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How to flirt?
Gosh! I hate the fact that I don't know how to flirt! Everyone says that guys dont like me because of the way I act. I'm 14/f and these guys are like 16 or 17 maybe. My cousin keeps telling me that she doesnt act like I do but she didnt have b/fs when she was my age either! Shes 16 and she said the way I act is a turn off! PLZ HELP!
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Well, you didn't exactly tell me how you act, so I'm not sure exactly what to say. But, if she means that she didn't act like a tomboy or something like that, then you shouldn't worry about it. Go after guys that like sports and hiking.
If she means that you act immature, then I would have to say that that isn't such a big deal either. Guys like girls they can be big kids with. They hate to grow up.
The biggest flirty gestures, you don't even really have to think to do, they are so simple.
When you're with a guy, pretend that you have to fix your hair, or if you have it down, put it in a ponytail or a clip in front of him. Pulling your arms back and up to reach your hair will emphasize your chest while also bringing his attention to your hair, which most guys like to run their fingers through. You can also just play with the ends of your hair while you're talking to him, but subtlely, so as not to make a show out of it.
Also, you can put on lip balm or even just lick your lips. It brings his attention to your mouth and he may wonder what it tastes like or what it would be like for him to run his tongue along your lips.
Just catch his eye and smile.
When you're walking by him and you catch his eye, kind of look away, but then turn around and catch his eye again for a few seconds before you keep going.
Straighten his clothing slightly or dust an imaginary piece of lint off his shoulder.
Hope these help. Just ask if you need more.
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If you are trying to get older guys interested in you, then you have to act their age. You have to be mature and actually understand what they are talking about and such, and be able to be comfortable with them. Along with being mature, you also should be down to earth. Still be yourself, but pretend you are a little older. Have confidence, also. It is a huge turn on for most guys. The guys you are interested will also probably take a second look at you if they see something in common, example like if they skateboard, try skateboarding, or ask them for help cause you want to learn.
hope this helps!! :] ♥
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When you flirt just remember body language is more important. Back straight, open posture, don't forget to smile and keep eye contact. When you flirt do it with all guys not just the ones you find attractive. Talk about them not just yourself and stuff the guy would be interested in. Good luck and just have fun with it.
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