you help with any of it? thanks for whatever you can do in advance!
my dad died 5 years ago next sunday. its hard i know. its hard to lose your bestfriend, and your father figure. its okay to cry and hurt and its okay if you want to talk to your boyfriend then do because no matter if its the first month or 4 years from now its going to be the same way the rest of your life. if you need anyone to talk to you can email me at blueyeblondeqt@hotmail.com and my screen name is toblonde4you86...im here for you
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okay well i have a little white sore on the inside of my lip. like on the way bottom where your teeth grow. it hurts too. i smoke and i think it might be mouth cancer. my mom knows about it but not that i smoke. and its like bleeding a tiny bit. what are the sympotms? what should i do?
you usually get little white blisters in your mouth when your running low on iron. so go buy some iron and take it and it should be gone within three days...wish you the best...dont mess with it leave it alone or it will get worse
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please help me! I am looking at my vaines right now and I just want to take a blade and trace them all the way up my arm! I am so depressed and I really need someone to talk to that im not afraid will judge me!
PLEASE HELP ME!
EMAIL ME ANYTHING OR LEAVE ME ADVICE PLEASE
email - pink_lip_gloss91@hotmail.com
Hey. Dont do that. Hurting or even worse killing yourself is the most selfish thing you can do. Even if you think your on the bottom and there is no way you can get up and you feel like you want to end your life because its so horrible just remember when your gone you cant come back, people will miss you for awhile and be sad but you'll fade away to just a memorie in the past...remember who you are and what you think about yourself...relax if you need me you can IM me at Blueyeblondeqt@hotmail.com
remember even if your at the bottome of the barrel and you cant go down anymore, the only way to get out of it is to go up right??????????
you can IM me at toblonde4you86 feel free to talk to me wenever you need to i always check it like 10 times a day
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