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my boy friend
well a while ago my boy friend got shot and went into a coma for about a week. and i was talking to his friend online so she could keep me updated once and a while on how he's doing. so i kinda sliped up that i was trying to kill my self with a knife and slitting my wrists and that i was trying to over dose with sleeping pills. so she told him once he woke up... and now hes mad at me... what should i do?
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you should of never done that he still loves you and you were going to kill yourself becasue he was dead. what would your family do they love you too. you definatly need to talk to your boyfriend and maybe dont go crazy over stuff like that because i no he wouldnt want you to kill yourself becasue of him. and if u had killed your self before he was alright than he would of not been able to live with the pain. do you get my point?
hope i helped
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explain too him that you were gonna doo it b/c
you thougt he was gonna die ... !!
p.s do not comit suiside no metter what !!
♥ Samra
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give him some time and then tell him you let the sitution get out of controll and your lost it and you went crazy and you wernt thinking but you just wanted to be with him, and you know you should have been standing at his side the whole time but it was just too hard for you...he'll understand
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I dont think he is mad as in angry with you .I think he is more upset b/c he was pretty much on his death bed and you were trying to join him. Hunny you need to realize that your life was not at risk. You should of been there with him at his side so when he woke up he could see you were there with him--not trying to join him. If you need to talk im me or email me and i will talk to you. I am noticing alot of smart ass comments in here and that aint right-so get at me if you need ANYTHING
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Say something to him on the lines of:
"I was a mess, I didn't know where to go or who to turn to, you mean a lot to me and that was a way of coping, I thought you were going to die and I'd kill myself if it were to save your life". That way, he might not be so mad at you, only say that if you mean it.
G'luck!
x Steph x
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First, I'M SO HAPPY THAT HE'S OUT OF THE COMA!!!!!!!!!!!!
Second, were you trying to kill yourself because you thought he was going to die? Can you please add some more information??
THANK YOU
Explain to him that you were scared, devastated that he might die, and if he was to die that you wanted to die with him. UMM?? Not this one
I think he's mad because he wouldn't want you to die because he could have. That was very stupid on your part but I understand where you are coming from. You sound like you wouldn't want to live without him and that you really love him. Explain that to him. THAT'S SOME TRUE LOVE! NOW AM I RIGHT OR WOULD YOU LIKE SOME MORE HELP FROM ME?
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