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So wut do i do??...do i take a chance?


Question Posted Saturday August 7 2004, 6:09 pm

Hi im a 16 yr old girl and im really shy n innocent as in not evn ever kissed a guy before so i have a hard time having a b/f cuz i dump them right away n lose interest very fast...But then i started talking to this kid down the street named Zack...and hes really cute and adorable n i can make him laugh n all...n he would always come over to me or turn around n ignore his girlfriend to talk to me...Even one time his girlfriend was leaving for a week and one her last day before leaving he came ovr n talked to me and didnt even say bye to his girlfriend...I really like him now and before school let out my friend asked him if he liked me n hes said " i do have some feelings for her but idk" and i dont know wut that means...does he like me or not? he also said " shes the kinda girl that it would be hard to be more than friends with " n my friend told him it was worth a shot n he said " yeah maybe it is" and when ever i call him we talk for like an hour n a half...n i wanna know if im getting my hopes up or if he really likes me cuz im mortified of rejection...and it would be so easy if we went out..he lives within walking distance...sometimes me n my friends go to his window in the middle of the night n wake him up n talk to him...And when i think about it..i wouldnt be be so shy around him...i wanna kiss him!!! but i dont want to get hurt n confront him about it cuz then id feel dumb...so should i take a chance on this kid??

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Additional info, added Saturday August 7 2004, 8:49 pm:
He broke up with his girlfriend too...cuz all he would do is comlain about her ...she wouldnt even talk ot him barely n they never hung out and im the total oposite of her and im really pale n he like tells me things like he likes real light girls rhather than tan ones... and we flirt all the time we joke around n say were gonna makeout n get married n have 3 kids....and when ever i flirt with him hes like oo thats kinky....and in school he would always stand real close to me n look right into m eyes....and if he saw me at the end of the day hed walk the the opposiye way that he would usually take to walk with me to his bus so idk..should i take the chance?.

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Mammie answered Saturday August 7 2004, 8:43 pm:
Just kiss him that will tell him how u really feel and then hell know that ur serious; and uve never kissed neone before... so just lean in close while ure talking to him and keep talking till u get up to his face and look into his eyes while ure talking and make sure hes looking at nothing but ur eyes and then, shut urs and kiss him! I bet u that will work, hope it turns out great for yah!

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LilMia811 answered Saturday August 7 2004, 8:36 pm:
well the guy is single and it seems like he likes you... why dont you tell him how you feel... you're not gonan get anywhere by having your friends talk to him. plus that tends to turn a guy off when a girl cant do something for her self...so just go for it.

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Dont_Fall_Twice answered Saturday August 7 2004, 7:36 pm:
Well, If he has a girlfriend I would think he's with her for a reason. But maybe after they break up talk to him about how you're feeling. YOU ask him if he can ever see you guys as more then just friends. You should be so scared about rejection. I promise you are going to have to learn how to deal with it sometime in your life... And ya know, He'll NEVER know how you feel until you tell him... Hope all goes well :) -Britty-

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Chriso61o answered Saturday August 7 2004, 7:16 pm:
deffintly take the chance....maybe hes scared to..you should be liek firty wiht him but still be yourself..but whats the worse that can happen?

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