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Hey my name is Caitlin I'm 14 and i love giving advice! I'm gunna be a freshman@ Bristol Plymouth
I LOVE: My boyfriend Dylanger♥ // my bestest friends♥// Fall Out Boy♥//Relient K♥// hanging with my friends♥// eating♥// cookies♥// talking on the phone♥// chatting online♥// taking pix♥// writing in my journal♥// swimming♥// the beach♥// music♥// taking walks♥// dunkies (dunkin donuts)♥// mountain dew♥// bike rides♥// going on adventures in the woods ♥//sneaking out♥// streaking♥// sleeping♥// singing♥// drawing♥// skating♥// cheering♥// shopping♥// money(which i never have!)♥// hot topic♥// tinkerbell♥// cartoons♥// t.v.♥// bologna and cheese!♥// DC shoes♥// PacSun♥// clothes♥// shoes♥// baking♥// candy♥// steak and cheese!♥// the Country Side♥// dancing in the rain♥// movies♥// ON DEMAND♥// downloading music♥// burning CD's♥// painting♥// kissing my boyfriend♥// making smoothies wid my bestest friend in the whole wide world... Brittny!♥// dirtbikes and quads.... wish i had one! :(♥// fireworks♥// the 4th of July♥// Halloween♥// ice cream♥// making stuff♥// doing hair and make-up♥// getting all dolled up for nothing♥// making fires♥// goin to the mall and the movies♥// roller coasters!♥// cotton candy♥// cook outs♥// summertime♥// snow♥// Hampton Beach♥// Henna tatoos♥// pizza♥// piercings♥// Target!♥// concerts♥// being me!♥// going crazy♥// snow boarding♥// skate boarding even tho i suck♥// parties♥// and a lot more♥//

I can relate to a lot of people and i know about a lot of different things ask me what ever you want and i can try and answer you the best i can!
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For some reason my vagina burns when I urine, and sometimes it starts to itch and burn. Could it be allergic to my pads or tampons, please help asap

Maybe or you could have a urinary track infection you might wanna go see a doctor...need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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my fiend thinks shes ugly and i say shes gorgeous..i try to convince her thats shes wicked gorgeous and thatas the truth and she still thinks shes ugly!can you tell me what to say and do to make her think shes gorgeous!!


i heard you were a osm columist so hope you can help

thank you:-)

Awww really?!?! sweet! but yea.. that's kinda how my friend is too she thinks she's ugly but she's wicked pretty and i tell her that she is all the time...but what i think you should do is ask guys there oppinions about her and when she hears/knows guys think she's pretty then it will eventually get through to her that she really is pretty...like my friend she knows she's pretty but she still says she's ugly just because a few stupid ppl sed she was...you know but just try n get guys to tell her she's pretty then she'll be convinced that she really is! well hun hope i helped tell me how things work out! need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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okay first off im sorry this is long... okay im 13 and i have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years.. i know thats long lol.. anyways .. this year we're going to be going to dif. schools.. he'll be in middle school and ill be in highschool.. hes in 6th im in 7th...well .. i love him more then i could explain. but my boyfriend.. eric thinks ill find someone else at the highschool... i know it could happen.. but it wont because i love him.. and hey who knows he might meet someone else.. and im just so worried things wont work out for us.. what do u think i should do..? i rate all 5's !!! THANKS!

HOLY SHIT!!!!!!!! ok my bf is in 8th grade and i'm in 9th well goin into and i'm goin to a different skool oviously because i'm goin into high skool and he is worried i'm gunna meet some one new too which like you said i said to my bf that i wouldnt because i love him so0o0o much and we've been together for almost 2 yrs..! that's so weird lol! but any ways...lol just keep reasuring him that your not going to meet any one new and that you love him and you wouldnt do that to him and make it work don't just give up because things arnt going smooth i know things will prolly get a lil bumpy for you guys but i'm sure you'll be fine and make everything work out! hope i helped need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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Alright, my friend (literally) is too afraid to post this so I'm doing it for her. She said her boyfriend has fingered her about a week ago and her period had ended a day before that. She said two days ago when she was going to the bathroom she noticed she was bleeding a little on the toilet paper. Then yesterday she said when she was going to the bathroom it stung a little. She also said she doesn't want anyone to know about what happened between her and her boyfriend so she wants to know if a genecologist can tell. Any advice for my friend guys?

No they can't tell if you've been fingered but they can if your no longer a virgin, but i don't think anything that goes on in the genecologists office leaves it because it's confidential so yea... she doesn't have anything to worry about... hope i helped need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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My best friend probably has the worst life i could imagine. Her home life is a wreck, her mother constantly yells and screams and blames her for her family problems. She can't even spend an entire day in her house without getting blamed and screamed at. Her mom has this "disease" which i personally think is just a scapegoat, considering her mom just sits on the couch all day, smokes, watchews tv, and eats. She dosn't work or anything, and when my best friend comes home, she just harrasses her. Caling her a slut, a cunt, bitch, anything.

Her younger brother gets everything he wants, and i hate to tell her this, but he sells drugs, hangs out with the worst crowd ever, and yet her family idolizes it. the only two that ever notice his bad habbits are her and i, her family thinks he's just a fine kid. and they spoil him to death.

her house is aweful, her father always works and it's just a disaster. her mom never cleans up, her brother makes messes and my best friend is left to cope with it. it's no wonder why she's always leaving and getting outof the house .. she's basically lives at my house.

last week her mother beat her (her mom was drunk) and she kicked her out of her house. she drove over to my house, and stayed the night. the next day cops were here saying that she stole her car and had to return home. my mother and her have talked and my mom really wishes to have her live with us, her home life is just aweful. but her parents won't allow it.

so much more happens to her that i just can't sum up in this. i feel aweful and don't know what to do for her. no one takes her seriously and im afraid one day she's going to snap. she's the nicest, most prettiuest person i know, and no one would ever expect her to have this life. i;m scared one day it's all going to end, she's going to go down the wrong path or take her life. idk what to do for her. she needs to get out of that house. help her.

Well you should deffinately tell some one about this...call DSS if she is being beaten and ppl can come and take her away from her parents or you can call the police and notify them of this. This is a very serious situation and you really need to tell an authoritive figure...if she gets taken away from her home and put into foster care your parents can take her in and she could be your foster sister/their foster child...that would be very good for her. well i hope i helped and good luck with everything hope everything goes good! need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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But one of my really good guy friends birthday is coming up on the 31st. I was just wondering what I could get him. Any Ideas? I'm totally clueless. Ill rate!!

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You could get him a CD he wants or a hat if he's into that, clothes, belt buckle, guy stuff! you know...well hope i helped need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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I think I'm scaring my crush... she's not showing any signs, but that's just so far. I mean, first, I told her how much I love her. Then, I asked her to the fair. Then, I wrote a song about her, and anyone who knows me knows that I can't write songs for my life! I think maybe soon she'll get scared off, but these things are just bugging me, and I feel like I'll keep thinking about her until I do something for her. Please help!

Awww that's so cute! i would love if a guy did that for me well if my boyfriend did lol but i'm sure your not scaring her off she oviously knows you have feelings for her! but yea... just don't like over do it you know wat i'm saying! talk to her and see how she feels about you then maybe use could have something! well good luck tell me how things work out! hope i helped need anythin ask*

Caitlin♥

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I know people who have been playing the "choking game." Not by themselves though, I know you can die easily that way. What they do is kneel down, and put their head on the ground and take deep breaths. They get up, take a deep breath and hold it, then a friend puts their arm around their neck and chokes until they pass out. Is this really all that dangerous? I've read that people have been doing this since the 1980's, and the only reason its a big deal now is because kids are doing it by themselves and arent letting go of the choke before they pass out. If a friend is doing it and knows when to let go, is it dangerous?

Yea it is and i mean wats so fun about getting choked and passing out duznt sound to exciting to me! but yea... i read a bunch of articles about kids dying from that...so yea it is dangerous! hope i helped need anything ask*


Caitlin♥

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Okay, this is my third day using tampons and their great. But last night I found out I just stopped and it was my second day. It was the same with today. I'm like 99% sure that I took every tampon out. I came to a close encounter with almost forgetting one, but I didn't. That was only the first time that happened. Now today I have pains right where the tampon would be, and I checked down there and saw nothing. I need help right away. Thanks.

you prolly just have cramps or your prolly just not use to using tampons so its making you sore dont worry to much! need anything ask*


Caitlin♥

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1)what are the three bases?
2)what is giving head?

The three bases are
1st-kissing/making out
2nd-touchy feely/fingering/handjob
3rd-head/eating out

head is when you suck a guys dick! plain and simple! need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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ok i just got a myspace and i was wondering where i can get kool layouts for it. and also where do you put the layout code??
i rate

www.createblog.com has some cute myspace pre-made layouts! need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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Hi everyone,
I'm 15/f and I'm going into 9th grade this year. I was wondering what I should shop for when I go clothes shopping. I'm so used to wearing spaghetti-strapped shirts with jeans since I wore stuff like that over the summer. It's just that spaghetti-strapped shirts aren't allowed to be worn unless a hoodie or zip-up jacket or something is worn over it. I don't wanna have to wear a lot of hoodies this year, because I wore them a lot during 7th and 8th grade. If anyone can, please let me know what stores sell cute long sleeve shirts that would look good with jeans. You can also let me know what stores sell cute short sleeve shirts. I usually shop in the mall like at Deb, Aeropostale, and G&G. I also like to go to Kohl's a lot. I don't want shirts that are going to be really expensive. If you can, please help me out. Does anyone know where they sell some cute purses right now also? I really need a new one! Thank you so much! I really appreciate it. :-)

I love Kohl's they're awesome they have tons of purses there too! i also like Target they have cut inexspensive clothes there and cute purses! my new skool doesn't alow any of that either unless you have a zip up or w/e but yea...Old Navy has cute clothes too...hope i helped and just curious where do you live and wat H.S. you going to because i'm almost 15 and i'm goin into 9th grade too....well need anything ask*


Caitlin♥

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your boyfriend goes away for 2 1/2 months and cheats on you with 3 other people ... what would you do if you where 5 hours away from each other that long and you found out?

I'd dump his sorry ass! you should be able to trust your boyfriend when he goes away places but i guess you oviously can't so i would just end it because if he did it once but with 3 ppl he's bound to do it again! hope i helped need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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ok so me and my ex girlfriend broke up over a month ago now, but i still like her a lot, and i kno she likes me to, but shes said she wants to wait until 2 weeks into school before decide if she wants to get back together, but she also said if she misses me she will come back after the 2 weeks. i still talk to her everynight on either AIM or phone, and i think im just ruining my chances....should i stop talking to her or should i ruin my chance and just continue wat im doing?

plz help

-anonymous

Continue talking to her becuz if you stop then she will think that you don't like her anymore you get wat i'm saying?!? just keep talking to her and wait till she makes up her mind! hope i helped need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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how do you make-out with a guy? i have never done it before and most of my friends have and im going into 8th grade..so idk if it will happen or not but i should be ready. and..what do guys like? thanks.

Well there's really no wrong way to make-out or french kiss w/e! just go for it when you french kiss its different from making out french kiss is just using your tongue its not hard so don't worry about it...then making out is like for a while french kissing but also being all touchy feely its not complicated! and just cuz your goin into 8th grade and you havnt kissed or made-out wid a boy yet don't mean any thing so good luck and hope i helped if you need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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heyy i was the girl who asked about how my friends bf was flirting with me and stuff.. he hasnt said anything lately.. should i still tell my friend about it? or just keep it quiet and wait to see if he keeps doing it... thank s

Well just notify your friend about it and keep her posted so if he duz it again you can tell her and she can beat his ass! jk lol but yea so she can talk to him and see wats goin on! need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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OK this is VERY graphic so im sorry :'(
ok today i gave my bf a handjob but it was on top of his pants. I did this 4 times. He told me he had blue balls. What went wrong and i didn't mean to do it. Did i overwork him? whats going on?it was four times! PLEASE DONT DELETE I REALLY NEED HELP!! :( I'll rate all answers 5s except for dumb ones..THANKS!

Maybe from his pants and boxers or w/e rubbing against his dick nd sack mighta made them sore or caused him to get blue balls i prefer to go in the pants its easier maybe after his dick stops hurting you can try doing that...o0o0o yea and i'm being 100% serious to not being mean! well i hope i helped and hope your bf's dick feels better.... need anything ask*


Caitlin♥

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Well I wrote this, not really a poem, just kind of a one of those little writings.. will you tell me what you think of it so far... maybe some help on it, or wordings that would sound better?

After spending hours on end perfecting every detail about herself, she heard the doorbell ring. Her heart races to see him. This was the moment she had been waiting for, for so very long now.She lopes quickly to the front door and swiftly swings it open to see her love. Her heart sinks inside of her chest in her overwhelmed body and her beathing has stopped as if her heart would have. He looks amazing, more amazing than ever before. Not a word comes out of either of their mouths, both stand there completely speechless, both infatuated by their prescences's beauty...

That's madd cute and good hun! keep adding on just check some of the spelling! when your finished make sure you send me it so i can read it k! need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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sorry this is so long

(15/f)

alright well I like this guy but he's known to just get w/ girls for sex and I know that that's true w/ some of the girls he's been with but not all of them.. I like him a lot and I always think about him and like he's one of the only guys I love to hang out with that I like... if that makes any sense... and well he was smoking in front of me and I was like THATS DISGUSTING and he was like ... well then I'll stop, just for u.. and well when ever we hang out he always like rubs my back and is really flirty and when I was drunk he helped me around (not taking advantage of me in any way) bc I couldnt walk very well and he like made sure i was ok and stuff and then the next day he asked how i felt and made sure i was ok... and well he told my brother that hes liked me since the 7th grade and he normally doesnt like girls for that long, he just fucks them and leaves them and hes always like.. i love hangin out w/ ur so awesome and its a lot of fun, and now i cant keep my mind off him and i hate being away from him...... ok well should i take a chance with him if he likes me? or just let it go?




once again... im so sorry its long..

It's ok it's not even that long but any ways... well try it out see what he's all about but if he's just about the sex then if i were you i wouldnt go for it but if he really likes then yea sweet go u stay wid him! lol well hope i helped you tell me how things work out k hun need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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I was just talking to my boyfriend about how he makes me feel; wonderful, amazing, incredible, and how I wanted to make him feel that way too. Well, I got something I totally didn't expect. He told me sometimes I make him feel unwanted. I never knew this. My heart is in my stomach. I'm getting chills every other second. What do I do? How can I make him feel more wanted?

Just talk to him preferabley in person and hang out snuggle and just hold him tigh and tell him you love him (but only if you really mean it) and just tell him what he means to you! cute stuff like that so he knows that you care about him and that he is wanted by you! well hope i helped if you need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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