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How do i make him like me
theres a guy who sits at my table, and i really liek him.Im usually a energetic, and loud person, but when i get in front of him, i shut down and look like a boring quiet person. Im really weak and i suddenly become clueless, and nervous inside. How should i open up and make him notice me more? Thank you so much.
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i had the same exact problem. it took me a awhile to actuallly tlak to him, but when i talked to him for the first time he imediatly started talking to me. the next day we talked again and he bacame a really good freind. the easiest way to open up is to just not think about bad things that could happen and just go for it. the easiest way to get a guys attention is to talk about things with him that you guys both have in common.
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Remember that this guy is a human being just like you... there's nothing threatening about just another person!
Also, it's ALWAYS better for the person to see who you usually are. That way they'll like you for yourself, not for what you seem to be. So if you (even subconsciously) think that he'll be scared off by you being loud and energetic, then maybe you aren't well suited for one another.
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I've been through this. I now this is probably easier said than done but try talking to him. Start off with little canversations. Maybe even start off with asking him questions about homework, school, sports hes in .. or other topics you can think of.l Get to know each other .. by doing this you might get more comfertable around him. You might be more of your self and go back to being the Loud, energentic person you are.
hope i helped
- Shannon
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A guy has to like you for who you are, so don't be afraid to show him WHO YOU ARE. Don't over do it and act like a compleate idiot, because it's not who you are either. What I mean is that you say you're loud, so don't be EXTRA loud just so he knows you're loud. Get it .. !? iDkk..
Hope I helped
[♥]Callie[♥]
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