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Question Posted Thursday November 16 2006, 9:07 pm

~~~~~A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't mean that the guy likes her~~~~~
I read this somewhere, and really want to know if this is true or false.
So, is it true or not?


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Erronius answered Friday November 17 2006, 2:17 pm:
This is a strange observation really, I know women who like me that I dont like in return, and I dont sit at home and 'often' think of them. Why would I, if I dont like the woman? Unless I think so highly of myself that I sit there thinking "Yeeeaahh, all the ladies want me!" I don't see why this would be true (though I see all the posters that agree it is true, which is baffling - I dont get it). At most I might feel sorry for a girl, if she likes me and I dont like her, in that in the end I have to be a little selfish (sometimes its a good thing) and blow her off as I know she wants what I cannot give her. But still, I wouldn't think about it 'often'...I'd much rather spend my time thining of women I DO like and like me in return /shrug.

Unless people are reading into this and thinking that men in general have some sort of narcissistic tendency and think of 'all the women' who like them as support for feeling so good about themselves....I guess thats possible, but thats a somewhat narrow opinion of men in general imo.

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god-smusgrove answered Friday November 17 2006, 1:25 pm:
yah

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dimitri answered Friday November 17 2006, 12:05 pm:
yeah,definitely true,speaking from experience.hahaha

anyways.the wierd thing about love,well there are a lot of wierd things, but anyways,once a girl likes a guy or vice versa,the opposite partner will mostly feel affection in a way.Like,maybe the girl thinks,'Wow! this guy sees something in me that the others don't',or maybe flattery could lead to a guy liking a gal he might not have noticed before but because she confesses her feeling....he starts to like her,act proper as to not let her assumptions of him down and might eventually fall for her as well. BUT,then again,he could just think of her and well ....maybe keep on thinking about her just to keep himself being flattered by the fact that a girl like him,and not like her at all,but just enjoys the feeling of being liked by a girl,so....he thinks of her(yeah,you get the point).Pure elementry.hoped i help.

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H0LDM3CL0S3 answered Friday November 17 2006, 12:16 am:
I think it's true also. Because if a guy finds out that the girl likes him then he thinks about if he likes her, but also likes the attention. Both people who already answered said the same thing, but I'm just saying what I think. I also think that if a guy thinks about <if/> he likes the girl or not too much, he might [probably will] end up liking the girl.

[&hearts;]Callie[&hearts;]

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queenhearts answered Thursday November 16 2006, 11:16 pm:
Yes and no.

Sometimes the thought of someone liking you.. makes you feel wanted/special and good.. but you don't really like them back.

It's more of.. liking the idea..that a girl would like them.

But yeah.. you could like someone if you thought about them a lot.

But there's only a chance they don't.

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pootietang answered Thursday November 16 2006, 11:05 pm:
In my opinion, it is true.

Guys think about the girls who like them to decide whether they like the girl back or not.

Don't believe everything you read. Those romantic quotes in AIM profiles and on MySpace are usually false and unrealistic.

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