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Hey everybody ! I'm Callie. I'm from St. Louis Missouri.. yes yes SoCo,Mo. I'm 16. sophomore at MHS. 2010 bitchesss. I'm involed in a whole bunch of shit at school .. I'm class president for the 2nd year and a StuCo officer. StuCo is more than a club, it`s a passion. I`m in Paws & Peace, STL, yearbook, A+ tutoring, Sophomore Executive, cheerleading. I`m an over achiever and I love it.




I LOvE to give advice; if you ask me a question you will get an answer. If you ask a dumb question, you will get a dumb answer. Easy as that. You can ask me about anything; I know what I should for my age, maybe more. I've been through alot.. maybe not all personally but I've seen alot of shit happen with my friends and just people around school. I'll help as best as I can. Any question you ask I will answer it as best that I possibly can.. even if it's just and honest answer of " I don't know. "



Don't rate me bad because you feel like it. If I don't answer your question the way you wanted me to, then don't rate me bad.. just don't rate me. If you honsetly think that my advice to you was absolutly horrible then okay rate me bad. I don't mind. Please comment when you rate me thought :)


If you wanna want to ask me anything at all, I have an AIM screen name. Don't send me messages on here saying ILY or HAPPY BIRTHDAY or THANKS or anything like that. Send me an IM or comment. Advicenators gets mad if you send it in my inbox. I also have facebook that I'm compleatly addicted to, it's kinda sad. But if you have a question that you want answered right away, send me a message on facebook. I'm on there atleast twice a day.. not on here so much. If you're not old enought to have facebook.. I also have myspace. I'm on there about once a week. But still.. more than this. I'm really gonna try and start this up again. I really enjoy giving and receiving advice so I'm gonna try hard. My screen name is on the bar along the side. If you IM me I'll tell you my usernames for myspace and what not.


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About a month ago I found out that my boyfriend's mom is pregnant! :) I'm so overjoyed, as is everyone else. At first it was a little secret, so I couldn't tell anyone. My boyfriend finally asked his mom if he could spread the word and she gave him the a-okay. This happened a week ago. I'm no longer happy. Everytime I try to tell my parents she's pregnant I feel sick. Not disgusted, literally sick to my stomach. I also feel embarrassed and ashamed and a bit hateful. Not at all hateful towards the baby or his mom but me. I chicken out. Now my boyfiends starting to get a little annoyed with me, as you can imagine. Just writing this makes me feel sick. WHAT SHOULD I DO?! Please, any advice would help Thanks. 13/F

Okay so my boyfriends mom and step dad decided that they wanted to have a kid together. At first my boyfriend wasn't excited.. and when he told me I was sooo excited. but I didn't want to tell anyone because they were just thinking of having a kid, she's not pregnant yet. But I was sooo excited I had to tell SOMEONE you know.. so I told my mom because I talk to her about me and my boyfriend alot. I'm 14 so I can relate. But anyways if you really want to tell her this is what I said to my mom "Mom oh my goshhh guess what ?!.. _______'s mom is gonna have a baby! Her and _______'s step dad decided to have a baby!!" maynn I was sooo excited. I'm still more excited than my boyfriend. Sorry I was kind of leaning towards what happened with me, but I understand how you feel. If you aren't comfordable with telling her and your b.f wants her to know so bad, then he can tell her too.
Hope I helped.
[♥]Callie[♥]

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theres a guy who sits at my table, and i really liek him.Im usually a energetic, and loud person, but when i get in front of him, i shut down and look like a boring quiet person. Im really weak and i suddenly become clueless, and nervous inside. How should i open up and make him notice me more? Thank you so much.

A guy has to like you for who you are, so don't be afraid to show him WHO YOU ARE. Don't over do it and act like a compleate idiot, because it's not who you are either. What I mean is that you say you're loud, so don't be EXTRA loud just so he knows you're loud. Get it .. !? iDkk..
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im 14 and never had boyfriend. most of my friends have. am I just a loser? I dont mind it much im happy and everything but usually when people find out their just like "OMG YOU NEVER HAD A BOYFRIEND?!" and it just makes me feel pretty dumb. i like this one boy but I know I dont have a chance with him because im not exactly pretty.

Alot of people don't have boyfriends at the age of 14. I'm 14 and plenty of my friends have never really had a boyfriend. Totally normal. If you like the guy it's worth a shot with him, you never know what could really happen. And there's a match for everyone so don't cut yourself short just because you're "not exactly pretty" .. because not everyone goes for looks. Most guys at the age of 14 do however, just let them grow up and figure it out on thier own that looks aren't everything.

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My friend's are into druds, alcohol, smoking ,ans sex. I'm just not interested in any of that stuff at all! I think it's just wrong, but my friends say it'll make me look cool, but, i don't think it will. I think it'll make me look stupid. I'm afraid of giving in, what shoul i do?

I agree with you 110%. You're doing the right thing by not giving into them, so keep up with that. They'll come to thier senses eventually and realize how stupid and pointless doing drugs and smoking is. If they honestly thinkg that it'll "make you look cool" then they've got something wrong because 'cool' can mean a lot of different things.. it's an opinion. Seriously, if you looked up 'cool' in the dictionary it wouldn't say drugs, alcohol, sex, smoking. I know you've most likely heard this before but [no joke] if they think that's the only thing that would make you 'cool' then they probably aren't your true friends. Yeahh it's okay for friends to have different interests and stuff, but if it's a "do it or we're not friends thing" they aren't worth your time.

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ok this is very complicated but here it goes: there is this guy who rides my bus and he is the cutest sweetest guy i have ever met.but heres the thing he does not really ride the bus anymore so i barely see him and he is not in any of my classes. but now here is where it gets complicated he told my friends that i was really pretty and really hot and he was thinking about asking me out and i really like him but he has not made a move and i really want him. all i can think about is wanting to kiss him and i just really want him and i am so sad please know one tell me that there are other guys out there because i just need advice about this one.

go for it. go for it. go for it. if he really told your friends he was gonna ask you out then he has to like you, and your friends wouldn't make it up either. so just go for it ask him out. if he says no then you don't really lose anything. and if he says yes, then you got yourself a new boy friend !

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~~~~~A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't mean that the guy likes her~~~~~
I read this somewhere, and really want to know if this is true or false.
So, is it true or not?

I think it's true also. Because if a guy finds out that the girl likes him then he thinks about if he likes her, but also likes the attention. Both people who already answered said the same thing, but I'm just saying what I think. I also think that if a guy thinks about he likes the girl or not too much, he might [probably will] end up liking the girl.

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theres this guys who i reallllly like. people also think he likes me, too, just because he always looks at me and talks to me. But, I told my friend to tell him that I like him. So, my friend told him that i like him, and now he seems to pay much more atention to me and want to talk to me more and stuff. is that normal?

ohh yeahh.. def. normal ! if he knows that you like him and now he's talking to you more.. he likes you. if he didn't then he wouldn't lead you on [since he knows you like him (if he didn't know then he might 'lead you on' by accident) ] but yeahh.. good job with letting him know you like him. always a good thing to do. now just wait to see what happens.. i think he'll ask you out = ]

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I have never kissed a guy and I'm scared that when I do I will be really bad at it. Does anyone have any kissing advice for a kissing virgin?

It all has to be natural. Just let it happen and 'go with the flow'. Try not to think about it too hard and it'll all just kind of happen. First times are special so don't do it if it's awkward.. wait til the moment seems right so it's just a natural feeling or else it will be tense.
Good luck and have fun !!
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Do you know the name of this song & who its by.
"I can't stand.. seeing you with him, your just another pricely work of art.. in his gallery"

Not 100% sure those are the right words, but it's a popular song. Thanks alot. ♥

I googled it and I'm pretty sure the lyrics match up. and I think I've heard this song before too so I tryed to download it so I could see if it's right, but my Limewire isn't working. sorry. but this is what google said ..

Song : Gallery
Artist : Mario Vasquez


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alright i probably know what your going to say but i'm asking anyways. Me and my boy friend ahv bin having sex without condoms for about 8 months now, but i'm on bith control, is it still a bad idea to continue with this.

if you're on birth control it's not horribly bad, but i suggest starting to use condoms just to be 'extra safe'.
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There is this boy in all of my classes except library and computer. I go to a small Catholic school btw. Anyway, I think hes sweet and cute and really nice. he sits next to me in honors algebra. but i made fun of him last year for no reason and i think he kinda likes me but im scared that if i ask him out, his mom (who hates me) will get mad.
what should i do?
13/f

go for it. that's his mom's deal if she doesn't like you. if you guys would go out then she'd have to deal with it and she might get to liking you.

hope I helped!
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My best friend just got a new boyfriend last week. this guy is okay, but he can be such a jerk. he is really just using her for the physical stuff. lfor example he was saying "we should hook up tonight" and of course she did. i am scared for her and i don't think this guy really likes her. but she likes him so much i don't know what to do. i want to talk to her about it but i don't know what to say. please help me :/

most likely if you tell your friend how you feel she's not really gonna care. but once she realizes it, don't be all "i told you so" .. be there for her because she's gonna need someone to talk to. just tell her that he's a jerk and she deserves better than the way he treats her.
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Why do guys hate/not like when girls cry? For example, last night I was telling my best guy friend about something really upsetting, and he just kept saying, "Please don't cry, please don't cry." What makes guys always say that, like why does it upset tem when girls cry?

it's not that guys don't like it when girls cry.. they don't really care, it's just that they don't know what to say to make you feel better. they don't know how to comfort you in the way that you want to be comforted.
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i need advice.. Brissa (girlfriend) we've gone out for about 5 days now and she is kid of shy. but i need advice on like what to talk about in Lunch or in the hallway. something other than school or homework something that is about home or cool. HELP!!!!!! thanks in advance.


p.s. do you think i should put my hand around her?

talk about what her plans are for after school. ask her if she's heard the new _______ song or something. I think you should def. put your arm around her, but she should let you know if there's a problem (but there shouldn't be) maybe she's shy around you because she likes you that much and she's waiting for you to do something to her or talking about something first.

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Will eating LOTS of carbs in one day cause diabetes? Usually, I watch my carbs pretty closely except probably one day a week. I don't exercise too much. I'm 16 year old female, and my parents or siblings don't have diabetes.

Eating alot of carbs shouldn't cause diabetes. I'm not totally sure about this, but I've never heard of just getting diabetes like that. I've always thought it was hereditary.

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hey! i have a really big problem. so i dated this guy jake over a year ago now for almost 2 months. he dated thisgirl i knew and then they broke up after 2 years and me n him dated. which was quite crazy. anyways, we ended up breaking up bcz he cheated on me with her and they got back 2gether n have been on n off for almost a year. well, now he is dating sum other girl that idont know n the other day i messaged him on myspace, i havent talked 2 him since last year n i asked him for directions 2 get this oneplace we went 2 last year when we dated. he messaged back sayin he has nothing againts me n he knows he did some bogus shit n to give him a call ormessage when we wanna hangout for old times sake... so idont know if im taking this too overboard but he was my first realll bf that i reallylikedn my friend's birthday is coming up this weekend, and he knew her, thats how we met n began dating bcz his x was friends with my best friend n because of allthis she hated us... well i really do have feelings 4 him n want to ask him 2 come by but is it 2 weird?? but thing is... he never said sorry... what should i write back? thank you somuch

If you reply to him tell him that you would like to hang out sometime because you miss the old days. Make sure he knows that what he did hurt you real bad and it's not gonna be the easiest thing to forgive him even though you want to real bad. Tell him that if you guys hang out then you want it to become a relationship again or just stricktly friends .. whichever. Let him know that you still have feelings for him and you're not sure if hanging out together would be good if he doesn't have feelings for you too.

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Hey, ive been going out with this guy for a lil over 2 months, and he is awesome..i love him soo much. He's 15 but with christmas coming up i have no idea what to get him!! Please HelP!

I'm having the same problem. My boyfriend is also 15 and we've been together for 6 months. I was thinking about cologne. If you think it's a good idea.. think about if he wears it, if he already has a favorite scent, where he normally buys it (i.e. hollister .. they have more then one fragrence so you can buy the one he doesn't have). But other than that.. kinda talking with his friends.. go shopping with them. That's what my bf's doing for me! lOl !

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I need some help, i have herd alot that starveing yourself to lose weight doesn't work, but i have also herd that thats how the celeberties stay so skinny.I already know that starving yourself is vary bad for your body, so don't bother telling how dangerouse it is.I just want a yes, or no answer on wether or not it works, also i have been dieting for a wile, i run of the tredmeal every day for a hour and i have been eating healthy foods.But i haven't lost eny weight and i still look the same, i have been doing this for 3 weeks, what am i doing wrong?

First off.. if you eat healthy foods but you're eating more of the healthy foods than you normally would, it's not gonna do anything. Just putting that out there. When you starve yourself, your body still needs to get food.. so it takes the fat in your body and eat that. That's how weight is lost. But most likely you will gain weight before you lose weight useing starvation.

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i've been googling all day and i cant it anywere,so i want 2 noo ..
whats ther average weight of someone who is 4"8 1/2?
whats the average weight of someone who is 5"3 ?

i dont know for sure but i know that at malls and stuff they have machines that tell you all of that information.

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So there's this guy and I really like him. And everyone says he likes me. Yet, he didn't ask me out. Well, my friends and I are going to see Stay Alive soon and I wanted to ask him. How do I do it?

talk to him. ask him what he's doing that night. he'll prob. say "nothing. what about you" and you say goin to the movies, you should come! easy peasy lemon squeasy!
--kalie

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