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I'm Kelly. I'm 15. And I have experienced a lot in life. I love helping people, so i decided to get one of these a while back. I don't come on a lot, but maybe I will start more often. I also answer questions with honesty, and how i would work things out. I have delt with a lot, and i probably have had a problem similar to yours. So, why not give me a try, and hit me up with a question?! If you want to actually talk to me - feel free to IM me, to ask me a question or just to chat- I'm pretty much always on.

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Gosh! I hate the fact that I don't know how to flirt! Everyone says that guys dont like me because of the way I act. I'm 14/f and these guys are like 16 or 17 maybe. My cousin keeps telling me that she doesnt act like I do but she didnt have b/fs when she was my age either! Shes 16 and she said the way I act is a turn off! PLZ HELP!

If you are trying to get older guys interested in you, then you have to act their age. You have to be mature and actually understand what they are talking about and such, and be able to be comfortable with them. Along with being mature, you also should be down to earth. Still be yourself, but pretend you are a little older. Have confidence, also. It is a huge turn on for most guys. The guys you are interested will also probably take a second look at you if they see something in common, example like if they skateboard, try skateboarding, or ask them for help cause you want to learn.

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Dylana was a friend os mine. She was nosy, but than she made Rachel, my other friend mad at me. Now, Dylana is always making me mad. On purpose! I don't know what to do! Somebody give me advice as soon as possible! PLEASE!

First of all, next time try to be a little more specific with your question. But a real friend wouldn't make you mad on purpose, it sounds like she is jealous or something. i would just try to talk to them both about it, and clear up everything with Dylana and tell her what is really going on, and what has really happened (with whatever you are fighting about).

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when you wear a tampon
and its about that time to pull it out


how is it supposed to look
im new at wearing them
so yeah

is it supposed to be like stretched out or kinda the same way you had it before you stuck it in except a little bigger and with blood !!


helpppp

it is very common for it to look bigger, and with blood. it more depends on how heavy your flow is/and what day, but for the most part, it will be how you explained it. so don't worry, everything is normal!

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hey its been forever, how have you been?

okay anywayz my question is... i was dating this girl sammie, then she kissed another guy i flppped and we broke up, she said that that kiss didnt mean anything... then for a month she bothered me and said she wanted me back, now i finally relieze i still really like her, and shee doesnt want me back... wat do i do to get her back, or is it even worth it?

if she cheated on you once, then she will most likely do it agian. i hate to break it to you, but i think you should move on.. just because you dont want to get hurt agian.. you know. and like i know you may like her a lot, but if she doesn't want you back, you can't do anything to change how she feels about you. it's just how things are, and i'm sure you will find someone who is a lot better for you - who in fact, won't end up cheating on you. good luckk!

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Does putting penut butter on your signicicant other make sex more fun!?!?

haha wow. i havent heard this one before. so sorry, but i couldnt tell you. maybe try it out and tell me! haha. good luck :D

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14/m

I just found out that my gf is going to boarding school next year

should i move on or stay w/ her??

its completely up to you. but honestly, it would probably be easier to just move on. you should still be frineds with her and everything. but 14 is a young age, and i promise theres other fish in the sea for both of you. especailly if the boarding school is far, it will be really hard to have a relationship. so personally i would break it off probably. unless you thnk you guys can last it out. good luck!

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15/f. is it weird that i don't shave my entire "pubic" area completely off? i just shave around the edges but not all of it.

in a guys opinion is that weird?

haha noo. sorry im not a guy. but ive answered questions like this before. anyway, it isnt wierd AT ALL that you dont shave it all. most girls dont [almost all] and it would be a pain to always have to shave. guys usually dont care if there is hair, but just want it to be like a "trimmed bush" if you know what i mean. as long as you keep it to a small area you shouldnt have much of a problem with the guys.

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i liked this boyy since i was like 8 yrs old ( im 15 now ) but i moved away from him ={. we were sex buddies and bestest friends. i told him how i felt and he sed that he felt the same but never asked me out or told me that he wanted to be with me. But now that i moved he's all i can think about and i just found out that he has a new girlfriend ( i havent been gone to long ). i have true feelings about him, but since he moved on so fast should i? How do i know that im ready for a relationship ? oh and im a female... lol

since you moved, its a chance to start over. start fresh. move on from him. it sounds liek he didnt want a relationship with you, and no offence, but was kinda using you. just because he moved on so fast doesnt mean you have to. just wait for the right time, and the right guy, that will actually care about you and be with you. not just be sex buddies. you know your ready for a relationship when you feel that you dont need one. when you feel you dont need a guy in yuor life. it may sound wierd - but its completely true. good luck with everything. and just focus on making new frineds and keeping the old ones- who actually care and showed they cared. they will mean alot in the end!

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me and my girlfriend want to start having sex. weve done oral shes givin me a handjob ive fingerd her the works. everything but sex. i dont think my cock is that big and i want to make ehr quiver with pleaser.im too young to buy a penis pump. is there anyway to enlarge my cock herbaly or by doing some penis exercises anything other then a penis pump. also is there a way to not be a minute man. what are the best brand of condoms and lube. should we try anal on out first time

thanks in advance

just follow your gut aqnd do what you think is right. its not the smartest idea to try anal the first time, and i wouldnt reccomend it. and im sorry but no there isnt a way to enlarge your penis until your aabout 18 or so.. and as for the best brand.. use trojan. also, make sure that your girlfrined knows that it will be painful the first time. you will be more pleasured then she will..


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ok well i was going out with this guy i was going out with this guy.i still was when summer started on the last day of school but since then its all blah.i have talked to him once the whole summer and i dont know what to do cuz he said he isnt aloud to talk on the phone that one day i talked to him and he said he was sorry.also his parents are like russian freaks(no offence to any russians) and like dont give him any space to live.i dont know what i should say to him and stuff tomorrow the first day of school cuz i still like him but i dont know if we are still going out and if we are if i should break up with him.HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!

if you still like him then dont break up with him. you have to understand that some peoples parents are more overprotective or like to know everything and anything that happens in their childs life. and alot of the time, it means that their child lost their trust or they dont want them to get hurt. but i dont blame you for being confused and you dont knwo what to do. he was not being a good boyfriend to like not talk to you all summer. and i bet you were like always wondering if / when he was gonna call and what he was doing. id talk to him the first day andjust ask him. be like.. what are we now? are we just frineds or are we still together? just plain out and ask him what you want to know. it cant hurt anything, i mean.. you do want to know. good luck and i hope everything goes how you want it too.

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im 13 im going on 14 in about 4 months i have doubles D's is that normal?i know that because i tried on my friends mom's bra and she has dd's and they fit.

its something out of the ordinary. but trying on a bra doesnt mean that thats your size. i think you should go to a fitting place (i know for a fact that victorias secret does it for free) and once you get measured then you will know what your actual size is. double ds are becoming more and more common these days though. there are many girls that would kill to have that size breasts. yea, it is a little bigger for your age - but everyone is different. i wouldnt be worried even if you do have double d's but i would get measured for sure to see what size you are.

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I dance (jazz, ballet, moder, hip-hop) and whenever i do pleas (bending my knees) they get realllllly sore pretty quickly. also, my knees are hyperextended...what should i do...do you know what this is???
thanks in advanced

i suggest that since you use your knees so much, that you build up the muscles around them. i recently got surgery on one of my knees and thats all i do in physical tehrapy. just work on bulding up my quar muscle. i think you should also get it checked out by a doctor just to make sure its not a serious injury or problem. they may suggest taking some physical tehrapy, and if they do then i highly suggest doing it.

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is fingering yourself bad? i finger myself everyday and more then once a day. is it bad to do it so much?

no there is nothing wrong with it. especially if you arent in pain. its just a way of being pleasured. but i agree, dont let it interfere with other things.

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hey this has nothing to do with advicenators but I didnt see an "other" category so I chose this one. I just thought it was cool because my name is Kelli Elizabeth to! Ok lol my advice column is x0xfabulous0x if you wanna check it out.
xoxo kelli

haha thats cool :)
mm deffinitally ill check it out. too bad we spell our first names differently.
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Hey. My boyfriend (to-be) thinks orange tulips are sexy, and they turn him on. I was wondering, how you would suggest growing them to satisfy his taste. Also, which colour vase do you think would make them 'pop'. Thanks for your time, cutie. XOX0 *sTeFfY*

sure, that would be cute if you grew them. it shows that you care about what he cares about and such. mm, prolly black would work. but also clear vases are always safe. it kinda depends on the surroundings and such, you know. good luck :)

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my friends & i go to eachothers swim clubs & we go to the park a lot. but that sometimes gets boring. can you please give me a few ideas of what to do durring summer with friends that is super fun but not super expensive? kthx

have a barbeque, waterballoon fight, get ice cream, get coloring books and color them, go to the beach and collect seashells or make sand castles, get a volleyball net & ball and gave a fun game. pretty much just be creative and have fun. and be up for anything. you will be surprised what you guys can do. have funn

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i am 5'3 and 16 years old. i think 5'3 is too short for my age. so is there any way to get taller besides drinking milk?? and does caffeine REALLY stunt your growth???? TY!

i really didnt know much about this topic, so i foudn you a site instead :) [ http://www.betaller.com/growing-taller.htm ] go there and it gives you like 5 ways to grow taller. but youyr height mainly depends on how tall your parents are. and plusss 5'3 isnt even that short. i mean im 5'5 and 14. and i think its short too, but pretty much we are average. but really, i understand, i think im short too. its all personal preference. also there is a really good book that you can buy [if you want] that has all kinda secrets like diets and stuff that help you grow taller. the book is called Growing Taller Secrets by Robert Gland. if you are really serious about this, then i suggest getting the book. and i think caffine does stunt your growth, because i think it lowers the amount of amino acids in your glands. but im not positive, sorry. good luck

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On my private parts I have dark hair, but under my arms it is blond! Is this bad? How can I sort it out? I haven't started my period either! What can I do? Please help thanks xx
sally-lee x

aww, hun. there is no need to worry. like at all. actually you are kinda lucky. it just means that you will kinda have to shave less under your arms, becasue people wouldnt be able to see it. so no it is not bad at all. you are luckkyyy ! but most likely it will get darker as you get older.. and you cant do anything either. since you are getting hair "down there" you will most liekly be starting your period soon. just be patient! :) good luckk

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does milk help you loose weight and make you taller?

nope. my boyfriend is like 6 1 and he doesnt drink alot of milk. haha yea, he wrote that. anyway - being tall kinda depends on how tall your relatives are. it might help you loose weight, but water helps more. milk just makes your bones stronger.

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i need to stop biting my nails,. but its so hard,.,what do i doo?

yea i knwo its hard. its just a way of releaving stress. and its more common than you probably think. theres probably lots of ways to do it, but i only know of a couple. like when your wash your hands, just leave a little soap under your nails, then when you bite your nails your get soap in your mouth ! grosss. or your can put like a spicy sauce in your nails, and when your bite them your mouth starts to burn. the first one is more effective and easier. goodd luckk

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