I love to help people. I would love to give you all advice but first you have to ask me a question!!!!!!!!!!! I might just be 13 but I do have a lot of wisdom because wierd and common things happen to me all the time. I know you are thinking that i am not good enough but if you ask a question and don't like the answer you get just email me and I will try to improve. Thanx!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ok, I am from Spokane, WA and am a girl (duh)AND YOU CAN TELL ME ANYTHING. I want to become a fashion designer but it isn't just because it sounds cool but because i love to be unique and I know everything about fashion. Sure, go ahead, ask me something and you will be satisfied!!!!!!!!!!!!
The Weekly Advie
Topic: Colors
Try to put complimentary colors together when you are layering, such as:
Pink-Lime Green
Purple-Yellow
Blue-Orange
Red-Green
White-Black
I get lots of compliments when i wear colors like that because they look so good together
That is my weekly advice. Hope it helps!!!!!
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OK, see I'm going out with this guy...and he's really really sweet and nice and everything, he's what I think every girl would want. BUT the only thing is...he's not good looking....at all I guess...he's not like the ugliest person on earth...but he's just not cute at all. And like I'm afraid people at my school will make fun of me, because you know, Blue Valley..think about it..girls here..we judge...what do I do? Do I dump the guy? or do I keep on going out with this guy and ignore everything?
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Sorry it is so long but this will really help!!!!Just ignore everything because sometimes girls do that because they don't have a boyfriend and you do or they want that kind of guy and they just don't want you to have him. Don't dump him because who cares if people laugh at you because if they are not your friends who cares and if they are your friends they are mean to you (not joking though) but if they are mean then they shouldn't be your friend and if you want them to be your friend b/c they are popular then you shouldn't care b/c they aren't good enough for you. Keep the guy because he is worth it. You will have other boyfriends in the future and this won't be held against you b/c take a chance and not many people do remember that. If they do than that is not your problem. Please rate i did try to help.
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Well, ok, here's the deal. I'm fourteen and i have a group of really close friends. I don't get crushes on girls, but my one friend has really nice, larger breasts and I like to touch them. This is because I am on the smaller side. Occasionally she lets me feel her, but sometimes she laughs it off. I enjoy it when I'm able to touch her. But, I just get turned on by things like this and horny.. Does this happen to anyone else? Also, there's this girl that touches me alot in those areas and it gets me really horny. I jsut like experimenting. Can someone please help me out? Thank you; I'll rate all fives. (link)
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Sorry this is so long but it will really help. Well maybe you do like girls and that has happened but not to me. Girls get that way beacausse they either have envy (not jealousy though) so they get that way and so don't worry. If you do like girls don't get to upset about it there are a lot of girls out there that feel the same way. A couple of people i know say that their friends like to touch there on them too so you are definetly not alone. It is something that you will grow out of. If you have never had a boyfriend than once you get one then you will feel different and not such a lesbian and if you have had a boyfriend i am not sure what to tell you. Either envy or you just don't like guys. You don't always feel envy it just happens.
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My friend and i aren't in any classes together and i don't like her much anymore but she still thinks that we are best friends!!!!!!!! What do i do??????????????? (link)
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Talk to her and tell her how you feel and that you can be friends just not bffs. if she understands then that is good if not it isn't worth the trouble. I hope that helped
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How much does it cost to get your hair relaxed? My friend was just telling me about it and that sounds like what i need!!
If getting your hair relaxed is totally unreasonable could you give me some good products (shampos, etc)!!
These are what I have already tried:
Pantene Pro-v Silky and Smooth
Frizzease heat activated
Garnier Fructise
Brilliant Brunette
Nothing seems to work!! My hair is curly and pretty when it's wet, but when it dries it gets frizzy and looses the curlyness. Then it's like wavy and poofy. I like my hair when it's wet! i've tried using curl enhancing products, but my hair is still always frizzy. I even tried that smoothing milk from garnier fructis and it STILL didn't help!! Suggestions anyone?? (link)
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I got the silky, sexy hair shampoo and conditioner and it is in salons and only in salons and it comes with this thing that makes your hair not so dry and frizzy and it really really really X infinity works. I love it and people are always complimenting on my hair. You should try
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Hey..I need some more hairstyles guys..i dont know how to do scrunching and double braids so if someone wants to tell me that would be great!
or IM me on ktsue050 (link)
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I don't know how to do either but i look at magazines and cut out hairstyling tips and then i have no idea what i am doing and i can do them so they aren't hard. They show you how to do really pretty hairstyle. Rate me please.
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okay i gots a boyfriend I got 4 days ago. We kissed on new years eve and that was my first kiss ever but i felt nothing. No spark or anything. I find myself wishing hed break up with me sometimes. I dont know why though its like I stopped liking him. There is just no chemistry. Please tell me what I should do
Ill rate high
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If you don't like him then tell him how you feel and he will probably understand. If not than he isn't worth it. If you like him then tell him you would like to know more about him. Hope that helps if not email me at gossipgirl_2882@hotmail.com
if so still email me because i like to know what i am doing right/wrong.
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My boyfriend has had dreams about us having sex lately. of course I'm not ready for that. I have to get on the pill first but I don't know if I really want to do it. He wants me to come over to his house. Yeah his room can be locked and well, it's kinda isolated from his house...and he's usually alone. We've been going out for almost a year. I'm just...afraid. He wants to make out with me in my underwear. What should I tell him or do? (link)
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If you aren't ready just tell him and if you are but don't want to go too fast just let him know. It is better to keep yourself comfortable then do something just for your boyfriend. Take it slow and do what you feel comfortable with. Tell him how you feel and hope it works out for the best. Rate me please.
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So i spent the night at my friends house.
Her brother and I were watching a movie.
He got up to get something to drink.
I put my feet on the sofa,then he came back he didnt move my feet instead he grabed a pillow and layed on me.
Then later on her grabed my hands.
Awhile after that,i was on him.
As in he was siting down,and my legs were over his.
He out his face on mine.
As if,he wanted me to kiss him.
But i just huged him.
Later after everyone fell alseep,he kissed my on my forehead.
We talked a bit,then he stole my pillow.
So i was forced to get up and sit on the floor and take my pillow back.
He didnt let me have it back,so instead i layed down with him.
He held my hand,kissed are hands.
And kissed me couple more times on my forehead.
Then fell alseep.
Next day,It was like nothing happened.
Im confused,i mean did he just want someone to lay on and hold hands?
Please,dont delete.
Im not sure,what to think.
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I think that if your friend doesn't know or that his parents don't know then he is just hiding it from them. Or maybe he thought that you didn't like it and now he just is pretending that that stuff didn't happen. But i think he still likes you, I doubt that he just wanted someone to hold hands and lay on. Does your friend know? Is he older or younger than you. Just leave comment when you rate and please rate high i am just trying to help. Thanx
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I was wondering
if you want to have a baby, like when ur old like 25 and stuff, do you not wear a condom?
i was always wondering
and does sex hurt for the first time??
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i am have never had it and i won't for a long time but in human growth and development our teacher said that it doesn't hurt at all. You just don't wear the condom if you want a baby but you won't get a baby for sure. I don't know much about this stuff and i only know b/c of human growth and development. So don't be surprised if you hear different answers but i think i am right. Please rate me high i am trying my hardest to help. Thanx. How old are you??????????????????????????????
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my mom beats me up all the time...she has problems with my dad and takes them out on me!!..when im sleeping sometimesi see her put her hands round my throat and try to choce me ..i love her so i dont want her to go to jail...what do i do?? (link)
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well my friend's cousin had that problem but she won't go to jail if you just tell your friends parent or something because ask them if they can find a cure and most likey she will have to go to theropy and by the time she out she will thank you and maybe apologize. hey, it's worth and shot and please rate me on this. I hope you get help because this is serious.
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Ok well me and my boyfriend just started going out and he smokes but I dont. We havnt kissed (meaning made out) yet and I was just wondering if when I kiss him will it taste like cigarette? And also could I get any type of cancer just from him kissing me? Ill give a 5 to anyone who doesnt make fun! THANKS! x♥x (link)
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You won't taste cigarette but you might taste smoke. Even if you don't smoke most girls say it actually taste.................GREAT!!!!!!! You cannot get cancer from kissing a smoker but the only reason people say not to kiss a smoker is because smoking is gross. But not harm will come to you from kissing him but try to avoid second had smoke!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I have two cats that have been raised together since they were kittens. One cat is a grey tabby and the other is a black tortise shell cat. The past few days I've noticed that the female cat is in heat. She rubs against everything, thrusts her rear into the air, and howls loudly. My male cat however, seems uninterested. I'd really like them to have babies. Is something wrong with my male cat? Is this normal? (link)
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Yes it is normal and maybe i will email you if they do have kittens if you sell any.
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ok i was just wondering is it a safe bet that someone is not a preditor if u have seen them on their webcam or what cause i really lik this guy who really likes me and ive never met him face to face. ive seen tons of pics of him and him on his webcam and hes 16. i would talk to the computer teacher at school or something, but i wont see him intil winter break is over. thanx i rate high (link)
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Well I know that this isn't much help but it is a hard call. This happened to me the other day and it had never happened to me before but I just told him to get lost (that i would not suggest saying) but you can never trust someone online. No matter how sweet they sound. One of my friend's cousin's friend's sisters died that way because they were talking online with this hot guy then they met in a cafe and he took her for a drive to get some "dessert" and her body was found in a forest. She said it wouldn't happen and he seemed nice but you can't trust someone that you have never met.
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ok so today my freind showed up i school with this gorgeous sweater on... however it was sooooo tight on her... it looked bad on her and she looked liek a slu*. (sry) and so like she wears a cami under it(it was a v-neck) but the v nexk litterally comes around her breasts. and it makes her boobs look huge. she gets medium adn not to be rude but she's fat and I get smalls and im pretty skinny. she always dresses like this and i hear people talking about it. how can i tell her she is dressing inapropriately? she's my BF and i want her to be known as lovely. (link)
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Well i suggest you tell her what people are saying or try to convice her to wear something else. It won't hurt her feeling anymore than if she found out that you were keeping a secret from her or if she heard what people said. She might be happy that you stopped her from embarassment!!!!!!!!!
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Heyy. I have tons of friends at school, I know practically everyone, and that is a ton of kids, 4 grades. (Highschool) In school people always talk to me, ask me to hangout and such, etc. But then we get to Winter Break, and I am bored out of my mind. All Thanksgiving break I called ppl to hang out, and my mom would have to drive because I had invited them. (Only a Sophmore) Anyway, I'm tired of inviting people. I want to be pursued, hah. If so many ppl ask me to hangout in school, why don't they take the time to call me? Why do I have to call everyone first? It annoys me so much, I just gaaah can't stand it. Maybe help me figure out a way to make this stop happening to me. Thanks. (link)
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Maybe when you are in school when ppl ask you to hang out (if that they like you a lot) then you say maybe. Then tell them to call you at your house after school. If they call then they will probably call more. If they don't call at all then you might want to ask them why they didn't call you and just stick to invitations at school. Please rate me and email me if you like or dislike my advice. I can't get better unless i know what i am doing wrong!!!!!!!!!!!
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Most people think I am slow and I dont know much less, understand why. How do you know if their telling the truth or big fat liars (just to make you feel bad)? (link)
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What do you mean by slow. running, brains. If it is running if you are behind them yes if you are in front of them no. Brains..............that is a hard one. Well if you have b's and a's then no if you have below that then yes. But right off the bat if you can figure something out i wouldn't know because i don't know you!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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ok,my delema is split ends. First off im not sure i i even have them. My sister (18 years old) told me that new hair strands grow and they are shorter than the rest of your hair,therefor thats what i have,is this statment true?My hair is layerd so its hard to tell wich is a split end or not.i have been using the straightener for a while,but my hair hass always looked so healthy. Do you have any tips on identifying a split end?My hair is not actually split and the end of my hair,but in the middle,can they split in the middle of your hair,or is my sister's statement true?i will rate to what i think is appropriet. (link)
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Well i have a hairstyling book or truth and myth and actually split ends don't grow everyday. you see If you can't notice them it is fine but when they get worse about 1 every month go get a haircut (just a trim) and that will even them out enough until the next haircut you get!!!!!!!!
Email me to tell me how my advice was at gossipgirl_2882@hotmail.com
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Do fonts at Dafont.com cost any money? Please help. (link)
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I went there last night because i saw the website on this site so i went and got a ton of emails. Believe me they are 100% free. Remember the best things in life are free!!!!!!! Rate me please and email me at gossipgirl_2882@hotmail.com if you like or dislike your advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Any idea how to get rid of a little unwanted body fat in the stomach? I've tried crunches and everything but no results. Anything would be helpful. NOT pills though. (link)
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I am not fat and i am not saying you are at all but i had a little extra weight and got rid of it because of a book. It had just daily excercises and eating habits. Not like a diet you could eat anything that you wanted but it should you what good meals are and they had like everything i liked in one meal and i lost weight by excercising and cutting down on sweets :( but it is so worth it because now i look good in a belly shirt!!!!!!!! If you like your advice or think i need to improve email me at gossipgirl_2882@hotmail.com to tell me what you liked and didn't like because it is the only way to get better!!!!!!!!!!!!! Please rate me!!!!!!!!!!!!
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13/m. I'm sorry if this is kind of long. you see, I have this sort-of friend: she's in all of my classes except for one, so we talk a lot. She makes fun of me sometimes, but I really don't think she means it, because things are regular again by next period. I kind of like her, but not really. And the acts as though she likes me sometimes. But, I really don't want anything to happen between us, since I've already made my New Year's resolution to get this one particular girl to like me.
So anyway, that girl, let's call her Jane, her mom died two weeks ago. I've never had to sit through a death before---I'm lucky enough that nobody in my family has ever died. And the only time anyone's parent has died other than Jane's is in 2nd grade, when I couldn't really grasp the meaning of death.
In all our classes two weeks ago, we were just talking about death and stuff. It was really depressing. In one class, things got so deep that half the class was crying. I myself was in tears, as I nearly am recalling this. But not because I knew and missed Jane's mother. Not because it reminded me of a dead relative that I had. Because I could finally grasp the meaning of death.
So, everyone's really depressed now, and she got to miss school two weeks ago the whole week---I would want to, if my parents had died. She's coming back on Tuesday, when vacation ends. One Thursday and Friday, all her teachers---which meant all my teachers except for one---received e-mails from her dad saying that we shouldn't talk about this "event" unless Jane brings it up first. But me, I'm a really shy person, and not having experience with anything like this, I'm probably gonna feel really awkward talking to her. I won't know what to say. I'm sure of it, it happens to me all the time. Whenever something goes wrong with anybody, I never know what to say. I don't really want to say anything like "we're right behind you" or "we got your back", because however true it may be, it may or may not give the impression that I like her.
So, I guess the whole point I'm trying to make here is that I'd feel awkward talking to her. I could've just said "i have a sort of frend whos mom died what to i do" but I feel that I can get a more personal answer if you have some background information. I will probably rate you. Smartasses get reported. Thank you, school starts again on Tuesday!!! (link)
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You are lucky to not have anyone in your family die. If you like her as a friend or more then a friend either way you should still say something sweet. I think that you should tell her you are supporting her she will most likely like that. I am a girl and when my grandpa died i had a friend just like you and he said that and i felt better about everything like everyone really was supporting me and that is very important. Come up with maybe something else to say but unless she has a real big sense of humor then don't try to cheer her up with jokes or stories. She just needs time. Hope that helped if so or if not email me at gossipgirl_2882@hotmail.com so i know what i am doing right or am really good at!!!!!!
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