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E-mail: Sicilyslilchris@hotmail.com
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Age: 15
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hey i have these new black adn pink sneakers theyre mainly black but i was jus wonderin wut could i wear wit it cuz like i personally think it looks weird if im wearing shorts with it or a skirt with it i feel like i should b wearing pants with it all the tym... wut do u guys think? (link)
well...those are things u should concider before buying them....


well my friend went out with this kid for 1 day, but then they broke up cuz they lived too far away from eachother. now i like him and i live the same distance and i dont know if its right to like him....? help please...!?! (link)
how about you talk to your friend so you dont back stabb her


ive liked this one guy for awhile now.. and hes always telling people he hates me and stuff and when i ask him about it he says it isnt true. the other day i told him to be honest.. and if he didnt like me as a friend to just tell me so ill be better off.. but he told me he still likes me n stuff .. i was thinking he might just be saying it to get me to be on His Side of this fight thats going on but im not sure. During the school year he liked me but was embarassed to ask me out b/c of what his friends would say. is that maybe why he tells people he hates me but tells me he doesnt? im so confused! (link)
if hes being two faced like that and isnt proud to talk to you or is embarssed to be accoiated with you than hes a dick..thats really immature and he needs to grow up and stop acting like it matters what people think


how do you keep your clothes from shrinking.. like jeans and shirts!! please help (link)
umm let them air dry......how old are you?


I do gymnastics and there is this really mean and stupid girl there,I hate her.My friends at gymnastics always hang out with her, but what they dont know is that this girl always talks about them really bad behind there backs. I try to tell them but they just say I am being a *icth and that I just want them to hang out with me and with no one else.This girl is starting to get on my nerves and ruin a great friendship. Sombody pppllleeeaaaaasssseeee help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

xXask_me_anythingXx (link)
why dont you jsut go up to the girl and see what her deal is and why shes talkign about them behind there backs.....put her on the spot and make her seem foolish


Ok, well i have this friend who always tells rumers about me! i hate it and i always tell her how i feel, but everytime i tell her she goes and tells another rumer! what should i do?! help me please!
signed.
Losing a friend? (link)
slap the bitch


okay... i need to read another book for high school. it's my first year (i'm a freshman) and i'm enrolled in CP Humanities... i've already read my first book and i've completed my journal entry that we needed to do for it... i'm supposed to read another book. it has to be a novel and more than 150 pages long i'd actually prefer it to be 200 or more pages long does anyone have a good suggestion on a book??? no harry potter books... i hate them and it HAS to be a NOVEL any suggestions?? i start on the 5th... i think i can read a 300 page book in 2 days so just give me ANYTHING to read! i need good suggestions! (link)
theres a book call pop princess...its really good even tho the name sounds mad gayy


Well their is this guy that I have know since I was like 6 or older. we have always seen each other and I have always had a crush on him. he is like 20 turning 21 in feburary. I am only like 15 turning 16 in october. Is it bad for having a crush or like maybe a thing wit him even if he is a lil older then me? I like him so much but I don't know if my parents would like that he is older and I am so young for him. When we see each other too. we have so much stuff to talk about together and we are happy when we see each other and It hurts me when other girls hurt him. I don't want to do. well thank you Jenny,16,female (link)
If your comfortable being around him than idk why not....but being the age difference its gonna be hard to have a relationship because your in high school now and hes in collage so thats somthing you have to concider


ok well my so called best friends all hate me now and i feel like tha world has turned its bak and everythang and cant trust en1 cept my bf and he has really helped me alot wit all thi sand he trusly is tha only 1 i can talk to enmore and my bff r gettin more mad bekuz im alwayz talkin 2 him or with him but thats only kuz hes really tha only 1 there 4 me enmore wut should i do?? kuz ive tried talkin and ive ever sed i wuld sacfice luv 2 save our friendship they wont let me and everythang but nuttin is workin wut should i do??????
-Lost..Confused..Sad- (link)
maybe you should tkae a break from your bf because your girl friends are the ones who are always gonna be there for you....its not right to let a guy interfear with a friendship between 2 girls


so basically i lost about 45 pounds since april and ive worked really hard and stuff so i am proud of myself because i am FINALLY comfortable with myself and my body..... but ive always had a ton of guy friends and now that im in the 125 lbs catagory (im 5'8 btw) a lot of my girl friends have been making me borrow their clothes cuz nothing i have fits anymore and im waiting to go back to school shopping, so my friends are letting me borrow their clothes... Well about a week ago my friends decide to make me actually dress up.. so they have me wear all their little abercrombie stuff and i kinda knew i looked like a slut but i was sorta happy because atleast i looked like a pretty slut... We ended up meeting with all our guy friends and they were shocked because i hadn't seen them since late may. They were just like oh my god you look hott... and really i am not used to that kind of attention... like im always the person to crack the jokes or do the crazy stunts but not the one all the guys are like heyyyy... Everyones been telling me I should keep this look up and i do feel good in the clothes just the response isn't exactly what i want... (link)
who cares what everyone else is wearing or wanting you to wear...its your body and how ever your comfortable should matter...what kind of a response are you looking for?


hi. my name is nicole n im 14. ok so heres the thing. i am like in lve with this kid named robert. like in love in love n ok i dont think i will ever have a chance with this kid cuz likehe is in love with this girl even tho he seys he isnt. so like i think i kinda gave up on him n started lik in this kid chris. which is horrible cuz like my best fuckin friend likes him. i have no idea wat to do cuz like i dont have a chance with either of them n i dont wna get my heart broken again.... (cough lke alan n ian)
HELP lol (link)
your 14 are you sure its love and not like a crush....jsut dont attach yourself to anyone go out and have fun and see if you find anyone that you like rather than someone who will get between you and your friend...maybe your friend will stop liking him in like a week or somthing you never know


Anyone have any ideas on how to throw a party when your parents arent home, and what can we do? and not get caught And have fun!? i rate!!

-Andrea (link)
to not get caught dont advertis it so much that somone who doesnt like you can rat you out to the cops....tell a few of ur friends that u want to ahve people over and they can bring some people....and what to do depends on how old you are..if ur like 12 that i wouldnt suggest drinking but if your like 13 and older than w.e....get some cds to play when people first get tehre and than once poeple show up things jsut flow from there


ok im a 14 year old boy and liked by alot of peeps. (girls 2) but everytime i try 2 get close to a girl i mess up and say stupid things and they think im a jerk wat should i do?????? (link)
think before you speak and think before you do things


Well you see me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a month now and we weren't aloud to kiss. I finally found out I was aloud to kiss and I told him. He keeps talking about making-out next time I see him but I don't want to rush into things. I have a feeling its because his brother keeps telling him to kiss me and things like that and he wants to be like his brother and make-out with his girlfriend all the time. I don't know what to do, please write, I'll rate!

-Nerveous (link)
tell him that you dont want to rush into making out...if you guys are just alouid to kiss now you dont want to abuse the privlidge and take advantage of it..the more you do it the more your gonna get tired of doing it and want to try new things..


Hi im a 16 yr old girl and im really shy n innocent as in not evn ever kissed a guy before so i have a hard time having a b/f cuz i dump them right away n lose interest very fast...But then i started talking to this kid down the street named Zack...and hes really cute and adorable n i can make him laugh n all...n he would always come over to me or turn around n ignore his girlfriend to talk to me...Even one time his girlfriend was leaving for a week and one her last day before leaving he came ovr n talked to me and didnt even say bye to his girlfriend...I really like him now and before school let out my friend asked him if he liked me n hes said " i do have some feelings for her but idk" and i dont know wut that means...does he like me or not? he also said " shes the kinda girl that it would be hard to be more than friends with " n my friend told him it was worth a shot n he said " yeah maybe it is" and when ever i call him we talk for like an hour n a half...n i wanna know if im getting my hopes up or if he really likes me cuz im mortified of rejection...and it would be so easy if we went out..he lives within walking distance...sometimes me n my friends go to his window in the middle of the night n wake him up n talk to him...And when i think about it..i wouldnt be be so shy around him...i wanna kiss him!!! but i dont want to get hurt n confront him about it cuz then id feel dumb...so should i take a chance on this kid?? (link)
deffintly take the chance....maybe hes scared to..you should be liek firty wiht him but still be yourself..but whats the worse that can happen?


ok ive been getting all these achs in my neck and legs all the time, and i dont know how, i do play sports but they arent from that. can anyone tell me whats wrong? thanks
*marielle* (link)
growing pains...stresss...do you stretch any time during the day because maybe your muscles are just tight


i'm having a definete dilemma! i go to an all girls school, so makeup isn't a big deal. in the grade i'm going into, people wear makeup more, and i love wearing makeup, but just... don't. not regularly, at least. how can i start wearing make up without it being obvious??? and also, you know when u see celebs and they aren't wearin makeup, and they look wierd... almost like sickly, just cuz you're used to seeing them with makeup.... well i don't want that to happen to me!!! if i don't feel like putting on my makeup, i don't want it to be obvious! any way to wear makeup subtley, but not pointlessly???? (by pointlessly, i mean like if i looked the same as before, it would be stupid to even wear makeup) (link)
just like eyeliner and mascara and maybe lip gloss


i didnt know what category to pick , but i had got braces 3 days ago , and my teeth hurt so bad , i called my doctor and he wont b in t'll monday . can neone help me with some tips to releive the pain . it would b a big help . thankk you soo much!! i'll rate u a 5 , nethng will help riyte now (link)
take advil or tylynol..try not to like grind ur teeth together and try not to eat anything hard


How can i get a job baby sitting? i already am sertified by the red cross im 12 and i love kids and i need money!! (link)
post a ad in the newspaper or have ur family and friends ask around if there is anyone who needs any help


how can u tell someone u love then and atleast try to have them understand how much u feel and u need to be with them...i mean i kno u cant make someone fall inlove with you..but i really love him and i want to be with him... (link)
try to talk to him in person seriously because i know were your coming from and ive tryed to talk to this kid about ti online and on the phone and it sjtu doesnt get the piont across...if you show him in persont aht its really serious and you really care enought ot lak to him about it in person than he should repect that....what do you have to loose...ither to be courages and tell him how you feel straight out and get a good response or you dont do anything about it and it gets you know were




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